View Poll Results: Your internal attitude toward nudity?

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  • Meh, I don't care, I could walk down the street naked if other people wouldn't freak

    30 42.86%
  • Naturally bothers me some, but not too much, mostly don't really think about it/don't care

    15 21.43%
  • It has meaning for me -- either as a thrill (exhibitionism) or as shame

    10 14.29%
  • Something else

    15 21.43%
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Thread: Speaking of naked.....your basic attitude?

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    Default Speaking of naked.....your basic attitude?

    If possible, your basic internal orientation...which you would have had before ever starting dancing (for the most part). I know this can kind of change over time, so I know it can be kind of hard to capture the attitude as other than a "snapshot in time."

    Just for example, I'm kind of the middle one, I don't particularly want other people to see me naked, but I really don't care if they do, there's no moral or religious meaning I attach to it at all.

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    I voted "something else." Because nudity has multiple meanings for me. It is sometimes a commodity and sometimes its not. When I'm doing something that's part of the sex trade, nudity is my uniform. When I'm having sex for pleasure, nudity is intimacy, and a gift shared between my partner and I.

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    I think clothes are a pain in the ass! Jumpers pull my hair, sleeves confuse me, zips chip my nail colour, and then after all that it has to match!
    I hate `trends` and `dressing for your age` too.

    But then it clothes were abolished, Id have to see fat old men naked.

    Also half the fun of performing is letting others see me naked, because its `norty`

    And sex woudnt be half as much fun it there were no `rude parts`

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    I used to be very uncomfortable being naked even during sex. Since ive now been dancing at a nude club for 2 years I am totally comfortable being nude.

    However I would not walk down the street naked coz Im far more comfortable in clothes (not as in embarrassed but clothes feel good to me esp my tracksuit it's cosy) and I love fashion.

    I get enough attn from men in the street when im wearing my tracksuit tucked into my ugg boots. So I def wouldnt want to walk around naked. They can come to my club and pay to see it tho.
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    I'm actually kind of modest. At home, I just wear a tank top and undies. My husband is always chilling out naked at home and it actually kind of weirds me out but I don't say anything because that's mean. I'd rather him just wear boxers.. I think I'm this way because we have a 2 year old son, and I don't really think either of us should just be naked in front of him. Maybe I'm totally wrong?

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    Id be naked in my house a lot more of my dogs were more tactful!

    Jester jumps off my lap in such a way as to endanger my clit ring, and Missi thinks my boobs are trampolines. Considering she has more boobs down her body you would think she would be more understanding?
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    It used to matter and hold more meaning... I still think it holds meaning, but dancing has definitely desensitized me to it. I'd only walk down the street nekkid in 8 inch heels. Not barefoot... too much of a stump.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loveandluxury View Post
    I'm actually kind of modest. At home, I just wear a tank top and undies. My husband is always chilling out naked at home and it actually kind of weirds me out but I don't say anything because that's mean. I'd rather him just wear boxers.. I think I'm this way because we have a 2 year old son, and I don't really think either of us should just be naked in front of him. Maybe I'm totally wrong?
    Lol, I couldn't deal with that. Naked is not the best look for most men.

    I don't mind being semi-naked at work, nor do I mind changing in front of friends or in front of my husband. But I do like to wear clothes, and I never hang around the house naked.
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    i love how guys always focus on the nudity aspect. i get asked by customers all the time how "i can be naked like that" or whatever. they say it's brave or takes balls.

    in reality the difficult part of the job is giving dances and talking to customers. at least, for me. i could be fully naked up there on the stage all day without a damned care in the world. but, give me a dance with one handsy asshole and it's entirely different.

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    Most of my boyfriends found my comfort with nudity surprisingly unnerving. I'm not an exhibitionist particularly, I'm just comfortable naked. I sleep and hang out around the house in the nude. Apparently a lot of people find this strange.... To me nudity isn't neccesarily sexual so its easier for me to be naked on stage than to give a dressed speech in class
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    psychologically, i'm totally cool with nudity. but i'm also vain, so i don't think i'd be comfortable with it unless i was in good shape. i'm also not comfortable with how others view nudity...what feels perfectly natural to me would get quite a lot of attention, good and bad, and i'd really rather no one notice me most of the time.

    the girls need support, so i'd still need to wear a bra.

    but i like that nudity is "dirty" to so many people. it's good for business.

    sometimes i wonder if i'd make more money if i was less comfortable getting naked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    i love how guys always focus on the nudity aspect. i get asked by customers all the time how "i can be naked like that" or whatever. they say it's brave or takes balls.

    in reality the difficult part of the job is giving dances and talking to customers. at least, for me. i could be fully naked up there on the stage all day without a damned care in the world. but, give me a dance with one handsy asshole and it's entirely different.
    this is true for me too as in the part about talking to customers. i wish customers would come in and take a ticket like at the deli and pick the girl they wanted and then when their number was called the dancer would do the dance. I would make so much more money. I really suck at conversation, Im far too shy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    this is true for me too as in the part about talking to customers. i wish customers would come in and take a ticket like at the deli and pick the girl they wanted and then when their number was called the dancer would do the dance. I would make so much more money. I really suck at conversation, Im far too shy.
    oh my god me too. i wish i could just dance on stage and have guys request me for dances -or- time. i don't mind conversation if i'm getting paid for it. some of my best regulars have been convo only. i just hate hate hate "cold approaching" people. i wish it wasn't the norm/expected.

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    Quote Originally Posted by saphire123456 View Post
    its easier for me to be naked on stage than to give a dressed speech in class
    lol me too. i had really bad panic/anxiety related to my public speaking class. i actually almost fainted. when i told my friends they were like "chrys.... you dance topless all the time... what the hell?" and i'd be like "IT'S NOT THE SAAMMEEE!!!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    lol me too. i had really bad panic/anxiety related to my public speaking class. i actually almost fainted. when i told my friends they were like "chrys.... you dance topless all the time... what the hell?" and i'd be like "IT'S NOT THE SAAMMEEE!!!"
    It's soooo not the same thing. Most of the people you meet in a strip club you will never meet again in your life. In a classroom setting...you have to deal with the other students and the teacher for the whole semester. Plus..you get graded for speeches. Last time I checked I wasn't getting graded on my "stage performance" while at work !
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    Don't think the human body is anything to be ashamed about.

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    I love being naked. At home I'm mostly just in panties. I'd be nude, but I have leather couches!

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    I am conscious about modesty when the situation calls for it. For example, I feel extremely uncomfortable wearing something low-cut or belly-baring in a more conservative setting. When I'm enjoying a night (or day) out where that isn't an issue, I love showing skin! Why not? It's comfortable and I look great.

    So for me I guess it's all about appropriateness for the venue.

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    I hate clothes. I only wear clothes because I have to. When I'm in my apartment, I'm in thongs and that's it.



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