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    As much as I'd like to write a book to convey my emotions I won't. I'll do my best to keep this brief. One thing though. By the fact that I'm here says how much this bothers me.
    1) I met a beautiful woman in a club and have had many private dances with her since February. To the tune of $10,000 dollars. I've never left feeling ripped off ever. I might be on a cloud when I leave but it feels great.
    2) One night she asked that we meet for breakfast that Sunday at a joint near her. Now I don't mean it was a sleep over because from day one I've told her I have 'NO' agenda and I expect nothing from her. She's here to make money and it makes me smile and she makes me feel important.
    Anyway I say sure to breakfast if she's like.
    Well she calls the next day and says she's not feeling well and can't make it.
    No problem and I sure hope you feel better is my answer.
    3) Once again I go to the club on another day and we meet up in one of those little rooms. She tehn says ...'I'd love to go to a Red-Sox game with you ...do you think you can get tickets? But they'll need to be for an afternoon game on a day I'm not working.............Let me look into that I say but sure I'll find something. Well I get 2 tickets for an afternoon weekday game but 1st I call her and say..........you're sure you want to go ??? Don't feel obligated because we don't need to take it out of the club. I do need to know because the tickets are $300.00 for the pair. Yes Yes I really want to go she says...............OK THEN..............It's done.
    Guess what 2 days before the game I stop by the club and when I ask her how where do we meet on game day....she says...Oh No I can't go.
    My simple answer is ok then I don't want you to think I'm pushing so I'll try and get rid of the tickets. (Well I don't in the end.....My Loss).
    4) I'm going to Foxwoods (A Casino in CT) and I tell her the company I work at is taking us there for dinner and an over-nite. She says ,,,,, Oh I really want to come and meet you there in your room. My answer is .. I don't expect you to do that ...I have NO agenda...remember. That's far for you to drive anyway. I then say... But I'd love to come back to the club and see you so maybe I'll get a room in town (Providence RI). She says great and I'll come back to the room but I might bring a friend.... My answer then is sure you can ...what ever makes you feel comfortable but I really don't expect anything from you ...maybe a hug & a kiss (like at the club). Now she ways but you need to get a nice room ....sure No Problem...... I get a VERY nice room for that evening. I drive to the club... have some (MANY) private dances with her $600.00 worth. At 2:00 am she says ok go back to the room and give me a call in 15 minutes..OH yes give me the extra room key.
    I do what I'm told and she then tells me......oh honey I can't come.

    I think that'll give you a flavor... so what's up with this woman and more importantly 'WHY'.... ?????
    I did go to the club today and told her I wanted to talk with her but later as I was with her friend....she made it so I couldn't talk with her so I left.

    Maybe I shouldn't care but I'm weak and I guess needy so I do care at least for an answer.

    Thanks for listening...

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    it amuses her that she can get her customer (you) to do anything and you still come back to the club and give her bunches of money. since you've said you have no agenda, it costs her nothing to make such offers, since you've claimed it won't cut off the money. but it does raise your hopes even if only a little, and that probably amuses her.

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    Default Re: Please explain 'WHY'

    I think if I were you I would find another dancer on whom to spend $10K. This one sounds just a little too tricky for me.

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    Geeeeeez, flake much???!!

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    I'd get rid of her and find a new ATF that would be much more appreciative of the money you spend. If I had a regular that spent that kind of dough on me, I would never in my wildest dreams pull some shit like that.

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    She thinks she can have her cake and eat it too.
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    i think people like going to parties and clubs and looking like douchebags.

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    also, another red flag is that she's gotten you to spend money that she doesn't directly benefit from (red sox tickets, expensive hotel room). getting a guy to spend money on something he thinks will be a means of meeting you otc can be its own type of hustle. and you'll see her shift (if you are still giving her bunches of money for dances as you've been doing) from getting you to shell out for tickets she doesn't use to some jewellery she'd like to wear on a night out with you. but she can't buy it, because with her work schedule she can never turn up when the shop's open, and she'd look so nice wearing it during dinner with you.

    and you'd claim you had 'no agenda' and buy the jewellery and she would lollerskate to the bank after also collecting her dance money from you.

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    My take is she's trying to keep you as a regular and the way she knows how (which is admittedly, one of the only ways) is to promise OTC action with you. She doesn't really want to do this, or she would have made one of the dates work. But she thinks it's helping to keep you coming in.

    That's my guess.
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    ^^^^
    Thats what I thought also.

    Ever thought about just laughing her off when she says `Oh Id love to do that too!`

    She doesnt really mean it. She also doesnt have to mean it.
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    Better question. If you have 'NO' agenda, then why are you spending this kind of money on her?

    I think before you ask what's up with her, you need to ask what's up with yourself.

    Quote Originally Posted by thechaosfairy View Post
    She thinks she can have her cake and eat it too.
    Heh, heh. Sounds to me like she's doing both very well. Some PL's really know how to make it that easy.
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    ...dude, she will come around if you tell her you have a guitar and a dental plan.
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    Yeah... if you really have "no agenda" why do you keep doing it? Why don't you say "No! You're a flake! I'll visit you in the club because I know you'll be there."

