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    Default UGHHH!!!!!! *WARNING* LONG rANT AHEAD...

    Ok so before i start on my rant i just want to say that i think ive come to the realization that im a pussy when it comes to traveling alone! As i said in a previous post i live in butt fuck,VA. and there is no work here!!! EVERYWHERE is either seedy and ghetto or picky and not accepting apps from the darker persuasion...THIS SHIT BITES!!!!! im struggling to pay my bills, i mean seriously last month's rent didnt get here til 2 weeks ago. and i had to pull the sugar daddy card. not that it was that big of a deal to him but i like to use him for shopping and dumb shit like that. but whatever! i used to lap dance around here and the contact was heavy grindingpretty much. i stopped doing that because for 1 we have to pay them 50 dollars to work. not really a problem when you make 500, shit even 200. but if you are at work from 12 til 12 and MAYBE MAKE 50 then thats a problem so i started doing the stage thing along with the lapping. it made my tipout go down and i wasnt sitting for hours on end looking dumb and having my ADD kick my ass so i chain smoke...but it became useless. the money was just not there at the lap bar. so i quit. i worked there for 3 years. i got tired of flashbacks to the days when i made 800 dollars and 600. so ive only been doing stage ever since. ive been exclusively been at MD since november. yes it was winter and money was great...at least to me. the most ive ever made on stage here was 300. and i think i did like 4 bookings that night right before christmas. fast forward to the last 2-3 months have been THE WORST!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how can i stress that enough?!!! HORRIBLE! UNBEARABLE! TERRIBLE! ATROCIOUS! ...lions and tigers and bears, oh my!

    but anyway. ive been working my black ass off in this redneck bar and it used to get the job done. these days not so much. of course i know what its like to leave in the negative. but my rent is fairly cheap. 475 with water incl. i used to make at least 100 to 150 on fridays. now im lucky if i get 30!! 30!!!!!! on a friday!!!! im a great dancer and i carry myself like a lady and all that. people clap but they dont tip or whatever. which is some other bullshit but thats another thread! i have a cute face and a bangin body. people call me the 'SEXY NERD" and thats all fine and dandy but where is the money?!?!?!? can someone please tell me why i come onto this forum as i have for years and lurk and wish that i could make 1000 a night? i cant even compare to what your girls are saying its almost like a "when i grow up" kind of thing. like when i get out of here and grow up and go to a decent club that has champagne rooms for 300 and all that shit you all have. i can only dream of it.

    so now back to travel. ive gone down to Elizabeth city,nc to Headlights and they turned me down its an hour away. Drove all the way up to richmond its an hour and a half away to both papermoons and they BOTH turned me down. JB's here turned me down. Mermaids there isnt any money. they want to buy you drinks and i could be there from open to damn near close and make only 40. 12-12. on top of the fact that it was 40 miles away. most of the time i made 10-15. which is how much gas it takes me to get there any way!!!!!!!!!!! Buck's Brand the bartender is a hater and i made money there and she didnt like it so she gave me the run around for a week then fired me. Cheetah's i went for one night and there was a double shooting/attepmted armed robbery right outside the door and one of the poeople that got shot was a bartender!!!! I.Never.Went.Back. i made money off the grown up white crowd.i never make money off black guys usually unless its the older ones. even tho im a fine caribbean princesa. i want to travel to the new Papermoon in Springfieild,VA but i havent gotten any solid reviews on them yet. so i cant do my research the way i want to. i heard that they needed girls but that doesnt mean that they need black girls. i dont want to take the 3 hour drive and it be not worth it. and i WANT IT TO BE WORTH IT SOOOO BBBAAADDD!!! i dont know anyone up there and i might be traveling alone...which i dont really want to do but i dont think i have a choice.

    but that is a very very long drive. 3 long hours. what the hell am i supposed to do for that drive. besides listen to my downloaded music? ive driven to and from Philly and to and from Raliegh and Charlotte but not alone. and another thing...my boss told me to have a career change!!!! because i said im not making any money where im at! i said "are you serious? im only 21 and im still a good dancer and you are telling me that i need a career change because theres no money HERE?" what sense does that make? im gonna cut my career short because there is no money in this area when i could go to other places and forget all about this shit? and then i could complain about only making 500 that night instead of only making 30 or less. i havent broke 100 in the past 2 months. and its hurting me something terrible. im getting desperate. im getting very on edge and short with my boyfriend who keeps trying to get me to get a real job. and at the same time im on a club search im on the normal job hunt also. but this situation is just stressing me out!!! whatever i do i want to make money. i just want to pay my bills like everyone else. why has this seemed to have gotten so hard? my bf and i are on thin ice because im not bringing in any money to pay my share of the bills and just our whole money situation is looking bad right now.

    anyway i think im done now. you can comment or not i just needed to let it out somewhere.
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    Wheeew! Lady,I know Just how you feel! Ive worked at Mermaids in the past,was at Headlights for one day(had to move out of state or I would have stayed),you named a few bars Ive been to or worked in.I can't believe they told you to "consider a career change",that's bull! Especially at twenty-one.

