
Originally Posted by
Chrissy68
*OTC: you are a stripper. that means it's ok to give out some SS (stripper shit). it comes with the territory. following are some scenarios and how to cope/deal, imo.
1. i just want to take you out to dinner. you are really sweet/nice/smart/sexy etc!
>before a dance: "well, i dont really do that with people that i meet in here. i have been burnt (even if you haven't, have a story prepared). so i like to take it slowly. but, i woudl like to show you my sexy/beautiful talent at lap dancing... so can i? (sultry smile)"
>during a dance: "i dont know.. let's start out bby getting to know each other here for now, this is a very safe environment for me and i've been burnt."
essentially, play up the "ive been burnt by meeting guys OTC" and i need to be comfortable with you first. throw in phrases like "thanks for respecting that," and you will avoid OTC well.
*on the OTC note.. numbers: if asked for yours DO NOT give it out. give out an email. you want all the control.. so say you'd like to start out with your email addy. set up one for JUST customers. when the email comes in and it reads that they want to see out OTC, you can word it JUST right that you aren't ready for that ("yet" is optional) and need to be comfortable with him, and you've just met him. plus throw in, you've been burnt. you *can* take his number, but calling him ONLY to bring him in shoudl happen from the club's dressing room phone.
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