I met a good regular on my second dance shift ever. He spends good money and is very respectful but constantly wants to hang out on the floor.
I don't mind the occasional "having a drink for free" with a good regular who is buying dances from me (our club has no VIP) but the time:money ratio at the beginning was way too low.
Now that I am more experienced and know better, I don't know how to "retrain" him. I can't negociate because this guy views us as "friends" and I can't shatter that. Sometimes I'll use the "Oh, I have to get to work. I'd love to sit and chat longer but rent is due!" but I can't do this everytime.
He also keeps asking me to meet up with him for lunch/dinner before we meet at the club. I have done this in the past, for better or for worse, but only on special occasions such as his birthday or when we went shopping and he bought me an expensive gift. I can't keep making "I'm busy" excuses.
I messed up and I know better now. How do I fix this?



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