




Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"




I actually read a very good article similar to your astute observations.
Addendum: I don't like her viewpoints, as she's old fashioned and judgmental. However, the part about oxytocin and bonding really struck me, as I have to turn off the cuddling adn romance when having one night stands.





I nearly threw up after reading your description! That guy is rapist in training! He's the type of dude who rapes his wife because he couldn't help it.
“What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE
My first reaction was sympathy for you. Here you were being a perfect lady on a date with a seemingly normal guy who was in line for a possible second date, then he unmasks himself as an abusive pig who is quite possibly irreparably moronic. Not a pleasant way to end your evening.
Anyway, what he did was unforgiveable.
Next!



Absolutely not right. I wouldn't go on a second date with him. Dumbass guy.








you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi








The good news is that I'm seeing a much nicer guy, whom I have a date with tonight. He's a Brown University graduate who works for the Federal Reserve. He's a nice Texas boy who was raised with good old Southern hospitality and was raised to respect ladies. He opens doors and pulls out chairs for me but isn't ostentatious or annoying with his chivalry. I frenched him on our first date because I liked him so much. He kissed me innocently on the lips the first time, and let me take the initiative to proceed. He also didn't let his hands roam or do anything brash even though it was very obvious that he had a massive boner.





^^Much better to let the woman initiate the kiss on the first date.
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi









Okay, Mr. Lizard just called me. I flat out told him that I did not want to talk to him again. I explained that the tongue kiss was just a stupid, boorish act, but that his "I can't help it" excuse was unforgivable. I told him that I really wanted to punch him in the face, but my willpower was holding up pretty damned well. I also told him that if he really, truly, and honestly couldn't help it, then he should commit himself to a mental institution for treatment of Tourette's Syndrome. Otherwise, learn self-control.
He apologized profusely. I told him that was was done was done, and that if he was really remorseful, don't do it ever again. He didn't try to make excuses or justifications,and told me that he would respect my wishes.
I asked him if he wanted any advice on the situation, and he complied. I told him how to read body language, to keep the ball in the woman's court, that tongue kissing is considered an intimate act, and typical tactile/intimate contact on American first dates.
The good news is that I think that he'll learn from this. If someone does something, I always explain why it was wrong. Ignorance is remedied simply with knowledge (which I think applies to this case), but willful ignorance is something else. I do think that he is honestly remorseful. I've dealt with plenty of stupid guys before of all cultures, and he's pretty typical. However, I'm not going to go soft on him. Like I said, excusing one's uninhibited actions is unforgivable in my book.
I'm proud of myself. I was direct, assertive, and didn't apologize for anything or let myself be sidetracked. I wasn't a bitch or a name-caller, but I wasn't a pushover either. I was a bit harsh to the situation, but this is zero tolerance. I like the Texas boy much better anyway.








to the OP i hate that ew makes me wanna throw up in their mouth





I really hope this guy was just clueless and good luck with Mr Sexy! Nice recover!![]()
“What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE
Ewww, good thing you got rid of that loser early on. I use to go for stuff like that on a first date but I have changed my standards quite a bit over the last little while. Even if I really like the guy the tongue isn't really something I would anticipate getting until date 2 or even 3 in some cases.








Hooray for Mr. Sexy Texan Boy! And, well, at least Tonguey McTonguerson learned a little bit...
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