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    Default I am getting to where I can't stand my familly (rant)

    I have to let this out before it comes out bad and on someone else. Well, this is for the only family I have which is my oldest sister and her husband. Right now I am going through a rough time and am forced to stay here. I clean her house for her and watch her kids almost every single day for her helping me out by letting me stay.

    What is pissing me off is, I don't have a regular job right now. I have been looking for one for over 2 months in this town so I don't get killed with gas. I have gone back to dancing and she knows about it, she don't mind that I do it, but she won't shut up about it. Her and her husband look at me and tell me how low stripping is. They ask if I like being treated like I am by customers. They say I am at the level of a slut while stripping. It makes me so mad and hurts my feelings. I just hate how they are being so ignorant and plain out MEAN! There was a sign at a fast food restaurant that they are hiring, I would rather dance than work there by far. I know its a job and I need to do what I can do, but dancing is what I can do right now until I can find something else. They won't stop telling me how dancing is so much lower than working there at that place making $7.00 an hour, if that. What REALLY hurts my feelings and makes me mad is that they say I am not better than working there, at the fast food place. I only have my GED. People with GED's aren't educated, I am not going to find a good job. I am not going to be able to find a job better than this fast food restaurant because I am not better than the fast food restaurant. They tell me I need to get it through my head that thats what I am going to have to deal with for now.

    Well I have posted my resumes online and have gotten some responses. I got a response yesterday for an assistant manager at an apartment complex in the next city. I call him and he tells me to come in for an interview. I told my sister about it and she asks why I think I am going to get that job, I only have my GED, people with only GED's don't get jobs like that. Pretty much just telling me I am not good enough for that job like she has been telling me that I am not better than fast food. Why the hell would he even email me then?

    I am getting to the point that I would rather leave and stay in my car until I get on my feet than deal with being treated like this. I am seriously thinking about it and not even talking to the bitch anymore.

    Sorry for this being so long, this is just for letting off steam purposes before I let it on on someone else and it turns out bad.

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    Family sucks...well part of it. There's always going to be people who bring you down,and it usually hurts the most from someone close. I find it mean that she is OK with you stripping but makes a point to talk badly about it. I can understand that you're living in her house, and if she didn't want you doing it. But it sounds like she's just using it to make herself feel better.
    Go to places and look around further. Honestly, fast food isn't that bad. You can move up quickly if you're smart, and therefore increasing you income. It's not that bad, but if you don't want to do it then don't. Don't let her convince you though that it's all you can do.
    Go out there and get a job, apply yourself 100 percent and get out of the house!
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    That really sucks honey. Your job sounds like it has nothing to do with it...they are just nasty mean spiteful hateful people and you would be better off to get out of there as soon as possible.

    What do THEY do thats so great?? What do you say when they spout off this disgusting abusive drivel??

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    Quote Originally Posted by michele_b View Post
    I have gone back to dancing and she knows about it, she don't mind that I do it, but she won't shut up about it. Her and her husband look at me and tell me how low stripping is. They ask if I like being treated like I am by customers. They say I am at the level of a slut while stripping.

    really? she's not even being particularly passive aggressive about it because that would require subtlety.


    edit: and yes they sound like just plain abusive people. you would be better off (depending on what you make at your club) moving into a weekly hotel for $230 a week, or hell-- moving into a woman's shelter if you can.

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    Yea, she says to me, her exact words. I don't mind you staying here and doing that but I wish you wouldn't. Then her bs lectures.

    Oh and CK, she doesn't even work. She won't work. Her husband drives a truck. I just tell them I know I am better than that. Then she argues and acts like she gets mad telling me how I am not. I just don't listen. She isn't going to bring me down, it makes me want to go out and get something really good even more just to see what she has to say then.

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    OK, has anyone else picked up on the fact that the OP has a job (albeit one the sister doesn't like), cleans the house _and_ takes care of the kids, but this sister doesn't work? What does _she_ do all day? Eat bonbons and complain? Sounds like the OP is doing the sister's job.

    My advice: Get out as soon as possible. Expect the bitch level to go up, especially when she doesn't have you around to take care of all her housework and childcare responsibilities. Best wishes.

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    Why the hell would family that loves you want you to be poor and stuck? She wants you to just work fast food? Get real! You ARE better than that.

