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    Default lapdance moves in a conservative club

    I work in a conservative topless club. Guys cant touch at all, light grinding only, no standing up on the couches... I'm limited on my moves and need help spicing up my dances to they're not so repetitive.

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    Have a couple of your customers buy you dances from some of your favorite girls there. Every time I get a dance, I experience the LD in a whole new way and it makes me rethink the way i dance and discover new stuff. That, or just watch the other girls. Steal from the best!
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    Default Re: lapdance moves in a conservative club

    lots of eye contact, arm touching leg touching. play with their hair at the nape of their neck. sensual rules over slutty.

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    Don't forget winks and fuck-me faces! I hate seeing a girl giving a lapdance with that damn blank look. And I see it ALL the time.

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    Default Re: lapdance moves in a conservative club

    I second paintgoddess, great ideas.

    My club has some pretty conservative rules. Fully clothed, one leg on the floor at all times, light grinding only, light touching only in VIP or CR. I've found that one way to keep it interesting is to dance close then farther away. Spend a minute or so dancing somewhat close, then you can lean in and breath gently against his ear, then stand up about half a foot away so he can get a good look at you. Obviously, do this all slowly but varying how close and how far you are can help.

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    I like your suggestion Nikki. I already give a very intimate dance as far as eye contact, breathing on the neck and ears, running fingers through his hair. We have similar rules at my club so I stay as close as allowed also. But alternating distances can help break up the limited moves we can perform. I've picked up some moves from my coworkers, but some of them just look stupid or unflattering.

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    start by standing in front, then when you lean in, focus most attention on top: hair, eyes, touch their eyebrows, rub their ears, etc. Move onto neck/shoulders, maybe trace their arms a little. Scratch down their chest or their sides, pinch their hips a little, basically moving downwards, but then stop and turn or switch positions a little, maybe turn around, sit on their knee, bend over, whatever. Sit on one of their legs while you touch yourself, squeeze their knees. If you face away from them, you can scratch up their shins, a little farther up their thigh, and peek back at them flirtatiously.

    Lean backward onto them so you're facing away, but your head is resting on their shoulder and your faces are near each other- They get a good view of you caressing your chest or pretending to finger yourself. If you make some sounds, they can hear you best while you're near their ears.

    Towards the end, you can face them, put your knee on the seat (right between their legs but not necessarily grinding, you can just touch lightly), lean in really close to their face, and then slide down slowly, face to face with their boners. This will work better if you have long hair to blanket over your face and their crotch- I shake my head (it ruffles my hair) and i look up and smile at them and they tell me I'm killing them, hahaha. You don't have to touch anything- it works better that way. Sometimes I tickle their thighs lightly.

    If you time it about right, the song is about to end and you can hug their legs a little and ask them if they want to keep going. When they say yes, you can probably squeeze your boobs in celebration or something, do a little jiggle. Then you just stand up and try the rest of your moves, away from their penis, haha.

    If they wanted two songs in the first place, I take off half my clothes for the first song, half for the second, and try going for more.

    Another way to "end" a dance is to stand in front of them, sit on their lap slowly, do a little wiggle, or brush lightly from side to side, and then gyrate or bounce up and down very lightly. It should only last a few seconds at most, and then you suddenly turn and go "Oh NOOOOOOOoooOoo, the song is ending!!! I just got started" Sometimes you don't even have to ask, and they'll say "We'll go for another, keep going keep going"

    I always keep one foot on the floor, no need to do flips or anything.

    There are other variations to use, like stretching across their laps horizontally or diagonally, and doing some wiggles or spanking yourself that way, either face up or face down, try both! Take your time so you don't have to repeat much, in case they get more than 4 dances. I also have this anklet with bells on it, when I stretch across them horizontally, i can lift my feet up and shake these bells as I say "mmmm", it usually makes them chuckle.

    Sometimes, if they're gentlemen, I give them a little peck on the nose when I'm finished. Or they might want a hug when you're done getting dressed.

    Speaking of done, if they don't want any more dances, "really?" really, tell them it was fun and that you loved dancing for them, and if they're getting up, say "Oh wait! here's the Bonus Round- I have to get dressed again!" And use their lap as a chair while you put your clothes back on, seductively if possible (yeah, it sounds contradictory). If they like you (and think you like them) all the way to the end, they're more likely to tip extra, and/or come back for repeats.

    Hope these work for you-

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    lilymiaomiao, that is a great post!! I wish all newbies could read that. It is awesome! I do that dance you described about 80% of the time, with lots of nuzzling thrown in there too.

    And this:
    "Oh NOOOOOOOoooOoo, the song is ending!!! I just got started"
    I am totally stealing! I can just hear myself saying it, kinda pouty and genuine.

    I love it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by holiday View Post
    lilymiaomiao, that is a great post!! I wish all newbies could read that. It is awesome! I do that dance you described about 80% of the time, with lots of nuzzling thrown in there too.

    And this:
    I am totally stealing! I can just hear myself saying it, kinda pouty and genuine.

    I love it.

    hahaha thanks, i'm glad you like my work!

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