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    Default 100's of $$$ & the Last Laugh

    I'm so sorry, holiday. I was just trying to be as real as I could about all of this. It's new & confusing & I guess I didn't realize what I wrote was inappropriate until I re-read it as though I were somebody else. Should I delete myself? I don't want to cause trouble...but I really could use the advice & help...*blushes and shows herself the door*
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    wow. I can't believe I just read this whole thing. Someone please get rid of this person.
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    Default Re: 100's of $$$ & the Last Laugh

    now im curious. what did it say? lol. I got here after the edit.

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    I wrote about my first time dancing at a club that I now realize was not exactly standard. (more than one gentleman came in his pants. i didn't know that wasn't standard.) i'd never been in a club before as a customer, let alone as a dancer, so I had no clue as to what was considered normal. I wrote about how I didn't make any money because I spent the night talking to customers about ludicrous nonsense (like campain finance reform) & waiting for them to ask me to dance. (I didn't realize that it wasn't in bad taste to ask them first.) I wrote about another dancer who gave me a ride home & some advice. She said that the men are paying for a fantasy & that I shouldn't necessarily try to advertise the fact that I'm an intelligent girl if it's not part of the fantasy that they're paying for. It was written in a less-dry, more-controversial way; in a way that was obviously open to certain modes of interpretation that I hadn't intended it to be open to. I think I came off as disrespectful toward the whole industry, but now I think it's because of the fact that I thought that certain shit that had happened at my first club was standard-level shit that just happened, period. i said that i worried that part of fulfilling this fantasy for the customers is pretending to be a horny oversexed chick who likes being naked around strangers & admitted that maybe I just might be. I have bipolar I disorder & hyper-sexuality is a huge part of that for me. that's all i meant by that. But this shit is complex for me, the whole issue, and I don't want to come off as flippant or arrogant though I think I did.

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    That was worded well ^ and it takes awhile to figure out what is norm for the industry and what's normal in THAT club. Because trust me every club is a whole nother world. Just keep your eyes peeled and go with your gut, don't attempt to force yourself to be someone you aren't and DO NOT be too open to anyone...customers..co workers. There is a thread somewhere on this site about things we all wish we knew when we started. Search for it and read it. It's funny but insightful.

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    thank you i look forward to reading that thread

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    Default Re: 100's of $$$ & the Last Laugh

    holiday, she's just talking about her experience. She's posted extensively elsewhere about the club where she worked.

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    Just keep your personal boundries in mind..no matter WHAT the "club norm" is. Theres always another club if you stop making money because of it. Dont think anything is the norm thats beyond what you are comfortable with. When girls here started sucking and fucking for money I refused to...and still made very good money until it just became too much for me. Now though I do other things and I travel to dance to places where that ISNT the norm.

    Dont do anything you dont want to do...no matter what anyone tells you. You'll be better off for it I promise....a cpl extra bucks isnt worth your dignity!

    And read this site religiously for awhile..you'll get a LOT of good advice here...and dont be afraid to ask anything here. Many of us here are seasoned vets in the biz and are happy to help a newbie!

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    Ummm, as I recall her post ended with something about womens primary function is being an object to be used for mens pleasure.

    Sorry if I misunderstood it all.

    Oh, and also, there were a few really obnoxious new posters yesterday, and I think I may have gotten you confused with some dude...anyway, welcome to SW.
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    yeah i dunno know the whole pretending to be and over sexed dumb object I thinkis kinda the goal. Kinda difficult to pull off and I do have a few regulars that appreciate my intelligence, but I deffinately think they appriciate my body more, and when ever I can pull off the super horney ditz I do very well...

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