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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Yuck the guy obviously has no clue. NEXT.
    Pretty much! OP, your uncle was right. You were dressed fine. Well, at least (we) know this guy is bad news for pulling this crap on the first date. Who knows what he would've/could've been capable in the near future.







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    Quote Originally Posted by mrXmind View Post
    Yeah, I see in the clubs guys rushing in with the kisses. I can't look at it, to be honest with you. I go inside: "Dumbass". If she kisses him, she aint coming home with him - it's over. Cause he is just a "stranger guy she kissed". Effectively she used his dumbass for her own pleasure, and he thinks he scores. Neither will she talk to him again, cause she feels weird, or she's satisfied, ain't it so? And the guy now will have to deal with a hard on, and it's unpleasant actually with the pants, and I don't want it, so the aftermath of it is a net loss.
    I actually read a very good article similar to your astute observations.

    Addendum: I don't like her viewpoints, as she's old fashioned and judgmental. However, the part about oxytocin and bonding really struck me, as I have to turn off the cuddling adn romance when having one night stands.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Yuck the guy obviously has no clue. NEXT.
    Don't forget common decency or sense of responsibility. What a pig.
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    The big dick is dangerous. It makes you overlook certain character flaws and bad behavior .

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    Default Re: Am I right to be disgusted by immediate tongue on a first date?

    I nearly threw up after reading your description! That guy is rapist in training! He's the type of dude who rapes his wife because he couldn't help it.
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    Default Re: Am I right to be disgusted by immediate tongue on a first date?

    My first reaction was sympathy for you. Here you were being a perfect lady on a date with a seemingly normal guy who was in line for a possible second date, then he unmasks himself as an abusive pig who is quite possibly irreparably moronic. Not a pleasant way to end your evening.

    Anyway, what he did was unforgiveable.

    Next!

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    Default Re: Am I right to be disgusted by immediate tongue on a first date?

    Absolutely not right. I wouldn't go on a second date with him. Dumbass guy.

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    Hatshepsut, I'm curious, which country was he from?...It's ok if you don't feel like saying.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TarsTone View Post
    Hatshepsut, I'm curious, which country was he from?...It's ok if you don't feel like saying.
    He's a Hausa Nigerian Muslim. That's all I'm going to say.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    "I couldn't help myself". Yeah, that is very scary.
    I'm sure that's what rapists think too. Yea that's really gross of him to shove his tongue in your mouth. He probably sucks at body language reading.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk View Post
    I'm sure that's what rapists think too. Yea that's really gross of him to shove his tongue in your mouth. He probably sucks at body language reading.
    Yep, this guy sucked in general. He especially sucked like a Hoover when he tried to kiss me.

    Yep, I have zero respect for anyone with that mindset, even if it is culturally taught.
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    The good news is that I'm seeing a much nicer guy, whom I have a date with tonight. He's a Brown University graduate who works for the Federal Reserve. He's a nice Texas boy who was raised with good old Southern hospitality and was raised to respect ladies. He opens doors and pulls out chairs for me but isn't ostentatious or annoying with his chivalry. I frenched him on our first date because I liked him so much. He kissed me innocently on the lips the first time, and let me take the initiative to proceed. He also didn't let his hands roam or do anything brash even though it was very obvious that he had a massive boner.
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    ^^Much better to let the woman initiate the kiss on the first date.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hatshepsut View Post
    Yep, this guy sucked in general. He especially sucked like a Hoover when he tried to kiss me.
    Oh GOD! What a loser! My first date ever, the guy waited until my friend was not looking (It was a double date.) and tried to cram his tongue in my mouth. Slightly more forgivable, as we were about 14 or 15. Seriously though-faux pas for anyone out of high school.

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    Okay, Mr. Lizard just called me. I flat out told him that I did not want to talk to him again. I explained that the tongue kiss was just a stupid, boorish act, but that his "I can't help it" excuse was unforgivable. I told him that I really wanted to punch him in the face, but my willpower was holding up pretty damned well. I also told him that if he really, truly, and honestly couldn't help it, then he should commit himself to a mental institution for treatment of Tourette's Syndrome. Otherwise, learn self-control.

    He apologized profusely. I told him that was was done was done, and that if he was really remorseful, don't do it ever again. He didn't try to make excuses or justifications,and told me that he would respect my wishes.

    I asked him if he wanted any advice on the situation, and he complied. I told him how to read body language, to keep the ball in the woman's court, that tongue kissing is considered an intimate act, and typical tactile/intimate contact on American first dates.

    The good news is that I think that he'll learn from this. If someone does something, I always explain why it was wrong. Ignorance is remedied simply with knowledge (which I think applies to this case), but willful ignorance is something else. I do think that he is honestly remorseful. I've dealt with plenty of stupid guys before of all cultures, and he's pretty typical. However, I'm not going to go soft on him. Like I said, excusing one's uninhibited actions is unforgivable in my book.

    I'm proud of myself. I was direct, assertive, and didn't apologize for anything or let myself be sidetracked. I wasn't a bitch or a name-caller, but I wasn't a pushover either. I was a bit harsh to the situation, but this is zero tolerance. I like the Texas boy much better anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hatshepsut View Post
    The good news is that I'm seeing a much nicer guy, whom I have a date with tonight. He's a Brown University graduate who works for the Federal Reserve. He's a nice Texas boy who was raised with good old Southern hospitality and was raised to respect ladies. He opens doors and pulls out chairs for me but isn't ostentatious or annoying with his chivalry. I frenched him on our first date because I liked him so much. He kissed me innocently on the lips the first time, and let me take the initiative to proceed. He also didn't let his hands roam or do anything brash even though it was very obvious that he had a massive boner.
    God Bless Texas!

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    Default Re: Am I right to be disgusted by immediate tongue on a first date?

    to the OP i hate that ew makes me wanna throw up in their mouth

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    I really hope this guy was just clueless and good luck with Mr Sexy! Nice recover!
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    Ewww, good thing you got rid of that loser early on. I use to go for stuff like that on a first date but I have changed my standards quite a bit over the last little while. Even if I really like the guy the tongue isn't really something I would anticipate getting until date 2 or even 3 in some cases.

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    Default Re: Am I right to be disgusted by immediate tongue on a first date?

    Quote Originally Posted by Hatshepsut View Post
    Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that tongue is pretty intimate and not at all appropriate for a first date, especially in a public place. An embrace and a closed-mouth kiss is good for me. If it's a long first kiss and we're in a private place, tongue can come.
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    Hooray for Mr. Sexy Texan Boy! And, well, at least Tonguey McTonguerson learned a little bit...
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