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    Okay... So I know what these girls are doing. They're arent dirty enough to be extras girls. And they alll arent the most beautiful girls in the club. I do okay. my average dance count is around 40-60 dances a night.. which is a little above average for my club. These girls are always clearing 60-120 dances a night... So I found out how. Their secret is that while they're dancing for someone they're licking and kissing ears and necks and just being very sensual. (We're a full contact club, with the exception of the guys touching our breasts or bottoms..and we're strict about this...but its heavy grinding...)

    This is against the rules at my club but i can see how these girls can hide doing it.. or if it is seen, it's looked past because its all usually done while the girl is spending hours in the CR. I honestly WISH i could do this but i cant. the thought of licking or kissing any of these guys...especially their ears, makes me wanna yak...i cant bring myself to do it...

    would you? is this normal in other clubs?

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    Default Re: so i know my clubs top earner's secret..and i cant do it..

    i def do it in the CR. as long as the guy is cute. we get a lot of good looking guys so makes it easy. obviously if the guy was fat and smelly no way. but like giggling and a tiny moan into their ear as you dance isn't as gross as licking but helps get the job done. guys love if they think you're actually enjoying dancing for them, obvi.

    Also its very normal at my club.
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    the secret isnt that the are lickign ears or necks. the secret is that they are provind the fantasy that they are interested in the guy and being very sensual. this is how I always did so well without ever allowing any breats touching I can give a very sensual lapdance....no, i dont lick necks or ears, but i may nibble a bit on their earlobe, or gently blow on their neck or something...to me, this way is more comfoprtable to me than allowing touching, which im not comfortable with.

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    Are dances 20/each?
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    Just breathe on their necks. It's hotter than saliva.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Peanut_Butter View Post
    the secret isnt that the are lickign ears or necks. the secret is that they are provind the fantasy that they are interested in the guy and being very sensual. this is how I always did so well without ever allowing any breats touching I can give a very sensual lapdance....no, i dont lick necks or ears, but i may nibble a bit on their earlobe, or gently blow on their neck or something...to me, this way is more comfoprtable to me than allowing touching, which im not comfortable with.
    ...and running your nails gently down his neck, giving a little mini-massage to the nape of his neck, running your fingers through his hair and very lightly pulling it a little...

    This needs to be another thread all its own..."how to make your dances uber-sensual."
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    oh i know its not just the licking and kissing it self... and I'm not a prude dancer.. i do everything WITHIN the rules. I get close, heavy breathing, moaning...ill even fake it.. but i cant bring myself to put something in my mouth, or to lick or kiss..etc... maybe im a little germaphobic but it just grosses me out. cute or not. sure it'd be easier if they're cute. but the guys who usually spend the most arent cute young guys..

    and the dances at my club are 10-15 dollars...thats why the averages sound so high...

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    Default Re: so i know my clubs top earner's secret..and i cant do it..

    If they are cute or I have a good vibe that they won't grab, I nuzzle necks ( rub my cheek / forehead side against their neck and around their ears or cheeks ). I don't touch my lips on their necks though and my tounge stays in my mouth obviously.

    As a customer, I do not like breathing on me / into my ear ect. It feels contrived and silly to me for some reason if it's even the slightest bit overdone. I do like nuzzling though, so I just do what I would enjoy if I were a customer.
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    I prefer sensual to sexual any day. I won't talk dirty, I won't moan, and I can't fake it so I think it's just a different style of dancing. I won't kiss a guy on the neck for just one dance but if we are in the CR then perhaps. Never licking anything though, not even an ear. Usually I just rub my nose along their necks and everything is very slow to start. I've been accused of kissing customers because I will bring myself close to them and let my hair fall around us. Also, I have put my fingers on their lips and then kissed my fingers. Lots of guys really like it but I'm not actually kissing them. I won't blow into any one's ears but I will bring myself close enough where they can hear me breathing.

    The big thing is though is that every time I do that I pull away so they can see me smile. I think just nuzzling isn't going to do it. They have to see that you "really" like it.

    A few weeks ago, I was getting several dances from a guy and we were going super slow and sensual while the girl next to us was going hard and heavy with her guy. Finally, her guy cracked up and said "how come we don't look like we're in love?" I thought it was cute.

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    Default Re: so i know my clubs top earner's secret..and i cant do it..

    ^ Cute !

    I do pull back to gauge their reaction ( I also do the stare at them things and let my hair fall around us while we are face to face move ). We seem to have a really similar dance style. I usually don't stray from it, because I just don't like fast jerky movements as a customer. I guess that some men probably like this style and some aren't big on it .
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    I prefer sensual to sexual any day. I won't talk dirty, I won't moan, and I can't fake it so I think it's just a different style of dancing. I won't kiss a guy on the neck for just one dance but if we are in the CR then perhaps. Never licking anything though, not even an ear. Usually I just rub my nose along their necks and everything is very slow to start. I've been accused of kissing customers because I will bring myself close to them and let my hair fall around us. Also, I have put my fingers on their lips and then kissed my fingers. Lots of guys really like it but I'm not actually kissing them. I won't blow into any one's ears but I will bring myself close enough where they can hear me breathing.

