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    Default To all the girls who sit forever with customers

    I love you at times, yet I hate you at other times.

    I love how you waste your time and give me free roam of the room to find the guys who have money and will spend on me. Sometimes even after I've finished numerous lapdances or even a room, you'll STILL be talking to the same guy, and you STILL won't even have gotten a drink out of him. Perhaps he will tip you while you're dancing on stage...eh, probably not. You then complain about how bad a of a night it was, and how you didn't make any money. Gee, I wonder why. You then proceed to sit down with another guy who, if you're lucky, might buy you a drink. You sit and talk for half an hour over 1 or 2 drinks, while I'm doing several lapdances or a room...hmm...$20 or $200+? I think I'll take the latter.

    I hate how, when the majority of guys in the rm don't want dances, I look like an idiot. I approach numerous guys and talk with them for 1 - 3 songs and move on. I know that some customers see me getting turned down (or at least what looks to be getting turned down) by others, and because I'm the only one attempting to get dances in a timely fashion, I'm also the only one constantly getting turned down for dances.

    I hate how you show guys it's okay to come in and not spend. Sometimes they don't even buy a DRINK. But no, you keep talking to them for free, which reinforces their cheap behavior. You train them to be cheapasses.

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    LOL you're quite funny.

    I'm a big talker but usually only with regulars that tip me for my time anyway. Even if I do get a drink it's down and I'm out in three songs if he's not tipping or dancing.

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    I don't know how they do it! It pains me to talk to guys sometimes. Usually I pop the question at the start of the next song. If for some reason (like waitress brings drinks, friend asks question) I am unable to ask for a dance at the start of the very next song and I have to wait through a whole new one, I am usually totally pissed.

    I'm fast, what can I say?

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    Quote Originally Posted by exotica268 View Post
    I hate how, when the majority of guys in the rm don't want dances, I look like an idiot. I approach numerous guys and talk with them for 1 - 3 songs and move on. I know that some customers see me getting turned down (or at least what looks to be getting turned down) by others, and because I'm the only one attempting to get dances in a timely fashion, I'm also the only one constantly getting turned down for dances.

    I hate how you show guys it's okay to come in and not spend. Sometimes they don't even buy a DRINK. But no, you keep talking to them for free, which reinforces their cheap behavior. You train them to be cheapasses.
    ^^My last club was SO much like this. The girls had those customers TRAINED to not spend money because they'd sit there and schmooze. And the VIP rooms were rarely used at that club. No wonder! The management would even get on our asses during meetings about the majority of girls giving away their time for free.

    Some nights, I'd build up a momentum by doing a lot of dances and looking like I was in demand. Other nights, the same approach would fuck me in the ass! Sometimes so many girls would be parked with customers that the girls that WANTED to hustle had no laps to go to. I love working in a busy club now because I don't have to worry about this!
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    These girls suck. But at the same time there are plenty of girls at my club who dont do it so not too many customers expect lengthy conversation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by paintgoddess View Post
    ^^My last club was SO much like this. The girls had those customers TRAINED to not spend money because they'd sit there and schmooze. And the VIP rooms were rarely used at that club. No wonder! The management would even get on our asses during meetings about the majority of girls giving away their time for free.
    Those girls should have been fired. There's nothing you can do after they've been told how to sell and still don't sell. The house fee can't make up for turning the club into a sit-and-nurse-one-beer club.
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    Default Re: To all the girls who sit forever with customers

    you and i have the same love hate relationship with these girls

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    2 songs max is my limit with a customer.....
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    On one hand, it does keep them busy while I make the rounds and make the money. On the other hand, it sucks when the club is dead and one of these girls is sitting with each of the majority of customers... and yeah, they're training them to be cheapasses.

    Two songs, maybe three when it's slow and if they haven't at least gotten me a drink I move on. Once I get my drink quota I don't even give it that long.
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    Quote Originally Posted by winterrose View Post
    2 songs max is my limit with a customer.....
    That's the average at all the clubs I've worked at too. It's pretty funny when the idiots get upset over girls walking away from their cheap asses.