    I work at L.A's right now,and let me tell ya,money is soooo slooow compared to what it was. I know Va Beach is considered a waste of time if you want to see skin,but I used to make a lot more just 2-4 years ago.And that clapping bullshit, what's up with that!?

    Some asshat did that to me and I was like,"no applause,just throw money!(wink,smile).

    I'm disappointed to hear that the lapdancing places have lost money:-(.I was hoping it was just us go-go bars.
    Summertime has usually been slow here,with deployments and all,but add raised gas prices and a recession,and it's shit.Ive walked up to guys and offered to dance for them,and heard,"I can't sweetie,I ain't got no money!".So why come here at all dumbass?Ive said hello to a customer and asked how he's doing.,and he told me"I'm fine,just watching the dancers."
    Asshole walked out without throwing a single measley dollar.
    I'm getting pissed off again just thinking about these kretins.But It's coll to find another member who's been to the same bars I have:-)

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    If there's no way to get out of the area you live in, you'd be better off getting an hourly paid job or waitressing until you can find a way to get to a better club. 475/month is so cheap! If you worked 30 hours/week @ 9/hr, that would be 1,000/month, which is probably similar or more than you're making at that lame club.
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    Sorry it's not going well for you. Did you try Pure Pleasure or Candy Bar in Richmond? Didn't I PM you about auditions?

    I haven't heard anything about Paper Moon in Springfield either. Maybe Like Keira said, waitressing might not be a bad idea for the time being.

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    You're my buddy, so I read your post in it's entirety (most I just skim over shhhh don't tell)

    I personally feel like if you are averaging $30/shift after working 12hr baby you DO need to change career paths. Dont' get me wrong, everyone has crappy nights, but they should be few, far and inbetween.

    The couple times I have traveled, I would talk to the manager, explain to him how far I'm traveling and ask if I can email him pictures. That way, he can tell me through email if I was hired or not. That cuts down on the driving costs IMO.

    Personally, I liked working in Charlotte, NC @ Uptown. It's very nice, variety of girls. I was actually surprised at the number of black girls they had actually. I did well.







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    Your beautiful and seem friendly so there has to be a different reason why your only making 30. I didnt read after thev1st paragraph but if the other girls are way different that just means they are better at selling themeselves. I think i read u said u are very hard rawker and like to wear all black or something right? maybe that wont sell u laps right now in 2008 the guys might not be in the mood for that in the club.

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    If you want to keep dancing, can you move?

    Thats what I'd do!

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    Quote Originally Posted by golden41 View Post
    Your beautiful and seem friendly so there has to be a different reason why your only making 30. I didnt read after thev1st paragraph but if the other girls are way different that just means they are better at selling themeselves. I think i read u said u are very hard rawker and like to wear all black or something right? maybe that wont sell u laps right now in 2008 the guys might not be in the mood for that in the club.

    LOL! no i dont wear all black and im not gothic or whatever. thats not the case at all. when people are there, IM THE STAR. but thats the problem...theres nobody there or here at all. the area i live and work in is just not strip club friendly. its a bunch of working class and military. this area is just a closed area. yea its got strip clubs but if you read FONDL's article on tuscl they are all just "titty bars". like cheers with a stage and pole. SERIOUSLY. last night i made 80. the closest ive been to 100 in 2 whole months! i was happy but i know that it has been better. i did nothing different. the people who come in occasionally are the ones who actually tip and they arent there most of the time. so when they are there i make money but they are like occassional regulars. they appreciate the dancers and arent trying to take them home, blah blah blah. so yea. this area sucks as far as personal growth in my opinion. its very closed minded and slow. on top of the fact that the club (if i can call it that) doesnt put any money into the place for renovations or advertising and it shows. especially with the club down the road all shiny and bright and semi-new. it cant compete and thats the closest thing we have here to a decent bar. its not me cause "I sell it honey"! but theres nobody to sell to.
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    ^^^^

    Eww, thats door girl money.

    GET OUT OF DODGE! Whats keeping you there? There are plenty of places with rent like that low that are good cities to dance in- where I used to live in Charlotte is one of the them. Nasty girls in the nastiest club in town (no extras though, everything is out in the open) make $300-500 a night. Rent in a safe area with a roomie is $400-500. 1 bedrooms are $1000.

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