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    Default I start at a new club tonight.

    I've been at the same club for the entire nine months of my stripping career. I've never even been INSIDE the other clubs in town. I've just been super loyal to my club and I have such a comfort zone there that I just never ventured elsewhere. But my earnings at the club have gone down considerably over the last month and finally I decided it was time to try another place, to see if I could make more. I auditioned at the new club in town on Tuesday, which was a weird and nerve-racking experience since I didn't even really have to audition at my first club, I just got hired on the spot. But the owner of the new club (who is dumb as a bag of rocks, by the way) asked me to come in Friday and Sunday night this week so here I am.

    I'm nervous as hell. I know it probably sounds weird that I am so nervous since most of you have jumped clubs a lot but this is the first time I'll be somewhere different and I feel like a total noob. I know how to hustle and I'm pretty comfortable with my game but I won't know any of the other girls and frankly, other girls scare me. I hate cattiness, I hate drama, and I try to be as nice as I can to everyone else but I hate the feeling of judgment by other women. I was always paranoid at my old club at first that the other girls were nitpicking me and it made my self-confidence go down a lot. I got way more comfortable after I'd been there a while but now I have to deal with these feelings all over again.
    Plus, I don't know if my hustle has to be different at a new place and the pole is spinning at this new place, which I am totally not used to as the pole at my home club is stationary.

    I don't know, I'm just super nervous to be starting at a new place and need some moral support.


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    Default Re: I start at a new club tonight.

    i get nervous and i've changed clubs.. lets see.. well, a lot. haha. the first year i danced, i worked at 5 clubs. two of them twice. i also worked a night or two at 2 other clubs in that time.

    this past year i've stuck at my club, and i recently worked at a diff place.

    i get nervous about changing no matter how many times ive done it! that's normal. esp since its your first move. you'll find out about the hustle and how things work and decide wht you like better.. and you can always go back to your first club if you decide it's a better fit.

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    im kinda in the same boat but i havent found a club to audition at really yet. but i feel the same. you say you have been dancing for 9 months? thats more than enough time for you to be confident in your dancing. you know you can dance,so just dance. i feel the same way everytime i step into another club other than mine. mostly becuz my home club is a tiny place with less than average reformed addicts pushing 40(no offense to the hot ones pushing 40) but u get my point. if i even see girls near my age range (im 21) i get excited. if they have liquor i get excited. if they have have fun i get excited and then if the girls can dance a little i feel like i have competition where at my club i dont. and thats a good thing to keep in mind. i get a little intimidated at first but then i think about my abilities and im not worried anymore. i know im a great dancer and im just great all around . keep telling that to yourself until you get lost in the music and you will be fine. PROMISE! but i wish you luck and make sure you let me know what happens!!
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    You will do great! Muah!

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    haha i just thought of something.. the first time i worked at a place with a spinning pole, i was upside down and spinning around.. but my head was going before the rest of me, so i kept going. and going and going. i couldnt stop myself. it was pretty funny!

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    Thanks for the support, girls.

    And britt, that's sooo what I'm afraid of! Every time I've gotten on a spinny pole I can't stop myself! At least not gracefully.


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    Good luck with the spinny pole! Just remember that you only need like 1/4 of the force when you start ANY move, then centrifigual force will take care of everything else.

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    Default Recap of the night.

    So I worked from 7-close at the new place last night. It was a very different experience from my home club. Not necessarily bad, not necessarily good either. The biggest difference for me was that it was a pretty high hustle club. My other club gets so slow at times that I can spend a couple of hours just sitting around being bored out of my skull and then by the time customers actually show up, I'm not even in the mood to try anymore--my motivation is gone. Well this place was busy from the time I got there 'til the time I left. Probably due to the fact that it just opened a week ago, but still--sooo not used to that!
    I saw a few regular customers from my old place and said hello to them. Had a couple of drinks. There were about 10-12 girls working, which is a lot more than I'm used to. I was on stage about once every 45 minutes, so I had to spend a lot of time in between trying to sell dances.
    I got used to doing the limited pole experience I do have on the spinning pole after a few times on stage. I just needed to get used to the speed of it and, like anomar said, not to throw myself onto it full force. I mostly do floor-work anyway, so I kind of stuck to that.

    The most frustrating part for me was that it was reallllly hard to sell dances. It was annoying because they're five dollars cheaper than at my old club so it made the custies who refused look even more like cheap-asses to me. I was hustling harder than I had in a long time because the club was busy and there were a lot of girls, so I knew if I just sat around like at my old club, I wouldn't make a penny.
    Still, every guy had an excuse. "Oh, I'm trying to cut back on my lapdances." "I'm on a budget." "I hate how it's such a tease, I'm gonna go home horny!" You know, the usual bullshit. After about an hour of talking to most of the guys and not being able to get a dance, I had to go to the dressing room because I thought I was gonna cry. I sat there taking deep shuddering breaths and convinced myself I was too fat and ugly to be a stripper. There weren't any other girls back there and after a little while I decided to get back out there and not be a loser in the DR.

    I went and sat with one guy who had apparently already gotten 4 dances from one other dancer. By this point I just wanted to make it to the end of the night without killing a customer. One of my dancer friends at my home club was texting me telling me to come over to the home club for the rest of the night and I was pretty tempted. But shockingly, the dude I was sitting with bought a dance with me! This improved my attitude immensely and I was back into full-hustle mode again after that. I sold three more dances after that.

    Stage tips were really good, I was pretty thrilled about that. I was kind of pissed at one point because we did a bachelor dance (tied a bachelor to the pole and all the dancers rub up on him for a song) and one girl took ALL of the tips thrown on the stage when we were all up there! She assumed that because it was right after her set that that money was hers! I was really annoyed--I didn't get on stage to make money for HER. At my home club, all the girls divide the money up evenly for a bachelor dance.

    Anyway. I made slightly more than I have been at my home club but it definitely wasn't enough for me, not even close to my old average before this whole...economy dive happened. So I don't know. I'm gonna go in a couple more nights and see if the money improves. Still gonna dance at my old club too. If the money doesn't get better, I'm out. I worked twice as hard as I do at my home club and it didn't make a significant difference at all. Mehhh.

    I wish money would get better in this town.

    edit--also, I just don't think that the song 'Rape Me' by Nirvana is an appropriate song to dance to in a strip club. Just a thought.


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    Oh! I totally forgot the weirdest part of the night!

    I was giving a dance to this one dude when one of the other dancers comes in with her custie. She comes over to me, obviously drunk, and slurs "That's my husband!! You'd better treat him good. You treat him good, ya hear?" Then, right in the middle of my dance--I mean I'm seriously on the guy's lap--she leans over and starts MAKING OUT with him right in front of me! I was so shocked, I didn't really know what to do. I didn't want to antagonize a woman who was on the verge of being a belligerent drunk. So I just sat there on the the guy and waited for her to finish tongue-choking him. She finally stumbled off of him and went over to her WAITING customer to give him his dance.

    Weirdest experience EVER. Later in the dressing room, she came over to me and in a really loud stage-whisper said "That wasn't really my husband!"

    ...WTF.

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    ^ Eek!

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