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    Default Wait...so did I just become a call girl?

    I have a customer that I've hung out with a couple of times OTC. Lawyer, big house, beautiful pool, 3 awesome dogs. He's very good looking, and was always super polite when he came to the club. I saw him once a week for about 4 months before I decided to go home with him, JFTR.

    The last couple of times we've been hanging at the pool, he's gone nude. (I've always been nude ) It really didn't bother me at all- he's got a very nice body and somehow wasn't creepy about it. He and his wife are very into being nude- there are pics in their bedroom and basement of them naked, they always go to nude beaches, they chill at their house nude with friends, stuff like that.

    Yesterday when I went, we hooked up. We had no talk about the money for it or anything- it just happened. He paid me double what my day rate was ($1500), so I wasn't disappointed there, but I didn't even do it for the money. It just sorta happened, and it was actually fun! I wasn't like, cringing the whole time or anything. He was pretty good

    He just called and asked me if I wanted to come back tonight, b/c his wife is out of town (they have an open marraige, her idea). I really have nothing going on and it would be a great night out instead of just hanging around here and getting high... every time I come to his house he grills out yummy steaks and makes all these sides- I really get pampered.

    But now I feel like a hooker.

    Advicez plz.

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    Default Re: Wait...so did I just become a call girl?

    Well, if the being paid part is what makes you feel uneasy, then don't take the money.

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    Default Re: Wait...so did I just become a call girl?

    sounds like your more of a sugar baby then a prostitute but i suppose it is what it is.

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    Default Re: Wait...so did I just become a call girl?

    paid for sex=hooker. I don't see how the lines can be blurred.
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    Default Re: Wait...so did I just become a call girl?

    Well would you be hanging out with him if you knew you wouldn't make a dime?

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    Default Re: Wait...so did I just become a call girl?

    Tonight I probably would- which is very weird for me.

    But he has great pot, we have the best stoner conversations, his dogs are awesome, and steak is the best munchie food

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    Tonight I probably would- which is very weird for me.

    But he has great pot, we have the best stoner conversations, his dogs are awesome, and steak is the best munchie food
    so instead of money your trading sex for pot and steak. whatever works for you!

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    Default Re: Wait...so did I just become a call girl?

    ^^^^

    wowwwwww

    really i'm not trading the sex for anything. I never went over there ytdy thinking that we were going to have sex... I just started wondering after a while what he'd be like, then one thing led to another and whatever.

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    Default Re: Wait...so did I just become a call girl?

    Oh, and that post will self destruct at 7

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    Default Re: Wait...so did I just become a call girl?

    well he payed you double and you slept with him so technically it was for money. what do you think people are going to say?

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    Quote Originally Posted by i.breathe.in View Post
    so instead of money your trading sex for pot and steak. whatever works for you!
    yeah but thats like saying youre trading dinner for sex if you go out to eat first. that makes things all blurry and messy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    yeah but thats like saying youre trading dinner for sex if you go out to eat first. that makes things all blurry and messy.
    true, i just thought it sounded funny.

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    He paid me double what my day rate was ($1500),
    yep, you're a call girl. No doubt. But, I think there are plenty of us who would do the same thing. I would if I was single. A fun night, lots of money and not even any guilt about his wife. Sounds fine to me. Go again tonight and definitely take the money!
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    Default Re: Wait...so did I just become a call girl?

    Well let me ask this.. do you like him? I mean he's married, he's been a customer from the club who up until now you've been making money off of.. Are you so 'blurry' because you're wanting some kind of relationship or something out of this? Or are you confused because you weren't planning to sleep with him. The married guy.

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    Don't do anything you feel bad about....... but I don't know why you would feel bad about this. It sounds like a good opportunity to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyCurlieQ View Post
    Well let me ask this.. do you like him? I mean he's married, he's been a customer from the club who up until now you've been making money off of.. Are you so 'blurry' because you're wanting some kind of relationship or something out of this? Or are you confused because you weren't planning to sleep with him. The married guy.
    Oh no! I have a boyfriend who *I* have an open relationship with...I'm not looking for something like that.

    Besides, I'm moving the 20th to the West Coast!

    I'm going I'll check in from my blackberry lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    Oh no! I have a boyfriend who *I* have an open relationship with...I'm not looking for something like that.

    Besides, I'm moving the 20th to the West Coast!

    I'm going I'll check in from my blackberry lol
    would your boyfriend consider that fucking a guy for money thing a dealbreaker even in a open relationship?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post

    He just called and asked me if I wanted to come back tonight, b/c his wife is out of town (they have an open marraige, her idea). I really have nothing going on and it would be a great night out instead of just hanging around here and getting high... every time I come to his house he grills out yummy steaks and makes all these sides- I really get pampered.

    But now I feel like a hooker.

    Advicez plz.
    Enjoy it!

    Or don't. Either way, know what line you're at and be comfortable with it. (Being able to think to yourself 'I was a call girl for a period' or 'I'm a sugar baby' is better than 'Wait, what the hell just happened? Why do I have all this money???')

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    Go for it hun. If it were me Id do it. Good company, good sex, good fun - the money is a bonus. Shit, Im there! (if I wasnt married....)

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    If you want to have sex with him then go ahead. If you feel uncomfortable about it then bail. Dont let the label fool you. IMO its nothing to be ashamed of and he seems like the client of many hookers dreams.

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    I you got money for sex then yeah, you're a call girl. But like the others have said if you're ok with it then why not do it. Have fun and make $$.

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    Yes I think that makes you a hooker, but hell at least you are doing it up and being a high class one! Also, its not like you fucked some toothless guy at a truckstop, you enjoyed it and the guy was hot. HELL YEAH that you got paid for it. And a lot too!

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    I don't see why you'd give a rat's ass "what people are going to think" (why would they even know, it's none of their business) or what kind of label you put on it. Some people are going to consider it prostitution, some aren't. What matters is what YOU think of it. If you want to have sex with him, then do. If you don't, then don't. If you want to take the money, then do. If you don't, then don't. Anyone else's opinion is irrelevant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    I don't see why you'd give a rat's ass "what people are going to think" (why would they even know, it's none of their business) or what kind of label you put on it. Some people are going to consider it prostitution, some aren't. What matters is what YOU think of it. If you want to have sex with him, then do. If you don't, then don't. If you want to take the money, then do. If you don't, then don't. Anyone else's opinion is irrelevant.

    I agree 100%. Doesnt matter what anyone thinks but you(and maybe your bf). If you are happy with the situation...then be happy and dont feel the need to put a label on it.

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    Who cares what you call it--- its all schematics really....whether you are a sugar baby, a call girl, or a chick who gets all dolled up on Saturday night and goes out and fucks at the end of the night for some dinner & free drinks---- its all pretty much the same. At least you got paid a heck of alot more than the last example I threw in there. Who cares what other people other people think or label you as, as long as you are comfortable with the choices you make for yourself. You know deep down the kind of person you are and getting paid for sex hardly makes you "bad" "immoral" or less than anyone else (it is the worlds oldest profession after all.) On the other hand if you feel guilty or bad about it- chalk it up to a lapse in good judgement & don't do it again or give it a label you feel comfortable with so you can feel ok with yourself.


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