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    Default Dumb Dilemma: Should I Fake Sick For This? help me guys its tomorrow

    So yeah. Theres this concert tomorrow that me and my boyfriend are going to. We wanted to go for a while now. I would be looking forward to it, if we were going alone or with people who aren't assholes, but since we're not, I don't even want to go anymore. Like, at all.

    Thing is, we have to go with pretty much the worst people in the world (well, to me anyway). Bf's one group of friends (this guy H and his girlfriend, and a bunch of their girl and guy friends).....who think I am the spawn of Satan because..... I'm (you guessed it!) A STRIPPER! They talk shit behind my back I'm sure, and ask my boyfriend stupid questions like "Do you REALLY feel comfortable with that?! Are you SURE thats all shes doing?" (implying I do extras----fuckers) Any time I have ever been around them (which is only when I go out to the bars with bf), I get this REALLY uncomfortable vibe from both the girls and guys, kind of like they are scared to be around me. Usually, I play off this vibe by wearing my lowest cut shirts and pretend I'm having the time of my life just to make em squirm heh heh


    Now, the worst part about this whole concert ordeal is.....H's girlfriends dad got all these concert tickets for free so I'll be indebted to them. I REALLY don't feel comfortable with this, especially since they recently said a LOT of fucked up shit I'd like to call them on. Obviously, if I go to this concert I will not be able to confront them the way I was hoping to next time I'd see them (no, I wasn't going to flip out. I was going to say something along the lines of "Oh, hi guys. I heard all the mean things you said about me. And for the record, no I do not suck dick" and just leave it at that and watch their reactions).


    I VERY rarely hang out with these people, since I'd rather scrape my teeth against the sidewalk. We just don't mesh. Their favorite pasttime is talking about how great a president George Bush is. My favorite pasttime is exotic dancing.

    The closer it gets to this damn concert, the more I don't want to go. I'm afraid these people are going to ruin my love for Poison and Bret Michaels.

    Should I just fake sick for this? I know they'd have a better time without me and I would not have a good time with them. Thoughts/opinions?!???

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    Default Re: Dumb Dilemma: Should I Fake Sick For This? help me guys its tomorrow

    well, maybe you can meet them there, right before the concert starts and leave when it's over. You can make an excuse that you have to be somewhere after.

    And of course the music is so loud, so nobody can talk!

    If you back out at the last minute, you'll be even more of a bitch. Maybe you don't care though.

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    Default Re: Dumb Dilemma: Should I Fake Sick For This? help me guys its tomorrow

    Thats true. Ugh, I'll probably end up going. It'd be a bitch move not to go you're right, but on the other hand they'd probably be a lot happier without me so maybe they wouldn't be so mad. I just try to avoid these people as much as possible, because I hate being in social situations with them when neither party is a fan of the other.

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    Default Re: Dumb Dilemma: Should I Fake Sick For This? help me guys its tomorrow

    didn't they invite you though?

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    Default Re: Dumb Dilemma: Should I Fake Sick For This? help me guys its tomorrow

    Eh, not really. My boyfriend asked his friend for these tickets because they were free, and then I guess they assumed we'd just go together.

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    I'd definetely go.. Don't let them stop you from having a good time and enjoying a concert you've been wanting to see! Just throw on a low cut shirt like you said and have the best time ever.

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    If it was me, I probably wouldn't go. If you honestly think you can still have a good time with these people then go for it... If you can do it then you're a better person than me. good luck

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    maybe you could get lost in the crowd? it should be a big show.

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    If you don't want to go, don't go. If it's as bad as you say - I wouldn't go either! There are a lot of "excuses" you could come up with.
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    I'd just go and completely ignore them the whole time.

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    Default Re: Dumb Dilemma: Should I Fake Sick For This? help me guys its tomorrow

    Why even fake sick? I wouldn't go and I would tell them why. I wouldn't feel comfortable with people who talked crap about me, and wouldn't have fun anyways. Did your bf defend you when they said all that crap? Seriously I would call or text and tell them to use the tickets on someone who they weren't so judgemental about. I don't think it's a bitch move to cancel considering your reasons. If you don't go your bf isn't going either right?

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    Default Re: Dumb Dilemma: Should I Fake Sick For This? help me guys its tomorrow

    go, and get "accidentally seperated from the group"

    lol

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    Default Re: Dumb Dilemma: Should I Fake Sick For This? help me guys its tomorrow

    What part does your bf play in all of this? Is he not sticking up for you and telling them to shut the fuck up? If not I'd seriously reconsider HIM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by txchick008 View Post
    If you don't want to go, don't go. If it's as bad as you say - I wouldn't go either! There are a lot of "excuses" you could come up with.
    Yeah, I'm kinda leaning in this direction too. Since it bothered you enough to make a post you're probably dreading going actually... but coming up with excuses is tough too. You don't want to say something that isn't true, but you can't tell them you just don't want to, either- even if you don't want to really bad.

    If you just can't suck it up, I don't think its a bitch move but if you can I think you should try to go.

