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    i am a member on here under a different name, but something bad has happened to me and since i have met some sw ladies, i really want to keep this private.

    i did a private party recently and the customer proceeded to yank me by my breasts- hard! i have implants and my breasts are hurting and a bit sore. i am about to get my period, so a bit of swelling is normal. i am worried about the implants rupturing. they are saline.

    what can i do if this happens? i did not call police. i am sitting here crying. i can understand guys may get handsy, but this guy was just plain violent. my agency doesnt know. stupid stupid stupid. i know. i guess i am looking for someone who has been through this.

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    has anyone gone through this?

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    I've done private parties before but never has that happened. I'm sorry he did this to you.

    If it ruptures the saline will safely leak into the body leaving you with a 'flat tire' that you will have to fix right away. Get to your BA doc and have him/her check it out for leaks. If it ruptured you will know within 24hrs when full deflation occurs.

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    are they deflating? Implants are pretty tough! You might jsut be feeling muscle soreness.

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    implants can withstand somehwere around 300 lbs of pressure, so i doubt he popped them.

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    thnaks for the replies. i am very upset and in pain.
    it has been over 24 hrs. i'm still very sore. no deflation yet.

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    I've had guys grab my boobs REALLY hard and they havent ruptured.(though they are lucky I didnt rupture their head when I elbowed them in the face).So you will prob be ok. They will be sore for awhile though

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    ckxx, it's good to know i'm not alone. i jumped up, screamed 'ow!' and smacked him.

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    when i first got my implants done, some girl squeezed them cuz she asked if she could touch them it hurt so bad. deff not alone on that one.

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    tigersmilk, i havent even told the agency. so i wouldnt call police yet. i think talking to my ps tomorrow is the best first step. i posted this because i'm upset and needed somewhere to turn and to see if anyone else went through that. if there is damage, i'm notifying the agency and then will continue with whatever else needs to be done. i have the customer's contact info- address, phone, even place of work.

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    Everything is probably ok but hope everything goes well tomorrow at the ps's office.
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    Some dumbass kid grabbed my boobs and squeezed them when I was onstage in Guam (natch) it was suddenly, surprisingly painful. Because he looked like a teenager, I didn't bust him one but told him to never do that to a woman again. (I have a feeling he wasn't so lucky the next time he tried that- I'm sure he did.)

    I agree it's probably just muscle soreness. Hope you feel better. (((SOFT HUGS)))

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    my left arm is also tingling a bit

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    update:
    i wound up having to go to the er that night. they encouraged me to press charges.

    i heard from my ps that night and saw him the next day. no rupture has occurred. i have notified the agency and they are furious that this happened to me.

    it has been a few days and i'm still taking pain meds, advil and putting on ice. they are still swollen.

    my agency wants me to contact the party host and tell him what happened, since he obviously wasnt paying attention when i jumped up, screamed and smacked his bachelor. i shouldnt have to talk to these assholes in attempts to get money from them. i feel degraded in doing so. i dont think i should have to be paying these medical bills and be stuck in bed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovinglady View Post
    update:
    i wound up having to go to the er that night. they encouraged me to press charges.

    i heard from my ps that night and saw him the next day. no rupture has occurred. i have notified the agency and they are furious that this happened to me.

    it has been a few days and i'm still taking pain meds, advil and putting on ice. they are still swollen.

    my agency wants me to contact the party host and tell him what happened, since he obviously wasnt paying attention when i jumped up, screamed and smacked his bachelor. i shouldnt have to talk to these assholes in attempts to get money from them. i feel degraded in doing so. i dont think i should have to be paying these medical bills and be stuck in bed.
    what did they say was wrong at the er?

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    they couldnt find or really do anything per se. swelling and pain was noted. my ps said no rupture and there are no visible marks.

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    They want you to call the guy? Shouldn't they be doing that since they are an agency representing you and they booked the job for you?



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    i called them and told them that. the agency is calling this guy and i will file a police report. god damn i am in pain right now. i have to take breaks from typing...

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    Oh sweetie I'm so sorry... your agency sounds like they dropped the ball a bit about getting the money, but hopefully they're going to fix it.

    I don't have implants so I can't say if there are problems (sounds like just pain if your PS gave you the all-clear,) but I've had injured tatas before and it can take a good few weeks for the pain to subside. I know it sucks, but try not to worry too much about problems.

    I really want to deck this guy I don't think you should have to call the host, but your agency should ride his ass, threats of a lawsuit, maybe. Whatever it takes to get your money and a BIG apology.

    Feel better soon!

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    sounds like you could sue someone over this.

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    ^^^ Definately. The LEAST they should do is comp. you for medical expenses and any financial losses if you take time off work. Fucked up. Sorry to hear it : (.

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    Thats so jacked up.. I'm so sorry.

    Thats happened to me a few times and I tell the guy unless he wants to give me the cost of a new set of boobs he better back off. Awful, awful!

    I hope your agency helps you out and remember, document, document document.. EVERYTHING. So after you press charges you will have evidence of what happened.

    I hope you feel better soon and please keep us updated.

    xoxoxo

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crow2 View Post
    Thats so jacked up.. I'm so sorry.

    Thats happened to me a few times and I tell the guy unless he wants to give me the cost of a new set of boobs he better back off. Awful, awful!
    I've done that...smacked them and held their hands down and told them that unless they want to pay $7000 plus time off expenses for this one dance they better keep themselves in check cause you break em you bought em bitch!

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    I am so angry for you right now. I can't imagine how violated you must feel.

    I am with Crow. Honey, PLEASE document, retroactively. Go back to when it happened and document any major event since then and from today--hospital visits, major pain spikes, anything at all to show that you've got your shit together.

    This should never happen to anyone.

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    That's really fucked up Some men are just complete barbaric animals when it comes to strippers. They think we have no feelings or feel no pain.

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