    As for why she's doing it - we don't know. Maybe you don't seem as agenda free to her as you do to us. Maybe she is telling the truth about her excuses. Maybe she got cold feet. Maybe she just enjoys fucking with people.
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    Just keep spending all your money on her, she'll come around sooner or later and you'll live happily ever after.

    (do we have to call you stupid?)

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    Quote Originally Posted by soslow2 View Post
    I call her
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    No offense ladies.




    And what's up with this "i have no agenda" crap? If you have to broadcast that you have no agenda, you have an agenda. Have one of these girls call this chick and ask her if you have an agenda, what do you think she'll say?

    "This dude's trying to fuck me." is what she'll say. Helen Keller could see that.

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    You sound perfect to me. You dont' live in the Ohio tri-state area by any chance do you?!







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    What I wanna know is........how many times do you have to get burned before you learn your lesson?

    You sound like this friend of mine who gets taken for a ride by just about every woman he gets with. They take advantage of him over and over again and he just keeps doing the same thing. It makes no sense. He's an otherwise intelligent man.
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    Quote Originally Posted by holiday View Post
    My take is she's trying to keep you as a regular and the way she knows how (which is admittedly, one of the only ways) is to promise OTC action with you. She doesn't really want to do this, or she would have made one of the dates work. But she thinks it's helping to keep you coming in.

    That's my guess.
    That's how I see it, she thinks that by promising you OTC you'll stay interested, although it sounds like she doesn't even have to with you. She's playing games, I hope you don't get fooled again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    What I wanna know is........how many times do you have to get burned before you learn your lesson?
    Eloquently said.

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    Alfred Pennyworth: Because he thought it was good sport. Because some men aren't looking for anything logical, like money. They can't be bought, bullied, reasoned or negotiated with. Some men just want to watch the world burn.


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    She is mentally unstable. Stop planning to meet up with her, its never going to happen. I am guessing this girl is some loony who gets her kicks out of making men broke, even if they none of that money is going to them. What a weirdo. Find a new more sane regular.

    (I am assuming that SHE is the one suggesting the meet ups, not you. If you are the ones who initially suggests them then she just has a hard time saying no or wants you to think she is interested for you for more than your money)

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    She also might be trying to get you to pay for these outside the club dates. When you don't offer money in exchange for the dates , she backs. That's just one theory though. There could be 100 more true ones .... like others have said ..... we just don't know.

    It's time to smarten up ( like others have already said ). Don't let her pull her shit. I'd find another favorite if I was you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish View Post
    Better question. If you have 'NO' agenda, then why are you spending this kind of money on her?

    I think before you ask what's up with her, you need to ask what's up with yourself.



    Heh, heh. Sounds to me like she's doing both very well. Some PL's really know how to make it that easy.
    Because he knows that she is there to WORK not for freebies and respects her enough to pay her for her time/dances. I am just sorry more men arent like the OP. Not everyone is dirt poor and thus unable to shell out money for "nothing." maybe 10 grand is nothing to him and he simply sees it as entertainment expense. How much do you spend a year on movies/music/dining out/sports events/alcohol etc? Whats is YOUR agenda when you spend a large sum of money on a hobby?

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    ^^^

    You go BebeWood! Doc, come on! You're on a stripper site don't blame other guys for liking strippers...you silly!

    ANYWHO

    I just think it's weird that she does this....Especially since you're not asking her too....weird! I have an answer. If you want to keep seeing her stop making plans with her! Just realize she isn't reliable to be seen OTC.
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    WOW I love this brutal honesty. You guys are great and a huge help. Kind of like a slap in the face (many times over). As far as the future with having her dance for me when I go to the club. No more... BUT as far as an agneda on my part...
    I may be in the minority on this but there was / is no agenda for me. Now would I if asked..........maybe not..............Point one women are to me a work of art that can excite that can take a guy on a trip to bliss. All without the Big BANG... That's my style I guess. As i said before the little kisses and bites are really just as great and last longer. But back to WOMEN.... It's like going to an art gallary and seeing some of GODS best work. That's where I fully realize it needs to be paid for sort of like an admission charge. Some artwork is better the others much artwork if different from another BUT the form of a woman clothed or not can bring a gentle smile to a mans face. I for one can and do get lost in a woman... I only ask one thing be honest that's all.... It's a business and not an easy one which I respect but not ALL guys are the same and the SMART dancers understand that.
    Many thanks truly !! (By the way the Club is Fantasies in Providence Rhode Island if anyne out there is from the area).

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    Quote Originally Posted by soslow2 View Post
    Some artwork is better the others much artwork if different from another BUT the form of a woman clothed or not can bring a gentle smile to a mans face.
    ...dude, my ATF is better than your ATF but good luck with yours.
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