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    So there's a waitress who works weekends only, which I am switching to once school starts again in a few weeks. I'm finishing out at least August at my current club, and once convention season starts I'm going to the other good club in town if I still hate my club as much as I do now. She has her little favorites as far as dancers go, and has a dancer's eye when it comes to spotting guys who are going to spend money. The problem is, unless you're in her little circle of dancers, she will do everything in her power to effectively cock block you from your money and get it into her favorite's pockets. While you're onstage, she will literaly bring another dancer over to a customer you are sitting and dancing with. If you do get one of her customers in VIP, she will be super slow in getting you paid and bringing you drinks. The housemom won't do anything about it because she likes her, and the managers are basically useless.

    She favors the a few of most gorgeous girls who work there, and it works for her and those girls. But a few very gorgeous girls can't work with her because she apparently doesn't think they're hot enough. She'll say that without saying it. I'm not one of the most distinctly physically hot girls at the club, but I am definitely cute and one of the best conversationalists and guys love me. We have a few girls who are close to being models, they're that pretty... but we all know we don't have to be model-hot to make money. Once a guy wanted a blonde and sent her to go find one. I was in the dressing room when she announced to the room "A guy wants a blonde NOW" I stepped forward and said I would come over, she literally looks me up and down and says "No. I'll go find (some other dancer)". This was my first experience with her and I was LIVID. If you aren't one of her favorites, and you're sitting with a guy who has a tab with her, she will try to run you off and bring one of her favorites over. She sincerely thinks she has the authority to do it, she's very obvious about it and doesn't care. She's a fat, mean, awful woman and I fucking hate her. She's a stripper trapped in a troll's body.

    For example, last night she was waiting on a group of guys. One of them was in VIP already with one of her favorites, and one of the guys wanted to go to VIP with his friend and share a room. This waitress dislikes me so much that she tries to say the girl doesn't want to share a room with anyone. It is very common practice, almost standard to share VIP rooms. I've NEVER had someone refuse to share a room EVER at this club, or really any other I can think of. We only have 8 rooms, and 50 dancers were working that night. At most, we have a capacity for 13 dancers and their customers to be comfortable in all our VIP rooms, but you can fit two couples in the one couple rooms quite comfortably. We always share rooms, especially on busy nights because our club is sink or swim. You either get VIPs or you don't make money. After midnight some nights, it's damn near impossible to get a room. You get put on hours long wait lists and you often won't get a room at all because people keep renewing their time. In the year and a half I've worked there, no one has ever mentioned it's against the rules or impolite to want to share a room with another dancer when the customers are in a group together. I could understand if the guys were two strangers, DUH, but my customer wanted to hang out with his friend, his friend wanted to hang out with him, but the waitress said the girl didn't want to share a room. I never heard this from the girl herself. I honestly think the waitress was just trying to corner me out. I was MAD. I had probably too much to drink to be articulate and express my frustration with the situation effectively (my car is in the shop and I'm taking cabs home all week) but I was not unruly or unreasonable. I got in trouble with the housemom, but I told the manager and he said the next time something like this happens, talk to him. Yea, right. The housemom told me the next time I was that drunk, she was going to FIRE ME. I was not falling over, throwing up, being mean, anything. I was just a little intoxicated, I admit that. The housemom, by the way, has something like 7 felony convictions and admittedly used to be a hooker and dealer so she's not a pillar of morality or fairness. I definitely need to be totally sober on the weekends to be able to stay on top of these people.

    How pissed would you be? What would you do?
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    I read. And I'm scratching my head too... I'd be super pissed and feel sort of powerless.

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    she is a bitttttttttchhhhhhhh with fat A**. lol
    i hate those cocky waitress in the club, there are nothing, but they have a dancer antitude. screw her!!! if she is so good, why does not she work like us, i bet she will make good money!-----guys will pay to keep her clother on! lol
    i personaly would not take shit from waitress.
    Once a guy wanted a blonde and sent her to go find one. I was in the dressing room when she announced to the room "A guy wants a blonde NOW" I stepped forward and said I would come over, she literally looks me up and down and says "No. I'll go find (some other dancer)".
    if that what happen to me, i would start a fight with her , and i do not think i ll lose the job for give hard time to a bitchy waitress,. we are the one make money for the club! not them

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    It's a weird situation since it doesn't sound like it's about money -- if it was it would just be a matter of kickbacks, yes? I don't know what to say about making her like you otherwise; is she at all approachable?