    Gotta question the motives of someone who is dead set against you making a better life for yourself.
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    Leave now. You'd probably make more getting paid for housecleaning services part-time while you still dance- between those two things you're ALREADY DOING NOW, you can easily afford a place of your own. & Even if bad credit or no credit is an issue for apartment applications, someone would take you as a room mate. You can pay your part of the rent in cash ; P

    "Cinderella, Cinderella, wash the dishes, clean the floor, do the laundry..." Does your sister have big feet and a wart on her nose too? : p

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    Quote Originally Posted by boxingdoc View Post
    OK, has anyone else picked up on the fact that the OP has a job (albeit one the sister doesn't like), cleans the house _and_ takes care of the kids, but this sister doesn't work? What does _she_ do all day? Eat bonbons and complain? Sounds like the OP is doing the sister's job.
    Seriously...WTF DOES she do all day when you are doing everything FOR her AND working??? Shes a stay at home housewife/mother with a live in slave..THATS why she doesnt want you doing well..she'll lose her servant and actually have to lift a finger out of her ass once in awhile...

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine View Post
    Leave now. You'd probably make more getting paid for housecleaning services part-time while you still dance- between those two things you're ALREADY DOING NOW, you can easily afford a place of your own. & Even if bad credit or no credit is an issue for apartment applications, someone would take you as a room mate. You can pay your part of the rent in cash ; P

    "Cinderella, Cinderella, wash the dishes, clean the floor, do the laundry..." Does your sister have big feet and a wart on her nose too? : p
    Abso-fucking-lotely!

    I can't fathom people who talk to people they supposedly love like that. Have you used your big girl voice yet? Put your foot down and tell them that they ought to keep their opinions to themselves. If you've made it clear to them that they are being hurtful and they straight out don't care, pack your shit and leave. There are other options out there... and better roomates. Heck, if credit is the only problem, work your butt off to put down an extra large deposit somewhere.
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    Thanks for the nice responses everyone. I will update when Monday gets here after the interview to let you all know if I get that job. Oh and yes, I am getting out of here ASAP. Business is bad here and I haven't been doing the best with making money, plus my hustling skills could use some work. so I am going to do what I can and make getting out of here top priority.

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    Quote Originally Posted by michele_b View Post
    ...Right now I am going through a rough time and am forced to stay here. I clean her house for her and watch her kids almost every single day for her helping me out by letting me stay.

    What is pissing me off is, I don't have a regular job right now.
    homemaker's a job. in fact, a very important 'regular job'. don't let your sister and bol belittle that.

    like madmax said, that shit costs a lot.

    Quote Originally Posted by michele_b View Post
    .....I got a response yesterday for an assistant manager at an apartment complex in the next city. I call him and he tells me to come in for an interview. I told my sister about it and she asks why I think I am going to get that job, I only have my GED, people with only GED's don't get jobs like that.
    fuck her in her ears.

    nothing wrong with a GED. granted, people with more education are given a chance more often than people without but ime it depends on the person's personal abilities...always! i haven't yet seen where personal ability doesn't shine thru eventually.

    everyone gets trained for every job. no one walks in day-1 and knows shit from shinola. it takes a surgeon 7+ years to get out of internship (training) and residency (even more training!). you'll learn more on the job than any classroom can possibly teach you in twice the time.

    save up some money, maybe take a part-time job (more to "pad the resume"), don't burn the bridge with your sister, but also don't let them make you think you're not good enough.

    you're trying, in my book that already makes you better. good luck!

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    Ok update. I hope I got it. I could tell he liked me a lot and he talked to me forever. He was telling me EVERYTHING about the company. Then he asked me what I would like to be paid, I was like uhh, well... Then he was like well I have to talk to my boss before I can hire anyone and I have these interviews scheduled for tomorrow and Thursday. Then he was like, I am not going to hire anyone with experience cause they are already ruined (no experience here). Oh yea, when I answered the question of what I want to get paid he was like oh I can do better than that, then I said another number and he was like I can do better than that too but thats better.

    What do y'all think? I have never had an interviewer ask me those things. Do you think he just wanted to know or he is interested in hiring me? He said he would let me know by the end of the week but I don't wanna wait, I am too impatient. It seems he would have hired me on the spot, but not if he has to talk to his boss and has interviews scheduled too. I don't know lol.

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    I'm sorry hon:-(.My sister is the same way.Every conversation is"so when are you going to stop dancing?". My mom is just the same.

    Your sister might be jealous, maybe she's insecure about her body after having kids,idk....but her husband is waaaaay outta line there! They BOTH need to shut up and stop putting you down.

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