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    Default Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    So last night went really well for me...I was the top earner at my club last night...YAY!!! I was really excited about that. Well, I spent almost the whole night with this one guy who was really weird, and IMO, a little on the obsessive and stalker side. I made most of my $$$ off of this guy...he bought me drink after drink after drink which made my drink commission go really well. I am also proud of myself because I only had 1 drink last night...YAY again!

    SOOO, after I get off of stage, I go over to make my hustle. About 10 min later, this guy is talking about how much he likes me, how I'm the girl of his dreams, and that he wants to do SOOO much to me...so I'm like whatever...act like I give a damn and laugh and play into it. But the longer the night went on, the more "obsessive" he became. He pushed other girls away, refused to tip any of them, and when I went to the bathroom to take a potty break, he actually got the barmaid to come back to the DR and tell her that I need to hurry up because he's not done talking to me...

    So I go back, even though I don't want to because he's been acting like an ass and acting way to weird...but at the same time, I was BANKING off of this guy. The girls were like, "You better stay your ass over there and make that $$$."... So I did. So, he keeps asking me for a date and I say no, then he gets mad and says that I'm fucking him over...whatever. I just want my $$$.

    The whole night he was getting way out of line...he got mad because he couldn't put the money into my thong...(on nightshift if we don't have a garter the tips have to be thrown on stage), he got mad because he wanted to kiss me and I ABSOLUTELY would NOT let him...(EWWW!!!)...and when he 1st walked into the club, he came in wearing headphones because he didn't like the music we were playing...(which was no different than what he was listening to on his IPOD)...so after like being in the club for 5 hrs, he decides to leave...I was SOOO relieved...

    Now I've had my fair share of "You're so pretty"..."I like you" type of talk, but never "You're the girl of my dreams" and "I would do anything for you"...It really made me paranoid. Trust me, if you were to talk to this guy in person, it would creep you out too.

    So he knows that I work dayshift today...I'm not complaining because he is a potential customer and thats perfectly fine with me...but I don't know how much of the "I'm in love with you" talk I can tolerate any longer. Everyone knew he was a weirdo when he 1st walked in. It's really my 1st experience with someone like that. Honestly, I was paranoid that he was going to be waiting outside until the club closed...I don't know...I know its stupid but in a way its kind of scary for me because I've never dealt with a customer like this before.

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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    the i love you talk will never stop.

    i suggest you get used to it, or get out of the business

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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    I mean, I've learned how to deal with it...it's really that this particular guy in general was creepy. But I've also learned that the weird ones are the ones who have $$$...lol.

    Boy, I guess no one can ever get enough "I love you" talk huh? Just what I need...

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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    I generally put up with this behaviour until either a) he runs out of money or b) it's not worth his money anymore. I think you may have reached stage b before a.

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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    What a wierdo. When the obsessive types come in just keep being his company until the money starts slowing down, which it usually does once they start asking for kissing (Yeah EEW) or whatever...then tell him it's time for you to go make some moer money but expect them to act pouty and maybe even get mad...just ignore them from then on.

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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    I've had my share of guys like that. I don't doubt that it creeps you out so it's up to you, but I would continue to take his money. Definately make sure a bouncer walks you out to your car, though. Just take extra precautions. Make sure no one follows you home.
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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    Definately make sure a bouncer walks you out to your car, though. Just take extra precautions. Make sure no one follows you home.
    I was just gonna say that. Girls have been tailed home by creeps from my club before, even though we get escorted out. You just never know if he's just a little lonely and hopeless, or a full out psycho so be careful.

    And remember: if the money stops, he doesn't really love you.

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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    I would suggest that if you are afraid of him, you consider why. If he is scary - is it a good idea to be trailing him along? I mean, if he does not seem full out psycho to you, how clearly does he understand his role in your life?
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    And remember: if the money stops, he doesn't really love you.
    best line ever.
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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    lol, he brought his own music!! hahhahah, i never heard anyone going to sc to listen to music.

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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    And also be sure of who you work with. Some girls will sell you out: tell customers your real name, where you live, etc.

    Remember everything/one has a price. I had a stalker a few years back, and it was either girls selling me out or dropping my personal info that allowed him to show up at my place for months (without knowing who it was.)

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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    Talk about skeevy..
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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    Well, just come to find out yesterday that this guy came back into the club looking for me. I work dayshift and I worked nightshift the time that he paid a visit. One of the girls told me that he came up to her and asked if I was there. When she told him no, he immediately turned around and left.

    I don't know about this one...I mean, he did tip me REALLY well and bought me alot of drinks...no alcohol of course. But something about him makes me suspicious. Now I'm kinda paranoid to even work a night again. From what I've heard also, he was there the the previous day looking for me.

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    Default Re: Ok...now I'm officially creeped out and paranoid.

    Quote Originally Posted by MissNicole21 View Post
    Well, just come to find out yesterday that this guy came back into the club looking for me. I work dayshift and I worked nightshift the time that he paid a visit. One of the girls told me that he came up to her and asked if I was there. When she told him no, he immediately turned around and left.

    I don't know about this one...I mean, he did tip me REALLY well and bought me alot of drinks...no alcohol of course. But something about him makes me suspicious. Now I'm kinda paranoid to even work a night again. From what I've heard also, he was there the the previous day looking for me.
    I've had a regular do that but I wasn't creeped out by him, he never tried to get personal info from me or said he loved me.

    Don't let him scare you out of your job though, they can remove him if he makes you uncomfortable.

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