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    Angry don't this just suck

    as if i don't have enough stress with having to sell my biz, my dad, mom and sis being sick, my middle kids school sucking ass and trying to get him somewhere else or i'll have to homeschool him, bills bills and more f'ing bills...

    i found out my dad is drinking again.

    WTF! he's hiding it right now, he doesn't know that i know. he knows that i will take away his grandkids, they are his life. pretty much they are the only reason he didn't kill himself a few months ago.

    seriously he's gonna end up killing himself accidentally. his body can't handle it. he was an alcoholic all of my childhood (and before). now because he hasn't dealt with his moms death and his illness (severe debilitating rheumatoid arthritis), he's turning back to this.

    he's an ASSHOLE when he drinks.

    i know he won't do it around my kids, he knows i would rip them away from him so fast his head would spin. so i'm not worried about that.

    i'm really worried that this will do him in. i honestly, swear to f'in god don't think i'll have him around much longer. it makes me horribly sad. cause even though all the shit he's put me though all though childhood, i know he loves me with all of his heart. i am the only family that lives up here (other than his wife), so it's gonna really fall on me to lay the smack down/guilt trip/ultimatum on him.

    this sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





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    Oh honey, I'm so sorry this is happening.

    How do you know for sure that he's drinkig again?



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    I'm so sorry you have to deal with this
    i wish you wisdom and peace



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    I'm so sorry, my father is an alchoholic and as well and it hurts me so much to watch alcohol tear my family apart.

    Please don't take the grandkids away from him. I would strongly consider supervised visits only if he has demonstrated lack of proper judgement but I don't think that taking them away would be beneficial to him or your children unless there is something I don't know about.

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    I don't have any useful advice, but I'm really sorry and wanted to offer my support

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten View Post
    Oh honey, I'm so sorry this is happening.

    How do you know for sure that he's drinkig again?
    thanks everyone

    i know because he lives in a small town where his wife literally knows EVERYONE, she found out that someone working in a town right before theirs sees him everyday after work stopping in the store to buy alchohol.

    she even told me "your father is gonna be so pissed for telling you this" even though he doesn't know that she knows.

    she knows i'm the one that has the most "power" over him. he's always had a feeling that he did something to me as a kids, but doesn't know what (nothing sexual, all physical, like WAY overboard with spankings, belts/branch twigs etc.. and lots of yelling). i've never told him cause it would break his heart to know that he hurt me. so i have the most pull when it comes to his emotions, especially being the first born.

    ugh, just sucks. i know he wouldn't drink around my kids, but for his own health and my sanity, he just can't drink. it will kill him, i know it





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