Somehow this popped in my head and I wanted to know if any of you ladies do this? I know I do this (whisper) after the first dance, to encourage more repeat dances..but what about sealing the deal on the first dance.





Somehow this popped in my head and I wanted to know if any of you ladies do this? I know I do this (whisper) after the first dance, to encourage more repeat dances..but what about sealing the deal on the first dance.
Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"
I can't whisper because the club is so dang loud, but I will talk in their ear.
Typically my lines are something like this:
1. so when are we going to go in back so I can wrap my legs around you?
or when I'm wearing my wig
2. Blondes have more fun. wanna see?
anything can be made extra provacative when said into one's ear-- although I have no problem shouting this to groups of men to get a laugh, and then get one or two to go back with me one after the other.





I did it the other night for the first time. He was sitting on a chair with his legs apart as men do. I walked up nd stood between his legs and whispered "do u want to come to the private area with me?". He just got out of his seat and followed me. Hehe. I doubt it was the whispering so much as this guy was prob just waiting to be asked for a dance.
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I totally do this! It works 9 out of 10 times. I make sure I breathe real heavy and I may even throw in a nibble on his earlobe![]()




I do the whisper-in-the-ear every single time. 99% of the LD's I give, turn into multiples. I read that tip in HH and am very happy that I did!
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I'm going to try this when I work tomorrow.
It would have to be in the type of club/crowd where you don't have to have much conversation beforehand. I can't wait to try this!
I do this after the first dance. it works sometimes..i think it makes them want more because of how close you are to them when you are talking to them....they have you on their lap and can smell yo ect...





Oh yea, i always do it after the first dance..but I was asking if any of you ladies whisper while you're still sitting at the table, and haven't done ANY dances yet.
Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"





I usually don't whisper in their ears before I have done any dances because like fancygirl said, it's too damn loud in my club. I also frequently use -The "It's Too Loud Over Here, Would You Like To Go Someplace a Little More Private/Quiet?" Hustle- to get them where I want them. After that, then I can get a little more playful.



Oh definately! Whispering is kind of like phone sex. $1 a minute = more dances.
The only issue is you dont wanna sexily whisper an entire conversation, so I think this would work great if you didn't have to presale the sale with bullshit like where are you from what brings you here etc.
I could see this working on a guy you spoke with earlier and are coming back to see if he's ready, or someone you previously danced for by whispering "wanna have more fun with me I can't stop thinking about how good you smell." Or something along those lines.





There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.



Always. It's hot. Like man-nip... haha




All the time! It works like a charm. It doesn't even matter WHAT you're saying. You can say the most average, mundane things (or even just "want a lapdance?"). As long as you're leaning in close, whispering it seductively in his ear, and giving off the vibe that you two are sharing some great inside joke, you're golden.
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HHHHhhmmmmm... I may have to give this a try, too (amidst the loudness), to see if it'll shorten things up a bit.
that's a good idea, I'll try it tonight!
I can definately see how men would like it, it sounds sexy, and plus if you're so close to them that you can wisper in their ear, all their senses are stimulated=more $ for us![]()
sounds great but at my club they play the music so loud that whenever I whisper the customers reply is always a loud "WHAT?" lol
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