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    Ughh.....kudos for you for even attempting to stay there until the end of the month. I could NOT deal with that. Run!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    It's a weird situation since it doesn't sound like it's about money -- if it was it would just be a matter of kickbacks, yes? I don't know what to say about making her like you otherwise; is she at all approachable?
    She's totally self-selecting as far as the girls she likes go. She likes about ten dancers and hooks them up BIG TIME and they are all the most gorgeous girls in the club who don't need the help to being with - she just wants the money they can make her. Despite being second tier as far as looks go (I'm cute but I'm not model hot) I am still a top earner and make everyone else money. The other waitresses and floor guys LOVE me for it. I get her GREAT tips on drink tabs to try to make peace and she doesn't care. I have never experienced a situation like this. She's one of those girls who is boyish and tries to act intentionally tough and unapproachable. She's kind of a bully. I guess the best I can do is avoid her, stay sober, and be the bigger person.

    At the end of the day, she's leeching off the dancers for a living and needs to treat us with respect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by txchick008 View Post
    Ughh.....kudos for you for even attempting to stay there until the end of the month. I could NOT deal with that. Run!
    It's just her and the housemom in an otherwise awesome club

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    don't give her great tips anymore. Hell, she blocks YOU from money....I would stiff her at every chance I got. Fucken bitch. My blood just boiled from that

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    Form what I've heard about clubs in your area is that the waitresses have a lot of pull when it comes to hooking the dancers up. This is different where I work because it's usually the hosts who have that power. Needless to say kick backs and greasing palms should rein supreme, regardless of looks (assuming your club has hiring standards, so there's no dogs). I can't understand why that wouldn't work at your club?

    Anyway, I would be pissed but it's stupid of management to defer to the waitress because ultimately they're losing out on money too.

    I would try to be on my best behavior so they had no room to throw stones and then pull the particular waitress aside one-on-one and try to squash it and work out a mutually beneficial agreement. She wants to get paid too, right?

    This is what I hate about tipping out staff. Whatever happened to getting tipped just for doing a good job? ow, you have to tip them in order not to get screwed. Then you have to tip above and beyond to not get screwed and hopefully get "hooked up", UGH!

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    if anything, this waitress is cutting her nose off despite her face. down the road, she will limit her income because if girls that arent in the circle get good custies, they wont help her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    How pissed would you be? What would you do?
    Honestly, I think it's confrontation time. I would say to her, "Look. I know you have your favorites that you work with here, and I may not be one of them. You're not my favorite either. That said, I bring in a lot of the top guys. You bring in a lot of the top guys. I think we'd do a lot better if we started working together than we're doing right now. If you bring me a custie, I will take care of you for it. Same as if you hook me up otherwise. You're not making as much money as you could bc you won't seat me...and YOURE not making as much money as you would if you took care of me and my guys. We don't have to like each other, but I think we're hurting the both of us by what we're doing now."

    She'll either be cool to you or not. I suggest mentioning the tipping bc you know DAMN well the girls she "hooks up" are in her pocket. If she's cool, cool. If not, fucking ignore her all together and avoid sitting in her section if you can.
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    I've Seen that at a few clubs I worked at where the waitresses act like owners or managers. They have bad attitudes and always in shit that has nothing to do with them. I never understood why. They act like there so much better than Dancers . Just dont let her get to you. Fuck her like you said She is a nobody.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    Honestly, I think it's confrontation time. I would say to her, "Look. I know you have your favorites that you work with here, and I may not be one of them. You're not my favorite either. That said, I bring in a lot of the top guys. You bring in a lot of the top guys. I think we'd do a lot better if we started working together than we're doing right now. If you bring me a custie, I will take care of you for it. Same as if you hook me up otherwise. You're not making as much money as you could bc you won't seat me...and YOURE not making as much money as you would if you took care of me and my guys. We don't have to like each other, but I think we're hurting the both of us by what we're doing now."

    She'll either be cool to you or not. I suggest mentioning the tipping bc you know DAMN well the girls she "hooks up" are in her pocket. If she's cool, cool. If not, fucking ignore her all together and avoid sitting in her section if you can.
    I've done that to her and she straight up called me an unreasonable bitch and walked away. AND we don't have sections. Waitresses can wait on any table with a credit card tab they opened with them, regardless of where their table is located in the club. WTF, right?

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    WTF is right. I was going to say that Vegas's advice was great but if you've already tried that and it didn't even work, I don't know what to suggest. She totally sounds like a miserable bitch.

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    Based on all you're saying, she seems incapable of logic and diplomacy. Sad but true... theres one thing that always talks, and thats $$$.

    These favorites of hers *must* be kicking her down some extra $ in exchange for all the hook ups she does for them. Try to find out what they're giving her.

    Then.... find another waitress you're on good terms with (bonus points if it's someone the ol' hag competes against!), get them to wait on you and a custy, and then tip said girl very, very generously... in plain view of the hag. Make a display of it - count the money out loud, tell the waitress how you'll take care of her if she takes care of you, etc. etc.

