I began working at a new club a few weeks ago and I thought I liked it at first...however, it's been 5 weeks and now I feel like im getting a lot of heat in passive-aggressive form from the dancers that have been there awhile. I am surprised that this bothers me, because I expected it to a certain extent, and I never set out to make it a social event, but I'm nice and try not to step on other's toes so it bums me out a bit...I suspect Ive been rumored to give out dirty dances and steal people's customers, but NONE of this is true....what I see are the girls who give the dirtiest dances are the ones talking shit, and the ones complaining about the customers are also the same girls sitting in the back for 3 hours bitching about making no money. I am always out on the floor ready to go when the shift starts, I always ask men if they are waiting for a specific girl before I sit down with them, I don't talk dirty or do anything against the rules in my dances, yet every time I work girls will literally talk about me in FRONT of me without using my name yet make it completely obvious that they are bitching about me. Im not setting out to make friends there, but Im not exactly looking for enemies either. My strategy has been to not speak unless spoken to, but these girls act like no one else is entitled to make money and they are very rude. Personally, I think its total B.S. Times are hard, so maybe they should step up their game a little instead of attempting to intimidate me into quitting. I make steady money, but by no means am I walking out with an outrageous amount each night. I know that I need to develop thicker skin, as this is the result of working in an industry with all women, but does anyone have any helpful advice? I dont want the situation to get worse and Im pretty bummed every time I have to go in to work there. I am limited as to the clubs I can work at during the week, but plan to travel on the weekends soon so Im not there 4-5 days a week.
By the way, Im not the only one, but more and more I feel singled out (possibly because the others have quit and im still there, but I dont know...)




Reply With Quote
Kamryn




Bookmarks