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    Quote Originally Posted by winterrose View Post
    2 songs max is my limit with a customer.....
    Me too. Sometimes I'll do 3 songs, but typically 2 songs is the limit for me.

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    I know there are some girls who work for drinks - but I think the girls you are talking about aren't really doing it on purpose. They are just not very good at the job.
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    ^ agreed. They know whether they like you or not in less than a song.

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    ^And they know if they are broke before they leave home! LOL So never waste time with guys trying to drag out the conversation.
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    those girls are likely just cockblocking
    they arent making anything, so they rely on the old "dancer etiquette"
    that you wont approach the guys theyre sitting with
    like, they dont want anyone else to make any money either
    now, if its a girl i respect, i wont- but then again, those girls ask and move on instead of just squatting on the dude
    but if its just some ho blocking the other girls from getting a dance by sitting on the guy
    i just walk up and ask em anyway
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    I agree on all counts. It's like, "Thanks for the money, bitches" but it's also "Get up and walk around once you see he's not buying!". Ugh.

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    ^ yea, I like that they babysit the non-spenders... but they're TRAINING the guys to be non-spenders. I look at stripping like women in 50's looked at dating. Read the book "The Rules" and apply it to stripping. Scarcity is your greatest tactic when you aren't getting what you want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    ^And they know if they are broke before they leave home!
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    There is nothing in the world I like or appreciate about these dancers. They train strip club customers to expect large blocks of time for little or no money. I don't need the cheap ass customers babysat. I want them out of the club. Which they would be if they weren't mysteriously rewarded for being broke ass douches.

    These dancers are *the* bane of my stripper existence. It is the number one thing hurting my money. (Yes, I would place it above the economy.) What I offer becomes worthless when some other dumb bitch is doing it for free.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    ^And they know if they are broke before they leave home! LOL So never waste time with guys trying to drag out the conversation.
    u have just given me a new line for cheap guys who say they dont have money for dances. im gonna say "didn't u realise u had no money before u came out tonight" LOL i like it!!
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    I hate these girls. How long I sit varies. If the room is slow or my other prospects look pathetic or are not interested in me, I'll sit longer. If the guys is buying drinks/tipping I'll sit longer. I never sit with a guy who is not spending anything or buying drinks for more than 4-6 songs, and that is if the room is VERY slow and he seems "into" me. Girls who sit with customers for long periods of time make it harder for us all to make money. The guy could also not be "cheap" but waiting for someone else to give their money to. If a girl is sitting there, then they cannot spend. I typically don't sit with the custies anyway, unless invited or I know them already. I just can't fuckin stand it, and I don't see why another dancer would do it for hours for free.
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    It's a catch 22 because these girls are clueless and they could benefit from our good advice but they're the same girls that will take your head off or think you're trying to ruin their special hustle!
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    Quote Originally Posted by hot4ablackchick View Post
    I I never sit with a guy who is not spending anything or buying drinks for more than 4-6 songs, and that is if the room is VERY slow and he seems "into" me.
    Dang. 4-6 songs still sounds REALLY long to sit if they aren't buying drinks or tipping!
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    What bothers me MORE is that those girls often feel they "deserve" plenty of dances down the line, and feel they are entitled to whatever that customer chooses to spend! I have to laugh at these girls because their only tactic is to sit and claim that customer by NOT leaving. Girls in Vegas do this all the time, and it's infuriating that customers end up feeling pressured to spend their money on that specific girl only to end up saying, "I wish you'd of come around. I didn't even want that girl!"
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    i think i was one of those girls last night (it was my first night). there were only 6 custies at the busiest part of the evening and there 5 girls working. i didnt think it would be proper etiquette to go up to the guys that girls were already talking to so i sat down and started talking to the only guy who wasn't talking to a girl (even though the other new girl came up and started dancing on the guy i was talking to). i think i talked to him for at least 35 min. the club ended up closing early bc of a fire but needless to say i did not sell a lap dance on the 1st day of my dancing career. as a matter of fact, i only made $20 (i only danced on stage once b4 the fire). i tipped the dj $10- leaving me with a $10 profit :-(

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