    The big thing is though is that every time I do that I pull away so they can see me smile. I think just nuzzling isn't going to do it. They have to see that you "really" like it.
    Yep, you will not become a top earner if you simple start sucking on each guys ear lob, but you absolutely will sell more dances if you make them uber sensual.

    I don't even show guys my pussy (we're nude) or grind, I just stare at them, smile a ton and spend most of my time centimeters from their face. That's what they seem to like. Of course their are the exceptions, if a guy is shy about making eye contact or is into more of a trashy, energetic dance, I'll do that...but the sensual dances seem to be the ones you can seriously stack up.
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    Wait, 60-120 private dances? Like whole song dances? I can't fathom how it would be possible to do that many in 6 or 8 hours. I can do 25-30 on a good night, but more than that would be insane.

    I agree with doing the sensual routine. Guys love that shit. I really should have won an Oscar for the performance I gave the other night. I had this old guy thinking I was really turned on by him, I was making faces and everything. He ate it up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Wait, 60-120 private dances? Like whole song dances? I can't fathom how it would be possible to do that many in 6 or 8 hours. I can do 25-30 on a good night, but more than that would be insane.
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    that's a shit ton of dances, there wouldnt even be enough customers for that to be possible (taking into consideration other dancers) at my club some nights.
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    How can that many songs even be possible in a shift? That is nuts. They must have 2-minute songs or something.

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    6 custies each buying 10 dances perhaps? If the club plays 3 min. songs that would make 10 songs a half hour(10 x 3 = 30)or 20 songs per hour...
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    It's possible when selling $10 dances for sure.

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    you dont have to do that to make money and be a top earner. trust me. sensual wins, not slutty. and you get to keep your dignety.

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    Yes, the guys are not into them simply because they lick his ear. I mean, I can walk up to a guy, slobber all over the side of his neck and trust me, it wouldn't be sexy.

    They are buying the passion, the feeling the girl is putting out, that she is turned on too, that she wants him, etc...

    When I give a guy a dance I'll run my hands into his hair, hold onto it, narrow my eye and look right at him then move in like I'm about to kiss him because I just HAVE to kiss him! (mind you I have a handful of his hair in case he gets too excited about it all!) and stop just short of kissing him, smile a little, maybe sigh, as if saying "oh.. that was so close."
    I'll even go so far as to put my finger against his lips and say softly "Mmm, nice lips..."

    I'll press my forehead into his neck, while holding the other side of his neck and drag my nose up his jawline, breathing softly and pushing my hand up into his hair again.

    I'll grab a handful of his shirt, lean in close and sort of pull him to me at the same time, "grabbing him up" and then release him quickly, like I was about to do something naughty and thought better of it.

    All of those things I think make guys feel like I am just as into the dance as tey are about getting one. There are some guys who love that "ass-popping" leg in the air, tricky shit, and I can't do it. Never have, never will be able to. So this is whatI work with, and it works for me.
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    I noticed a HUGE increase in repeat dances once I learned to act and LOOK interested during dances. It really captivates the men and diverts their attention from the level of contact they are receiving to how sexy you are. If only I can be more flirtatious and "interested" in conversation with complete strangers...

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    yes iknow about passion and sensuality and i do all that too..whatever the situation calls for.. but if these girls are taking it up a notch..being passionate and sensual AND throwing in some kisses and licks..you cant compete with that..

    yeah our songs are 2 1/2 minutes long..

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    I guess the point is that if it were that easy to be a top earner, none of us would be wasting our time reading sales books and perfectly our hustle.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    I guess the point is that if it were that easy to be a top earner, none of us would be wasting our time reading sales books and perfectly our hustle.
    Exactly...if all it took were that, I'd be one biting slobbering fool!




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    Also two very important things: EYE CONTACT throughout conversation and the dance\
    and REMEMBERING THEIR NAME AND USING IT SO THEY KNOW YOU ARE LISTENING TO THEM. One very useful sales tactic: Nothing sounds better to the customer than hearing their own name. I even lost sales for not remembering their name.

    Both of these work extremely well and increased my earning potential when I did pay attention and apply it.

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    exactly, their name is so important, you really can't say it enough. plus the more they say your own name, the more they feel like they know you and should take care of you, rather than you being another random stripper just after their money (heaven forbid!).

    if i realize i forgot a guy's name within 5 minutes i def ask again and just go like, "i'm so sorry but what's your name again?" like its really important, and i really feel bad for forgetting. and they are most of the time like "oh its blah blah, what's yours again?"

    so that helps even if you don't remember right away i think its better to ask then to call him "hunny" the whole time

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