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    But mainly Child Molesters;

    This happened nearly a year ago, but the discussion recently came up between myself and a good friend, who is also a dancer.

    When I first started dancing, maybe a week or two into it, I had this man wave me over, older white guy, we talked for a bit, immedietly I got an intensely weird vibe from him, but hey... I knew that dancing had to come with it's weirdos.

    Anywho, he ended up tipping me 111 on stage, and bought 11 dances.

    I didn't really know he tipped that much until I was ready to get gone from him, and he's like; "Do you know why 11 is my favorite number?"
    Me, "No."
    Him, "She was 11, they both were 11."
    Me, "Who?"

    & then he proceeds to tell me about how he just got done serving a 15 year prison term, and he got out early due to "Good behavior" and blah, blah, YUCK! YOU SICK BASTARD!

    Me, being a mother, gave him back all his money and didn't look back.

    I told my dancer friend this and she said I was "Stupid" for giving him his money back.

    & I'm aware he basically got those 11 dances for free, but honestly, HONESTLY, I just couldn't bare to know that ANY of that sicko's money may be used towards my child in any way.

    I don't regret not keeping his money. I'd do it again.
    What would you have done?

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    No doubt I would have attacked him. Im sorry you had to meet him. Tell the bouncer not to let him in anymore. U did earn the money but whats done is done so try not to think about him.

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    I probably would have tried to get inside his head.

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    Quote Originally Posted by golden41 View Post
    No doubt I would have attacked him. Im sorry you had to meet him. Tell the bouncer not to let him in anymore. U did earn the money but whats done is done so try not to think about him.

    Mm, I don't think about him, until now when the friend & I were discussing weird custies. I kind of wish he wouldn't have told me.

    Anywho. I don't dance at the club anymore & I'm in a different state.

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    That's horrible!
    I would DEFINITELY be like that if I had a child.
    I don't want anything from him, WHATSOEVER.

    About the money, my first impulse would be to give it back but later on I would prolly feel iffy about it.
    Oh well, what's done is done and you made a right decision for yourself especially in what you believe in what's right or wrong--- reguardless of how much money he gave you.

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    I'm sorry you encountered that sicko. I don't blame you for giving back the money. But if it had been me, I would have contacted authorities about his ass. If its a law in your state for sex offenders to be registered, hopefully visiting a strip club would mean big trouble for him. Sickos that go after children should NEVER be allowed on the streets. They should be given the death sentence!!

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    I woulda kept the cash because if I always gave back cash that came from morally corrupt and creepy individuals I would be broke! But I definitely understand your sentiment.
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    I'd rather a pedophile come to the SC to see me on a regular basis and tell me his fantasies than act them out on a child.

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    I think he was probably a liar AND a pervert. I've never heard of anyone getting 15 years for child abuse. I wish they WOULD, but they always seem to get like, 2 years.

    I'm sorry you had to deal with that. I don't know what I would have done. Probably walked away and wish I had clawed his eyes out.

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    It's not an either or kind of thing.

    I probably would have seen it as an opportunity to fuck him up or something.



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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseLeigh View Post
    I think he was probably a liar AND a pervert. I've never heard of anyone getting 15 years for child abuse. I wish they WOULD, but they always seem to get like, 2 years.
    It depends on how many counts. If the child can remember and there is proof of more than one incident, they'll charge him with as many as they can, and then it's however many years for each one.



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    Quote Originally Posted by ColetteCalahan View Post
    I'd rather a pedophile come to the SC to see me on a regular basis and tell me his fantasies than act them out on a child.
    I agree.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    It depends on how many counts. If the child can remember and there is proof of more than one incident, they'll charge him with as many as they can, and then it's however many years for each one.
    That's just IME. But good to know!

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    I've had guys tell me some sick stories. Havana you did what you thought and felt at the moment and there is nothing wrong with that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    I probably would have tried to get inside his head.
    me too, plus this may sound weird but i feel like if im entertaining him at least he's not out somewhere with an 11 year old .

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    I agree with everyone who said it's better for him to come to the club to be entertained than to be out molesting children.

    While we can blame child molesters for their actions, can we really blame them for their desires? I mean, who chooses to be attracted to children? I am firmly against child molestation but I have no problem acting out such fantasies with adults.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BrodieLux View Post
    I woulda kept the cash because if I always gave back cash that came from morally corrupt and creepy individuals I would be broke! But I definitely understand your sentiment.
    Exactly plus u did those dances already. If he told u before the dances then yeh dont dance for him but fuck dancing for someone for free.

    I do understand how u felt about it but no I dont give back money when Im working I take it LOL.
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    While we get our share of weirdos, pedophiles are, by and large, hanging around parks and malls not stripclubs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    While we get our share of weirdos, pedophiles are, by and large, hanging around parks and malls not stripclubs.
    That's a good point. This guy might have been just trying to creep the OP out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    That's a good point. This guy might have been just trying to creep the OP out.
    I agree....if he DID just get out of prison too, he would totally be violating his parole by being in the SC (you're not supposed to go places that have booze if you're on parole I believe). Soooo....maybe he was telling the truth, or just maybe he was talking out a sick fantasy that he had about two eleven year old girls...you know? It could be true don't get me wrong, but customers fuck with us all day every day you know? He could have just been messing with your head.

    I would have kept the cash for sure, no questions, but hey that's me. If you would have felt dirty or bad about it, then you did the right thing not keeping it. I get guys calling me with sick fantasies like that when I am doing phone sex, and I don't really think that most of them are actually doing the stuff they want to talk about. (BTW, I can't and wouldn't talk about stuff like child molestation. I just mean weird shit in general, not limited just to that)
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    That's a good point. This guy might have been just trying to creep the OP out.
    Maybe. Maybe it was some elaborate performance art or a practical joke. It some ways - tipping in increments of 11, creepy salad-fingers stare: "you know why 11 is my favourite number don't you?"
    I mean it could be true, but generally all the mammalian female flesh of a strip club, as well as the more complicated power dynamics would make it a turn off for pedophiles.

    I would have kept the money. Money circulates; who it belonged to before you doesn't taint it, or else you would probably have a real problem taking any money. I get how dancing for him would make you feel tainted, and I wouldn't suggest doing it again, though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ColetteCalahan View Post
    I'd rather a pedophile come to the SC to see me on a regular basis and tell me his fantasies than act them out on a child.
    But, sooner or later fantasies will become dull and boring and he will be interested in seeking out the real thing. I'm not comfortable feeding into sick fantasies. Luckily I haven't had to encounter that.







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    In retrospect, I agree with all of you that maybe, yes, he was trying to creep me out or something of a sort... but I really don't think he was lying. In his description which I candidly omitted, he was very detailed, about his trial, the girls' families, and his prison time.

    And I got the impression that his term was actually longer than 15 years, on two counts of child molestation or rape idk, but he got out.

    & I don't know the specifics of his parole obviously, but I don't think ALL parolees are banned from establishments that serve alcohol. But I'm not sure.

    & to those who said that at least he was sitting there with me, rather then out destroying some child's life... if a child molester wants to do it again, they will do it again. Point blank. If not now, later.

    Anywho, sure I lost $330, which sitting here a year later... I surely do not miss.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    But, sooner or later fantasies will become dull and boring and he will be interested in seeking out the real thing.
    What made you conclude this? I'm not saying you're wrong but there is evidence both to suggest that indulging in fantasies will make one act-out the real thing AND that it prevents one from acting out.

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    I would have kept the money but I would have been disgusted and would have just walked away .

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