Okay all you Dr. Ruths out there!!~
I'm getting worried. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. We live together and are great friends. For about 6 months now, I have virtually no interest in having sex with him. It's not like he let himself go or something...I thought he was gorgeous the first time I met him and I still do. We get along well and have fun together. We have a good relationship and are best friends, as couples should be,, and the sex was great. However, last fall I was struggling with body issues and didn't want to do anything sexual. This lack of attention on his part really bothered him alot- he felt less attractive and neglected. Since then, he complains frequently about it. Now the complaining has spiraled into this beast where sex with him now feels like an obligation. I am not even remotely turned on by the idea. I feel really bad, so I try to not reject him, but he knows when I am not into it and complains about that too. Often once we begin it's fine and Im into it, but Im worried because I have been meeting random attractive men lately and the idea of fucking them is so thrilling. I don't want to cheat on him because I want to be with him-we have a great life together-but I dont understand how things can be complete if we are not on the same page sexually. It's like I have this mental block where sex with him=work, not enjoyment.How can this be fixed (can it be fixed)?



How can this be fixed (can it be fixed)?
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"I Can Sell Raid To A Bug. i'm A Hustler I Can Sell Salt To A Slug" -Cassidy 
But, we are good friends now... I am happier, too.
Then he is ready for me too, and makes an effort for me. Like he'll dress nice, be freshly showered and shaved etc.
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