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    margin of error on STD tests?

    I'm trying to figure out WTF to do right now.

    I just had my annual exams and tests just a little bit back, and came up clean. However, a previous fuck buddy, who i haven't had sex with since BEFORE that exam, just wrote me to say that he tested positive for chlamydia and is SURE he got it from me.

    So... my test says I'm clean, but he swears i'm his only sex partner in several months, and he has it. I've been REALLY sick lately, and throwing up a lot, so the idea of going on a string of meds for it really makes me hysterical. I'm sick and fucking tired of vomiting. Not to mention, money is tight, and i really can't afford this. Insurance turned down a number of my old dr visits so now i'm trying to figure out how to deal with nearly a grand in last years medical expenses.

    Anyone who's in nursing school know what could be going on here? Is it likely that i could be positive, but still test negative, or that the test was an error?

    So timeline for this.

    Sleep with tyler(with protection)
    1 week later get exams(coincidental-i realized i hadn't been in since hte follow up for my IUD)
    2 weeks, exams are clean
    3 weeks Tyler swears he got it from me.
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    Default Re: margin of error on STD tests?

    I dont know about the margin of error or how long chlamydia takes to show up, but how can he be positive he got it from you? It is basically symptom-less in guys, unless he had a clean test before sleeping with you and slept with noone else before getting tested again he is full of crap. He could have had it for years and never known... Also it is pretty hard to contract if using a condom... is he prone to drama and bullshitting because it does seem weird to me that he is swearing it must have been from you if you guys were using protection.


    In any event, get checked again for chlamydia, if you have it it is only a short course of anti-biotics nothing drastic at all. Oh and also most std test dont include testing for chlamydia... so maybe just confirm that you were actually tested for that.
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    My thought was that he MIGHT be just bullshitting-he admits to having a massive fear of STDs, and he developed feelings for me as more than a FB, which is why i broke it off. I don't know if he would try this to isolate me, or to keep in contact, when i already told him i would feel uncomfortable being around him knowing his feelings for me.

    They DID check for it, because I had been talking to the dr about some other weird things happening with me. I have very sensitive skin down there, probably as a result of doing most of my work and hobbies naked, so i know its exposed to a lot and gets ingrowns, bumps, etc. easily. ALso, i'd noticed a slightly different discharge right before my test was done. They thought it must just be a different point at my cycle. I haven't looked it up online yet.

    I hit kind of a panic point when he mentioned the pills. LIke, i don't want kids anyways, sterility doesnt concern me, but pills DO freak me out with how queasy i've been lately.

    I do have the mirena though, and i guess i should get it rechecked.
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    Default Re: margin of error on STD tests?

    Well, since you're the only one of us who knows this guy, you're the one to best judge how crazy he is. He could be in denial about who or how he otherwise got it or he could have even had it from before you. Maybe he had a homosexual experiance and doesn't want to face it. I wouldn't worry if you came out clean but just get tested again to be sure. There's not harm in that and the chances for two falsies is probably pretty near impossible.
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    You've tested negative for chlamydia, therefore you did not give it to him.Tell him to get real and go point the finger at somebody else who hasn't very recently tested negative.

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    More and more, I'm thinking it IS him trying to turn something into a bonding ritual.

    Like, he's in my email asking me when i'm going to get checked, and offering to take me to the clinic, and getting lunch after...

    Dude.. The reason you were only a casual fuck is because your BORING and i cant stand hearing you TALK! Thats a really sneaky way to go about trying to "spend time" with me, since i've said i don't want to encourage your feelings!

    But yeah, i think at least part of it IS him wanting something to hold "over" me.

    Lame. I sure do know how to pick em don't I?
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    You had your test 1 week after sex?
    Chlamydia can incubate for up to 6 weeks after sexual contact. The typical incubation period is 2-6 weeks, but possibly longer. So it is possible you are infected, but it was tested to soon for a positive result. Typicially it is recommended that if a partner tested positive for chlamydia, you should automaticially get treated with the antibiotics, regardless of test results.

    So I would suggest you go back to the doctor, inform them that you had recently had sex with someone who claims o have tested positive and they should give you the meds to cure it.

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    WEll, one week after the last time we had sex. Point being, we didnt have sex AFTER i got the negative result back.

    Since i've been sleeping with this guy for a few weeks before that, it seems like the incubation time should have been a bit longer, and it should have showed up.

    I don't give a fuck, i'm getting the meds anyways, but i'm REALLY furious at this asshat.
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    Yeah I'd wait a week or so and get retested. Dont worry though..a handful of antibiotics(one time dose) and you are fine. As STD's go...its the least annoying to deal with. Its the only one I've ever had...and I had it cleared up in a day.

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    ^ yup. I had it too and they gave me this liquid antibiotic right in the office to drink, like a shot full of it and that was it.

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    Just make sure if you really don't want to encourage him that you decline his offer of basically "spending the day together getting tested, lunch, etc". Tell him you can do it on your own and you really don't want to hang out.

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    So i'm still trying to nap/relax the nausea from the meds off. Yuck, feel like shit.

    At any rate, i went by myself, and I talked to the counselor there as well, adn she agreed, that it sounds like i have low/minimal risk, and that he was probably trying to cover up for his OWN actions/risks by blaming/clinging to me. It makes me feel a bit better.

    So yay for not having to worry.

    Now i wish i'd remembered to ask if taking exceptionally long baths was healthy, while my body's killing the bacteria(if its there). I know she wanted against douching, but i didn't seen anything about that. Sigh. I want a bath.
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