I've been telling my mom I work at a restaurant when really, I dance. I'm starting to realize that restaurant lie isn't going so well so I need something else. Where do you say you're going?
I've been telling my mom I work at a restaurant when really, I dance. I'm starting to realize that restaurant lie isn't going so well so I need something else. Where do you say you're going?





before my parents knew, i said i was bartending at a strip club.
If that lie isn't going well, you can't really just change it now if you're keeping the same hours. It'll look suspicious.
I'mnot judging, but I just really can't understand why someone would want to live at home and dance if they had to keep dancing secret. It sounds INCREDIBLY stressful, and bound to end badly.





Before I "came out" to my parents (what a disaster!), I said I bartended at a night club then bartended at a strip club.
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I'm going to do a toy show in half an hour mum, can I call you back?
No really... truth!
Look like a woman
Think like a man
Act like a lady
Work like a dog
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i just say i'm going out or babysitting (because there's really no set schedule for that). my mom could care less what time i'm getting home anyway.



I go out to serve drinks.









^hahahahaha! so by that logic i'm only lying by omission, sweet!
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yeah, im in the process of paying off a lot of credit card debt and financially it makes more sense for me to live at home. i can pay it off a lot faster before i study abroad for school (in september)




hmmm, maybe i should change it to that...i think i like that better.![]()





When I lived with my mom I told her that I would be going out with friends. She probably thought I was an alcoholic because I went out so much lol. My bag would always be in my trunk though so I didn't have to explain that.
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you can only survive by clinging onto trees
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"You can safely assume that you've created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do."
-anne lamott




I use the "going out with friends" line. I alternate the friends and read up about what club night I am supposedly going to as she asks TONNES of questions. Only 4 weeks until i move out ugh.
i would just say that i am gonna go dancing or go to a bar or to meet new people. Its the truth, just not all of it.![]()
im in LV and folks in TX so that solves that one! My mom doesnt like it but is Ok with it, but my dad just doesnt want to know. kinda 'head in the sand' type thing. besides my lil sis is the apple of his eye, so as long as she doesnt dance as well then evrything is ok!
there are things i hav done that piss them off much miore than my dancing!!
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Well, I just tell my parents that I'm out with one of my very close friends. When they hear that they normally don't have anything to say because they trust my friend. And I always try to come home late when they're sleep. This can't go on for too long either.




I'm not sure how my Mom would react. Of course she doesn't know (I'm married and haven't lived at home in years).....
To be honest, I haven't even thought about telling her. Her husband (my stepdad) has cancer and is in the middle of a transplant to save his life....Yeah..not the best time to drop any bombs on her. She knew I did webcam work several years ago, and actually was cool about it. She said, "if I was 30 years younger I would do it!".
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I can't imagine living at home and doing this... all the hiding sounds stressful. When I was with my bf I used to hide it from him and that was super stressful... and i didnt even live with him.
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