    Now the hag will see what she's missing out on, and start feeling sorry for herself. Ego dented, she should come around in hopes of cashing in.

    Of course, she'll expect that big tip out too - but how you chose to handle that is up to you....

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    ^ the big kick backs for waitresses are when guys have tabs in VIP rooms, and it's your job to try to get the guy to tip her 20% of the drink tab, room fee, AND the dancer's fee. It's a large amount to tip, always, and I almost always manage to get the guys to do it. It's fairly public record because this big tip is almost always on the guy's credit card, and it's everyone pretty much sees how much everyone else got tipped in what particular girls room from those slips and how much they tip out the bartenders. Everyone knows everyone else's business in this club. She does not give a shit. She simply genuinely dislikes me, and focuses on her guaranteed money makers. I am not as good looking as some of these girls (I'm not a 9 or 10, but I know I'm a 6 at worst and an 8 at best) but I am consistently a top earner - we all sign out our VIP funny money on the same sheet. Why? Because this bitch here can sell, and her girls can't like I do so she does it for them.

    I suppose it's going to have to be a cold war. I'll stick to my customers and preferred waitresses (there's one in particular who is very sweet and popular with customers who I hook up and she does the same for me and we do have real affection for one another) and COMPETE with Hagzilla and her bevy of FemBots who can't sell their own VIPs. It's time to get bitter and play the game.

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    I'd tip her the absolute minimum, and tell her why.

    "I'd give you more but you seem to enjoy blocking me from making more."

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    (Sorry, small thread-jack)

    Do you tip the waitresses, even if they didn't do anything for you on a shift? I haven't ever - but then again, I wasn't tipping the bartender for my Coke's (and I plan to start), so I thought I'd ask! All these little things.....
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    ^ no, the dancer's personally don't tip the waitresses, but the burden of presurring your customer to tip them 20% of the VIP tab is all on you. Like I said, my club is VIP or die. If your hour is $500, with $60 for the room, and $40 to the bouncer to "leave us alone", and drinks are $60, the tab would be $660. It's on US to make him tip her $132+. If you have regulars they hate this, and it turns off a lot of guys. I've gotten a guy to tip a waitress $3,000 before when I was in VIP for 7 hours. She loves me, but the guy never came back!

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    Quote Originally Posted by txchick008 View Post
    (Sorry, small thread-jack)

    Do you tip the waitresses, even if they didn't do anything for you on a shift? I haven't ever - but then again, I wasn't tipping the bartender for my Coke's (and I plan to start), so I thought I'd ask! All these little things.....
    you should definitely tip the bartender if you're asking for your coke while there's other customers there... the only times dancers should really tip the waitress is if she helps you score and the asshole stiffs her. when i used to waitress, i'd help girls get VIP or point a girl to a guy who I know will takes care of dancers... and then they'd kind of turn the other way when the guy would leave me a shitty tip and she'd walk with almost a grand from him...

    the thing i really hated was when i'd have customers i busted my ass for... and the dancers would give me attitude or try to have the guy tips me less than he was originally going to.

    keep in mind that waitresses are there to make money too... they deal with just about as much shit as you do sometimes from guys... and they do make the club money too.

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    ^ I agree that dancers should hook up waitresses who hook them up... but when this attitude goes too far the waitress starts resenting dancers for making $1000 while she made $100... but she's THE WAITRESS, and she keeps her clothes on and brings drinks. If she wants the grand, or anything near "stripper money" then she needs to become a dancer and see what we deal with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    ^ I agree that dancers should hook up waitresses who hook them up... but when this attitude goes too far the waitress starts resenting dancers for making $1000 while she made $100... but she's THE WAITRESS, and she keeps her clothes on and brings drinks. If she wants the grand, or anything near "stripper money" then she needs to become a dancer and see what we deal with.
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    I did a $300/half hour VIP with a $60 bar tab once. After I was finished the waitress cornered me in the dressing room and said I needed to tip her since my guy didn't tip her enough. I laughed in her face. Hustle your own tips! If you want to make dancer money put on some seven inchers and go do it.

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    Well if you don't have to tip her, DON'T. Ignore the bitch and make your money. It seems like there's enough guys at your club to where the girls aren't fighting over 2 or 3 of them.
    I also think that waitresses don't deserve tips from dancers unless they do something extraordinary. If a customer wants to tip them, fine. But I'm never going to go out of my way to get them one. I don't even really ASK for tips for myself, customers just give them. But I'm also not in a high roller club.

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    I'd say fuck them and go to a different club. Miserable bitches like that waitress don't last forever. I've seen plenty of karma come back on her kind.

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