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    I went to VIP last night with 2 other dancers, and a group of 2 men and a woman. They seemed normal enough, and came to the conclusion to go to VIP pretty quickly (BTW, 3 girls and 3 guests in VIP for an hour is $2100 if you put it on your card). They were all co-workers from out of town, here for a convention.

    The ugly guy of the group said the woman was his wife, and when we got to VIP, he informed me the goal for the hour was to get her topless. He was absolutely adamant about it, to the point of being pushy. He was also very grabby and huggy with me right in front of her, which I thought was strange.

    He kept getting her shots and making her do them. He even physically tried to lift up her shirt at some point. I could tell she was uncomfortable, so I told the guys she and I were going to the bathroom to "make out". When we got to the bathroom she was practically crying. She tells me she was just playing along, the ugly guy is not her husband but her BOSS and he was MAKING her come here and do this. She was so cool and so nice to us, most women are such hateful bitches towards dancers and discourage guys from going to VIP. She called her real husband and was in trouble with him for not returning his call. Turns out her boss who is sexually harassing her is married, too. She said she had to talk to her husband for a while, so I went back to VIP and they renewed for ANOTHER hour. I told her she was on the phone with their babysitter and there was a problem with their kids - should you go talk to her? The ugly dude told me "No, go get her out of the bathroom".

    When I went to the bathroom, she was crying on the phone - she was in BIG trouble with her real husband. She said she wanted to leave, so I told her to go out front and talk to a certain bouncer about finding her a safe cabbie.

    I went back to the room and said "She's gone, I don't know where she went." Ugly dude went and looked for her, and when he came back he seemed really quietly angry but just said "She's tired, no big deal".

    What an asshole! She's his subordinate, and she was probably afraid to stand up for herself in fear of losing her job. Some women customers are nice to dancers, especially when they know what it's like to be treated like a whore.
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    Wow, that is absolutely horrible.

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    What an asshole ! That is so horrible, I wonder why she would let him be that way with her though?

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    Quote Originally Posted by *Iris* View Post
    I wonder why she would let him be that way with her though?
    Her job's on the line.

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    I hope she sues him for sexual harassment and wins. What an ass.

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    That's awful! Poor girl! Good on you for saving her, at least for one night.

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    How uncomfortable for her. Did you slide her a receipt for the $2100 in case she was interested in some point at showing the dudes wife / use it in the sexual harrassment fight ? Good for you for being kind to her . Poor thing.

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    I understand her job is "on the line", but she's going to have to figure out where to draw the line......How far would she let him go, to save her job? You know what I mean? Sounds like what happened is already affecting her marriage - poor lady. She'll have to put her foot down sooner or later.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissDewdrop View Post
    I hope she sues him for sexual harassment and wins. What an ass.
    Seriously. And I hope her boss gets beaten and castrated in a dark alley.
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    That's terrible
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    That poor woman. I hope she speaks with an attorney ASAP. She's obviously afraid of losing her job but no one has the right to treat an employee like that. If he treats her badly, just think of what this asshole may do to his poor wife or girlfriend if anyone is misfortunate enough to be involved with him.

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    Wow.....how horrible....

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    I wonder what kind of work she does. It's really hard for me to imagine that kind of sexual harassment in this day and age. It would be very easy for her to make a recording or frame him somehow and sue the shit out of that company for sexual harassment. Hell, I'd be happy if a boss tried that shit on me. Lawsuit!

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    Yeah. she could get video from the club and testimony from VS. Put that fucker in his place.

    Lawsuit!

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    That was so caring of you to sneak her out of there with you. God. How crazy though. God to think in her job, she has it worse than strippers do as far as being harassed.
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    Why would she even go to a strip club with someone that sexually harrasses her? She should be smart enough to not even put herself in that situation. I really can't say I feel sorry for her as she is a grown woman and should be able to stand up to someone, they are probably sleeping together or something too. There are 2 sides to every story and this one just smells fishy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MeanGirl View Post
    Why would she even go to a strip club with someone that sexually harrasses her? She should be smart enough to not even put herself in that situation. I really can't say I feel sorry for her as she is a grown woman and should be able to stand up to someone, they are probably sleeping together or something too. There are 2 sides to every story and this one just smells fishy.
    Yeah I have to agree after thinking about it it really made me think and I just can't feel sorry for people like this.

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    What a freaking asshole. I feel so bad for her

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    Yeah in our jobs we can just walk away from this.

    I hope she finds another job so that she CAN walk away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MeanGirl View Post
    Why would she even go to a strip club with someone that sexually harrasses her? She should be smart enough to not even put herself in that situation. I really can't say I feel sorry for her as she is a grown woman and should be able to stand up to someone, they are probably sleeping together or something too. There are 2 sides to every story and this one just smells fishy.
    I see where you are coming from but this seems insensitive and hasty. It's easy to be judgemental like this, but the truth is none of us really know what's going on, what kind of extenuating circumstances there are, etcetera. There are unimaginable possibilities that can keep a person in an uncomfortable place. In addition, it wasn't her who was acting so disgusting; even if it's her own stupidity that keeps her from quitting, victims of harassment still deserve sympathy and compassion.

    And the assumption about them probably sleeping together? I don't even know what to say.

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    He must be blackmailing her or something bigger than just her job. I don't know too many people who would keep a job like that for any reason especially if she has a husband. If they have kids and the husband can't work so she's all the family has there's always a church or family or friends that can usually help.

    She must be getting paid an outrageous amount of money for whatever she does for her not to leave, or the boss has something on her she doesn't want any one to know.

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    ^^Agreed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    Her job's on the line.
    Ya. Worst reason ever.

    No job is worth that. Period.

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    Im glad you realised something wasnt right and looked after her!!!
    What a cunt though - and the rest of the group for not stepping in. I hope she files a sexual harrassment case against him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sirona View Post
    Ya. Worst reason ever.

    No job is worth that. Period.

    Ever.
    I'm not saying it's justified. I'm just putting more responsibility on the boss than on the woman.

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