so i'm not exactly a newbie but i haven't danced in like 3 yrs so it feels like it...
got any tips on how to get my confidence back?
i'm so nervous
so i'm not exactly a newbie but i haven't danced in like 3 yrs so it feels like it...
got any tips on how to get my confidence back?
i'm so nervous



- Practice in front of the mirror
- Dance around the house in your stripper shoes
- If you have a cam make a video to watch, see where you need improvement and what looks HOT!
- Pick some music for the club that makes you feel super sexy




I feel you, i'm auditioning in 1 hr eeek!!!
I have been doing positive mantras, even if i don't fully believe them I find they do boost my confidence. e.g "this is going to be so easy" "they will hire you on the spot" " you will be the best looking girl in the club".
It blocks out negative feelings you may be having.
And i am going to plaster a perma smile on tonight-fake it til you make it!




Do an amateur contest at a club that you don't care about working at. Good way to get your feet wet onstage again and get back in the club environment without any pressure. Chances are by the end of the contest you'll feel right at home in the club again.
~'A Seven Nation Army Couldn't Hold Me Back'~



Figure out exactly what it is that your confident about. If your not confident then that mens that you have questions.... you following my logic?
Now figure out what your questions are and then search search search SW until all of your questions are answered.
Uncertainty=questions And all questions have answers, sometimes they have more than one answer, you just have to keep learning until you know what to do!
If your worried that you don't know how to dance take some dancing lessons (i recommend ballet) And search for "dance moves" or "booty shake" (don't forget the quotations for terms longer than two words!)
If your worried about how you look check to the top of Newbie Section for the post " If you ask "Am I Too BIG, too OLD, too FLAT to strip?"
If your worried about what to wear search for "outfits"
Learning how to use the search function will help you IMMENSELY on this site. Most of the girls who hve been here for a long time may get upset if you start threads that have been covered so be sure to try the search function first!
If you need help thinking of search terms for some of your harder questions feel free to ask!![]()
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