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    Default Dancer doesnt like when I come in with friends

    I havent posted here in awhile but I had an interesting thing happen to me recently at the strip club I go to. I started going to this club a few months ago regularly and when I go there I mainly see this one dancer. I go to this club about 3-5 times a week because I have alot of free time on my hands as I make money playing poker and am in a very good living situation now with very few bills to pay. I usually go to the club by myself but sometimes go with a friend or two who I gamble with. Whenever I do this, me and my friends tend to go to the stage area and tip. The dancer that I come there to see hates when I do this. She actually told me the last time I did this that she didnt want me to come to the club anymore with my friends. She likes it when I sit in the back and talk with her. What should I make of this matter with this dancer? I have seen her outside the club several times but she hates my friends. I know the obvious answer would be to not come to the club with my friends but I was thinking if there was any other solution I could get from this.

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    She gets more money from you when you are alone, I'm guessing. And if you are with friends you split your attention and she doesn't like that. If you're in there 3-5 times a week she needs to get over it. She can't expect you to hang out alone all of the time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hallrvdrul View Post
    I know the obvious answer would be to not come to the club with my friends.
    I can think of a more obvious answer.

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    Default Re: Dancer doesnt like when I come in with friends

    ditto to what andy said.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    I can think of a more obvious answer.
    Me too. "Find another girl."

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    Default Re: Dancer doesnt like when I come in with friends

    Why is this stuff difficult?

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    Seriously you are going to let a dancer tell u who you can and can't bring to the club with you? Ummmm ok I'd be telling her to fuck off but that's just me.
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    Default Re: Dancer doesnt like when I come in with friends

    just tell her and i quote" eat a bag of burning shit, im not spending another dime on you."

    it should be effective.

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    Well she probly makes more money when you come in alone.
    Also, 3-5 times a week? Get some more hobbies.
    Too much time in the club is bad for ones health(mine anyways)
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    Do they... do anything? I've had customers who had undesirable friends.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Do they... do anything? I've had customers who had undesirable friends.
    Ummm. They are cheap. They have never gotten a lapdance in their life. They'll spend all their money gambling but none at the club besides tipping on stage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hallrvdrul View Post
    Ummm. They are cheap. They have never gotten a lapdance in their life. They'll spend all their money gambling but none at the club besides tipping on stage.
    If that's all... it could be worse. I once saw a guy spill beer on the stage deliberately as a tip. Yes, really.

    But there you go. She doesn't like them because they don't value her work and you probably are not as good a customer when they are there (it's unavoidable - i'm sure you are a great guy, normally). If you like hanging out with her in the club more than you like hanging out with them in the club - ditch them, and see them at other events. If you would rather hang out with them... find another girl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hallrvdrul View Post
    I have seen her outside the club several times but she hates my friends.
    Does she hate your friends she has met with you OTC as well? Maybe you treat her differently when you are around your friends.

    Quote Originally Posted by hallrvdrul View Post
    I know the obvious answer would be to not come to the club with my friends but I was thinking if there was any other solution I could get from this.
    Get new friends?

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    [quote=Luke34;1660094]Does she hate your friends she has met with you OTC as well? Maybe you treat her differently when you are around your friends.

    My friends are smartasses who talk alot. I act similar to them when I am around them. When I am by myself, I am pretty quiet. She actually told me to come over to meet her at a dance club not too long ago and I brought someone with me because she had brought a couple of her friends. She danced with my friend when he came with and had no problem with him there. It is pretty much only a problem when they come to the strip club with me because I act rowdy and ignore her. She has no problem with them OTC.

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    If you like to go with your friends and have a better time when you are with your friends, then keep going with your friends.

    As long as you treat her the same way, she should have no complaints.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Luke34 View Post
    It is pretty much only a problem when they come to the strip club with me because I act rowdy and ignore her. She has no problem with them OTC.
    And your question is?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    She gets more money from you when you are alone, I'm guessing. And if you are with friends you split your attention and she doesn't like that. If you're in there 3-5 times a week she needs to get over it. She can't expect you to hang out alone all of the time.
    End of thread, you say you've seen her outside the club several times so "time together" isn't the problem. Its all about the $$$$ in this situation. I say just keep doing what you doing she'll either adapt or find another buddy

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