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Last edited by angelicat; 10-17-2008 at 02:47 PM.




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Maybe taking too much time off made you lose your mojo?
Wherever it went, I hope you get it back soon!
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^ I agree. I think taking bunches of time off can work in your favor or against you.




When I miss 3 or 4 days in a row, I have to definitely hype myself up more, the first day I return. I like when I go in on consecutive days....seems easier for me to get into "stripper mode".
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I have nights like this too...where I am feeling really lazy and don't really want to go through the hassle of talking to customers. Then at the end of the night I am so pissed that I didn't try harder.
I tried making a game of it last Saturday. I get competitive with myself if I set firm goals. So I told myself I need to approach "x" number of customers and sell "x" number of dances in an hour.
I need goals...otherwise I get distracted and wander around the club until a customer taps me on the shoulder or calls me over.
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We are here to laugh at the odds and live our lives so well that Death will tremble to take us.
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I've always found on my shy nights a little reward system worked well for me. Approach 10 guys then i give myself a treat like a 10 minute reading break or go call a friend for a few then back on the floor and repeat. Also be kind to yourself. Don't imagine how much you would of made. Give yourself kudo's for making it in and making money then you realize it's not that bad a next time it will be easier.
I also agree when you are on a roll is the time to keep working. When you've hit several bad shifts in a row is the time for a break.
I try and remember one of the main things I learned on Stripperweb....talk to everyone as much as possible! Even if you're not on a hustle, just talking can lead to money. I've had nights being lazy, hanging by the bar, and a guy walks up and I say hi, what's your name, whatever, not going anywhere with it, and he'll say out of the blue, "Why yes, I'd love a dance, I thought you'd never ask" and practically have to drag me off cuz I'm like, ugh, no mojo. But just saying hi can get you a few dances to start the night, all uphill from there!
"I'm teaching fools some basic rules. / I believe in the Golden Rule. The man with the gold rules. / I made a little money.
And like the Bible says, I was enjoying the fruits of my labor. This is my comeback. This is me doing what I love to do." -- Mr. T
"In the street I am my divine self. In the club I am a stripper, portraying a fantasy.
That's not to say anybody can do or say anything to me but it's acting. Playing a role. That simple." -- Pure![]()
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I think I'm just waaaayyy to used to having regulars that give me money just to sit and chat. I get spoiled... then on nights when none of em show I get discouraged. Oh well, had a good weekend and feeling better...
Thanks girlies.




^^ Ah, yes, the regs will spoil you..
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