So my bf of 6 years proposed to me last week. We have a child together and we obviously live together. Well I assumed that since he proposed it meant he was ready to marry me, right? Well I've been doing things that a normal soon to be married girl would do....look for a hall (since you have to book them a year in advance) and looking a bridal mags etc...He tells me I'm rushing into things. What?? He says we won't be able to afford it. Um, so far I've found a hall that is going to charge $3200 for EVERYTHING! The hall itself, food, waitstaff, linens, decorations, bar, etc...plus 10% off all the rooms. I can have a gorgeous wedding for under $5000. If we can't do $5000 in a YEAR then I'm in the wrong fucking business! I can save that in a year. So what's going on?? Don't say he's nervous. We've practically been married this whole time so this is just basically something to celebrate it. Does it seem to you guys that he jut doesn't want to get married?



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Not every man is afraid to open up to his SO.


After reading your responses I can definitely see things alot clearer. Alright, I'll get off his back for now.....

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