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    No one knows I'm dancing and tonight my sister's best friend walked in and I freaked. I totally didn't know what to do... any advice? At this point I'm thinking of just telling her but I'm really afraid of her judging me. We've always been so close, and it kills me to be lying in the first place (I tend to be a ridiculously honest person no matter what) so did any of you? And if you did, what was the response?

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    I think most dancers experience hell for a few weeks and then the family calms down. I would strongly consider whether you want to tell them or not. I think I regret it because it caused them unecessary pain.

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    Did your sisters best friend actually see you?

    Ugh when my mom found out she cried and cried and told me she was going to disown me. Then I told her "fine then you won't have a daughter then" and threatened for her to disown me. Never happened. Now, we just don't talk about it but she knows.
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    She didn't see me, and as far as I know my sister doesn't know (she would've mentioned it by now lol). I practically ran out the door before her friend could've even known it was me, but it leaves me wondering wtf I'm supposed to do now. I mean I lost ALOT of money last night.... and if it was somewhere her friend went once she's likely to go there again and am I supposed to run out every time? I feel like an idiot.....

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    Can you change clubs? This happened tome once, a big group of my sisters school friends came ino my club. I hid in the dressing room until they left.
    They never came back in again but if you are really worried maybe move clubs.

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    I guess it depends on your family. My mother found out my sister was dancer and disowned her. That was a LONG time ago, and when she found out she had a grand child on the way she "re"owned her. My sister no longer dances, but my mom told me she'd do the same if she ever found out that I danced. While I was dancing I'd have nightmares about her coming in as a customer and finding out (odd right...because WHY would she come into the strip club as a customer that didn't know I danced). Anyways, I don't have to worry anymore, and that part of my life will remain a secret.
    I'm not who I say I am.

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    i havent told my parents, but my sister knows & she thinks it's hilarious & awesome.

    i guess it depends on how close to your sister you are, whether or not you share the same "morals", & if you think she might blackmail you one day...

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    Why was she in the club in the first place? Maybe she wants a job too? lol jk

    I think you'll be okay. Its good she didn't see you. If you are doing well at this club no need to change clubs right away then. Maybe you can poke around and ask her what was she doing on that night to see why she went.
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