ok.. here's my pro/con list for the new club.
CLUB A:
PROS:
- flat tipout rate. club B you pay per dance. i made 800 before tipout tonight (which is 100 but he only charged my 50 since it was my first night, so i bought an outfit for 50). my best friend at club B told me she made 200 tonight and had the most dances.
-much much better music
- no ex bf or drama (well the drama could come but i havent seen it with anyone)
CONS:
-they can touch your boobs. i HATE this. SUPER uncomfortable with it and i already have no sex drive as it is. really, really, really dont like it.
-you have to go on stage a lot. they do 2 stages, 1 song on each stage.. so if there are 15 girls you go up every 15 songs. no dj, so you have to watch for when your turn is coming up. at club B theres no rotation.. they grab a random girl and say hey go up.. and you dont get pulled away from customers or lap dances.
-set hours. they close at 2. period. busy or slow. club B calls "last girl" and then it's lap dancing only.. anywhere from 1-2 on weeknights and after 2 on weekends.. so if you have a guy who wants 15 more dances he can do them. and if its dead they'll close so you arent sitting around doing nothing.
i wish i could work at both. but i cant. ive been at club B for a year and i'm a top girl there. but the load of AWFUL new girls is making it really shitty lately and the money is down. i know its work and its about money but its not just that easy to me, because i am close with my manager and my best friend works there, plus im close with the owners wife and im friends with the owner. (like i go to his kids bday party and im babysitting her next month.) i feel like theyre right in saying its a slap in the face for me to quit on them.. because they have done a lot for me. ive been in the owners face, drunk, telling him i hated him and his fucking club bc i had gotten in a fight with my ex. and he was really calm about it and asked how he could make me want to stay. whenever ive had a problem and gone to him with it, he tells me he loves me and does not want me to leave blah blah.. he's been really reasonable when sometimes i'm not. so it may be work, but its not that easy bc these are people i care about and i ENJOY going to see at work. it's hard, though, bc those friendships get in the way of making rules and stuff.
so.. what would you do? the touching thing is a BIG deal with me. yeah its more money (though this money used to be easy at my club too.. its just slow now) but i dunno if im going to adjust to that contact level. they can touch at club B, but only your butt and legs etc.. no crotch or boobs. i do NOT like having my boobs groped.. not one bit.
ETA: also - while i doubt that i'd be told i CAN'T come back if i went to club A for a while, it is a possibility. they're kind of "rival" clubs and i know thats why club A wants me so bad. they want to take girls from club B and our owner is reeeeal touchy when it comes to girls going there to work. esp since i didnt tell him and just did it. my manager knows, though, i think, and he did tell me in the past that it is a possibility our owner may say i can't come back. which i knew.. i dont think it'll happen but it could.



) but i dunno if im going to adjust to that contact level. they can touch at club B, but only your butt and legs etc.. no crotch or boobs. i do NOT like having my boobs groped.. not one bit.
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one, before i thought of that excuse, was like literally rubbing my scars.. i was like uh yeah about that...
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