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    Because I get asked for sex/bjs all the time and I pretty much get offended and tell them im not a fuckin prostitute i only dance...this normally turns them off and Im turned off so the dances end..they leave after buying like 1-2 dances...any things I can say or do to get more dances from these guys or are they not worth my time since I already know what they want...?

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    I usually won't dance for them because it's not worth it to me but the occassion where I need the money I find they love dirty talk. I start with things like: "What would you do with me if you got me alone?" or "When I masturbate I think of......"

    I HATE doing this but sometimes when it's a slow night I'll do it.

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    If that's what he wants, it's what he wants..no point in trying to change his mind he won't..and it will leave you drained.

    If I get done dancing for a guy, and he's asking for sex, hotel/OTC, extras, I tell him honestly, "oh no I'm not that type of girl. I don't NEED to do those types to things."

    But honestly, I cant' remember the last time I've told a guy customer that...when I dance I want SILENCE! lol..I'll usually put my finger up to his lips and seductivly whisper, "shhhhh don't talk. I want your undivided attention"







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    ^ haha yeah I prefer silence too.

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    You have to string them along with cute "maybes" and "hmmm I dooon't know ". I don't really get too many guys dead serious on this though. I have guys who suggest it, but it's not what they came for, they're jsut horny guy.

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    After he asks, give him a funny look for a second or two, then burst out laughing and say "Wow, you said that with a totally straight face, like you were serious! I'm impressed! You should be an actor or something! Now let's keep dancing silly!".




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    Quote Originally Posted by Joplin View Post
    You have to string them along with cute "maybes" and "hmmm I dooon't know ". I don't really get too many guys dead serious on this though. I have guys who suggest it, but it's not what they came for, they're jsut horny guy.
    yeah, thats the route i take. If they''re trying to talk me into doing smthg in the club, i tell them "oh no i'd get in trouble" and if they're trying to get OTC I do the "we'll see"... I think acting mad and offended is counterproductive though. As long as they are paying they can try to talk me into whatever they want as long as they're not super grabby. I had guys stay in the CR for hours trying to talk me into having sex. (why, god, i don't know)
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    Default Re: Is there a way to hustle a guy that keeps asking sex/bj?

    you could say how about we go get a dances first and talk about that after.




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    I kind of look back over my shoulder at them toss my hair and say something like, "ohhh DADDY you're naughty " and wink at them. If they keep pesetering I just say "uh uh sweet heart I don't even kiss on a first date" and some crap like that. If they keep pestering more, I say "Well daddy, why cant you just be happy with having me here?" If they keep pestering, and stop spending, it's time to say tata. I'm never mean about it tho, because they might change their mind. I don't act offended, i'm just like, "Well darling I guess I'm not what you're looking for! Thank you for the dances have fun tonight " and wink and walk away.
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    Default Re: Is there a way to hustle a guy that keeps asking sex/bj?

    can you get in trouble for "maybes" though? like if it was vice?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    I tell him honestly, "oh no I'm not that type of girl. I don't NEED to do those types to things."
    Ooh I really like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    I kind of look back over my shoulder at them toss my hair and say something like, "ohhh DADDY you're naughty " and wink at them. If they keep pesetering I just say "uh uh sweet heart I don't even kiss on a first date" and some crap like that. If they keep pestering more, I say "Well daddy, why cant you just be happy with having me here?" If they keep pestering, and stop spending, it's time to say tata. I'm never mean about it tho, because they might change their mind. I don't act offended, i'm just like, "Well darling I guess I'm not what you're looking for! Thank you for the dances have fun tonight " and wink and walk away.
    I have never tried this but I think it will work. Thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    Ooh I really like that.
    Me too. I love it!

    This one guy wouldn't stop pressuring me to grind and it's not allowed at my club. He said "but all the other girls do it" and I replied "honey, I'm making more than all the other girls tonight so why would I want to do what they do?"

    I'm not normally bitchy and condescending towards my fellow dancers but it felt sooooo good to say it and he actually bought another dance.

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    Default Re: Is there a way to hustle a guy that keeps asking sex/bj?

    It's hard not to get pissed cuz those guys are usually gross and grabby... just the thought makes me gag. I usually stop and give them this bummed look and say "I just met you 3 minutes ago! You're laying it on way too thick! Relax and enjoy". The really annoying ones (grabby, persistant) I tell "before I can even consider that you have to treat me like a real lady!" that way you can get them on their best behavior so you can hustle a couple dances before you make a run for it.

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    There's some good lines in here, but I have to chime in:
    My daddy always told me growing up, when people show you who they are BELIEVE them. If a guy is just asking, and you can shut him down and keep taking his money, obviously do it. But if he's asking and nagging and grabbing you on the floor, just walk away. If you dance for a guy like that, you are probably going to be sexually assaulted.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    I kind of look back over my shoulder at them toss my hair and say something like, "ohhh DADDY you're naughty " and wink at them. If they keep pesetering I just say "uh uh sweet heart I don't even kiss on a first date" and some crap like that. If they keep pestering more, I say "Well daddy, why cant you just be happy with having me here?" If they keep pestering, and stop spending, it's time to say tata. I'm never mean about it tho, because they might change their mind. I don't act offended, i'm just like, "Well darling I guess I'm not what you're looking for! Thank you for the dances have fun tonight " and wink and walk away.
    I really like all of these lines! Very cute. However, I generally am asked for extras before I get the guy in the back... And if they are already asking about stuff like that I just walk away because even if I manage to convince them to buy a dance, they end up being way to grabby.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    If that's what he wants, it's what he wants..no point in trying to change his mind he won't..and it will leave you drained.
    Exactly. The customers that ask for this stuff are usually cheap asses anyway and not worth dancing for. I even think some of them don't mean it and it's just another form of "maybe later" to try to get rid of a dancer when she is hustling. I usually embarrass these types when they ask by saying really loudly "OH THIS ISN'T A BROTHEL" or "Can't u get sex? Is your only option to pay for it". I mean REALLY LOUDLY.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    Me too. I love it!

    This one guy wouldn't stop pressuring me to grind and it's not allowed at my club. He said "but all the other girls do it" and I replied "honey, I'm making more than all the other girls tonight so why would I want to do what they do?"

    I'm not normally bitchy and condescending towards my fellow dancers but it felt sooooo good to say it and he actually bought another dance.
    Awesome! I'm glad that line worked out for you! I think most men aim to get as much as they can for the least amount of money as possible. It never fails, the girl who does "less" always gets repeat dances. At least, in my experience.







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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPetite View Post
    can you get in trouble for "maybes" though? like if it was vice?
    I think it depends on where you live. In my current state, saying anything other than "no" can be a prostitution charge (that includes things like "maybe", "It would cost more than you can afford", and so on).

    I skate on the edge by first saying "legally, I'm required to tell you no. See, you could be an undercover cop and then I would be in serious trouble. But, they never do the champagne room. If we could go there where it's more private, then I could trust you and we can talk more." Technically, I'm pretty sure this is illegal in my state. Sometimes this works, sometimes if they are cheap then it won't.

    I will only do this for guys looking for OTC since it's easy to just push them off the topic. If they want something in the club it's too much of a hassle to hustle them and usually they end up being grabby at the least so I just tell them that I give good dances and that's all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    "Can't u get sex? Is your only option to pay for it". I mean REALLY LOUDLY.
    Yep...I try to joke it off,but if they are serious and insisting I say LOUDLY.."awww..thats so sad....no woman will touch you unless you PAY her.....you cant get laid unless you PAY a HOOKER" and walk away.

    I dont want to dance for those guys anyway..they are WAY too grabby and hard to handle.

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