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    Default Everyone's doing it?!

    Remember the thread I posted about how the girls at my club were doing heroin and I left? Well, I decided to go back today, and 1 out of the 3 showed up. So when she comes in, she asks me did I leave because of her and I said no. So I guess she automatically knew what she did that made me feel uncomfortable. So, I just wanted to clear the air and I told her that it freaked me out because I never saw anyone do that in front of me before. She apologized and said that she wouldn't do it again...in front of me at least.

    OK...

    Then, she says "Well this is what we do...we smoke weed, we do coke, we pop pills, and sometimes we do heroin. Everyone's doing it in here." Which I KNOW is NOT true because I haven't done that...well the coke and heroin part...everything else I struggled with back in the day. And she says that me, one of the barmaids, and the owner are the only 3 who hasn't done coke or heroin...then she goes on to say, "You can be a goody two shoes and be fine. I'm not strung out on it. You'll be fine."...like I was really going to try the shit.

    So she then goes on and rats out on everyone...naming names of who've done what and when. I just looked at her...and I knew this was the beginning of her trying to start some drama. I just shrugged my shoulders and told her that I didn't think any differently of her and whatever she does is her own business. I'm not here to judge...just make $$$ like her. She said she understood and apologized again.

    Fine...so everything is done and over with. But the part that pissed me off was when she said that everyone is doing drugs...HELLO??? I know alot of girls who are strippers who don't even drink...let alone do drugs. Honestly, like I said, the girl is cool as hell and she's taught me a few hustle tips, but its the girls like her who give us good girls a bad name.

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    Default Re: Everyone's doing it?!

    I was friends with a junkie couple and they'd always try to get others to use with them for a few reasons:

    * they felt guilty about being druggies, and misery loves company

    * by turning other people on to junk they had friends to 'chip in' on bags with them

    * people who weren't seasoned addicts didn't know the street value of the dope, so the couple would rip 'em off - more drugs/$ for them!

    And there ya go. Thankfully I'm very peer pressure resistant, so they never turned me on to it. But a lot of our mutual friends got strung out thanks to them.

    Druggies can never have enough drug buddies!

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    At least it's not a hostile environment there. The confrontation with her could have been very different if she thought you were going to rat her out. Acting "tolerant" is probably the best thing you could have done, and you did. Sadly, those girls NEED to believe that everyone there is doing it. That way they don't feel bad. But it's not your problem!

    Other than that, I'd let the fact that the majority of the girls do shit there roll off your back. Stay out of the dressing room so you don't have to see it as much and make your money. Be proud of the fact that you choose to spend your tit money on worthwhile things that will better your life and not drag you down.
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    Drug abuse is one reason why I don't hang out with girls OTC. I have seen it rampant among clubs/girls and then I have rarely seen it at all.

    I worked at a small club in Illinois where there was only about maybe 6-8 girls. All the girls hung out together, etc - I didn't because hell, I am there to make money. One Saturday all of them were happy, clingy, talking too much to the guys, not collecting tips...turns out they all decided to have an X party at work as it would be 'fun'. I banked that night as I was the only one who wasn't high. I mean these girls were hanging all over guys, dancing with them on the floor, making out with each other, grabbing customers, not taking any money for anything. It was actually comical to watch at one point.

    One girl said something similar to me about be a 'prude' and I said I didn't have an issue with what anyone else wanted to do, but to stay the hell away from me and leave me out of it. It's hard but I agree...your confrontation could have been worse.

    One thing about clubs in general is just to avoid getting sucked into the drama....whetever it may be. When she starts naming names, talking about other girls, just say you just don't want to hear it. Not all strippers use drugs, but some do just like in any profession.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BohemianSiren View Post
    I think this is an overgeneralization. I do drugs. Sometimes I do them at work. I'm not sure if I qualify as a "druggie,"
    Not judging...but if you do drugs on a reg basis...I would consider you a "druggie". What else would you define one as??

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