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    What part does your bf play in all of this? Is he not sticking up for you and telling them to shut the fuck up? If not I'd seriously reconsider HIM.
    My thoughts exactly. I would be pretty pissed if my boyfriend remained friends with people who were talking shit about me all the time.


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    Default Re: Dumb Dilemma: Should I Fake Sick For This? help me guys its tomorrow

    ^^Yes, +1.

    Also, how is it a bitch move to not go out with people who insinuate to your boyfriend that you suck dick for money? That's self-preservation, IMO.

    If I were you I think I'd go, but not ever meet up with them and find some different seats. That way I'd get to enjoy the ocncert without ever having to deal with their sorry asses. But then, I'm a bitch so what do I know?

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    The bf part----his friend H has been his friend for his whole life. Their families are VERY good friends, and are involved in shit together, so its not like he can just cut H out of his life forever. You know what I mean?

    They don't really hang out much, and of course my boyfriend stuck up for me when they said it. To be honest, they never really talked shit until the last time my boyfriend hung out with them (I was at work, it was about 3 weeks ago)....I called him on my way home and I could hear them saying shit about me in the background. Before that instance, it was just really bad vibes, but I just KNEW they were not accepting of me (you all know the feeling!)

    ^That whole ordeal happened after we established we were going to this concert with these people

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post

    Also, how is it a bitch move to not go out with people who insinuate to your boyfriend that you suck dick for money? That's self-preservation, IMO.

    If I were you I think I'd go, but not ever meet up with them and find some different seats. That way I'd get to enjoy the ocncert without ever having to deal with their sorry asses. But then, I'm a bitch so what do I know?
    Exactly. Or you guys could meet up with them in the beginning then you and your bf could go get some "food or drinks" and not go back to where the biatches are. Say you guys got lost or something later on. But if the tickets are for assigned seats and not lawn seats that might be kind of hard to pull off though.

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    I'm not sure what kind of seats they are. I hope they are not the fancy ones that you actually have to sit in. I'll ask the bf tonight, and if they aren't, then I'm just going to do what you guys say and ditch them. Oops, motherfuckers!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MeanGirl View Post
    Why even fake sick? I wouldn't go and I would tell them why. I wouldn't feel comfortable with people who talked crap about me, and wouldn't have fun anyways.
    I agree with this. I'm soooo done with being nice and fake to people who I know damn well say nasty things about me behind my back. In fact, I'm tired of pretending I don't know for the sake of being polite. I wouldn't go. You don't have to outright tell them why now, just say you're not going.

    And yes, I'd confront them on it. Let them know you know what they're saying. Embarrass them- they should be embarrassed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cutey5032 View Post
    The bf part----his friend H has been his friend for his whole life. Their families are VERY good friends, and are involved in shit together, so its not like he can just cut H out of his life forever. You know what I mean?

    They don't really hang out much, and of course my boyfriend stuck up for me when they said it. To be honest, they never really talked shit until the last time my boyfriend hung out with them (I was at work, it was about 3 weeks ago)....I called him on my way home and I could hear them saying shit about me in the background. Before that instance, it was just really bad vibes, but I just KNEW they were not accepting of me (you all know the feeling!)

    ^That whole ordeal happened after we established we were going to this concert with these people
    ......and he was just sitting there listening to them talking shit? Do you really believe you just happened to call at the one moment they were trash talking you? On the other hand, if they knew it was you on the phone, maybe that started it, but if they hate you that much you need to cut ties and so does BF if you guys are serious.

    No matter how much I wanted to see the concert I wouldn't associate myself with that kind of trash. Actually, I would make a point of letting them know exactly how far they are beneath you with all the trash talking and name calling. Only the lowest scum sit around and bash people who aren't even there to defend themselves.
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    I'd probably tell 'em that line about not sucking dick right before you all head in to the concert, and then say "thank you for the tickets" since that's only polite

    but if you don't want to go, don't go.

    why is your boyfriend friends with these guys? their opinion is NOT YOUR PROBLEM. If you back out and they don't like it, not your problem.

    you need to get yourself a case of the "not my problems."

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    Fancygirl, I am taking your advice. When I see them today, I'm going to say "Thanks for the tickets guys! If it weren't for you, I would have had to suck a LOT of dick to get them!" then I'm just going to wander off and have my own fucking fun.

    I talked to my boyfriend about this today, and although I hate these people, I'm not going to let them stop me from seeing this damn concert. I fucking dance to "Talk Dirty To Me" everynight and I LOVE Bret.

    I wish I would have found out sooner (before we had the tickets) how shitty these people are, but too late now. After this concert tonight, I am never hanging out with this crowd again. Thanks everyone for kicking me in the ass.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cutey5032 View Post
    When I see them today, I'm going to say "Thanks for the tickets guys! If it weren't for you, I would have had to suck a LOT of dick to get them!" then I'm just going to wander off and have my own fucking fun.
    That's awesome. You know you have to check back in and let us know how they react! lolz.

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    I so will! I was thinking about making booty shorts with "STRIPPER" across the ass, but I decided that was too much even for me lol

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