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    Default When guys want to take it further..

    Now I'm not just talking about asking for sex here ladies, I wanna know what everyone says to the guys who want to "get to know us outside of the club", or actually feel wronged by the fact they need to part with hard cash to spend a lot of time with us in the club.

    Now, I know my style is fucked for starters. I can't seem to keep my EOTP! I'll chat about anything, and I can be quite charming too - like genuinely interested in their wife/kids/job/ideas about life. Maybe I'm not cut out to be a stripper, because a LOT of the time they are kind of put off after a few minutes chatting and the idea of me getting naked for them leaves them feeling embarrassed! Embarrassingly!

    I think the main problem is after the Hi, how you doin, my name is.. I don't know how to fill the next few minutes with sexy, prep for the question (or statement!) of taking them for a dance, WITHOUT getting them too involved.. I need tips on keeping the convo light and sexy.

    ALSO what do you girls say to keep him spending when he's so into you that the club scenario is turning him off?? They love me too much and it's not making me any fuckin money!!! AAAAAAAAAGH


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    Default Re: When guys want to take it further..

    Hi, welcome to SW. Familiarize yourself with Hustle Hut, because there are a lot of threads on this topic. Here is a post I made (stickied at the top) on the OTC subject:

    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    *OTC: you are a stripper. that means it's ok to give out some SS (stripper shit). it comes with the territory. following are some scenarios and how to cope/deal, imo.
    1. i just want to take you out to dinner. you are really sweet/nice/smart/sexy etc!
    >before a dance: "well, i dont really do that with people that i meet in here. i have been burnt (even if you haven't, have a story prepared). so i like to take it slowly. but, i woudl like to show you my sexy/beautiful talent at lap dancing... so can i? (sultry smile)"
    >during a dance: "i dont know.. let's start out bby getting to know each other here for now, this is a very safe environment for me and i've been burnt."

    essentially, play up the "ive been burnt by meeting guys OTC" and i need to be comfortable with you first. throw in phrases like "thanks for respecting that," and you will avoid OTC well.

    *on the OTC note.. numbers: if asked for yours DO NOT give it out. give out an email. you want all the control.. so say you'd like to start out with your email addy. set up one for JUST customers. when the email comes in and it reads that they want to see out OTC, you can word it JUST right that you aren't ready for that ("yet" is optional) and need to be comfortable with him, and you've just met him. plus throw in, you've been burnt. you *can* take his number, but calling him ONLY to bring him in shoudl happen from the club's dressing room phone.
    As for the other stuff, look on this page and the next for some conversation threads, I know there have been some recently.

    Love it!

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    Default Re: When guys want to take it further..

    That's some pretty good advice, cheers Chrissy

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