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    I was curious how many of you have ever been told by someone at your club (management or house mom etc) to change your appearance in a specific way. If so what did they ask you to change?

    I think my current club would probably like it if I got a tan...however I don't really like tanning beds and fake tans always look a little too orange on me. I kinda like being the pale girl...it works well with my dark hair. They have never said anything to me directly but I think that might be because I tip everyone fairly well most of the time and always pay my fees.

    I was just curious if appearance change requests are common...or if most clubs don't care as long as you are paying your house fees and what not.
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    I work in el crappo club, so it's hardly surprising that I've never even heard of anyone being asked to change their appearance.

    It's nice because we have a variety of (generally) hot girls. Like we don't just have a line-up of blonde girls with BA's (not that there's anything wrong with this type). But we've definitely had some embarrassing hires as a result...

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    I've been told to get my nails done. Mind you I bite them till they bleed, like really really really short, so it's kind of a given.

    I get told by dancers all the time to change my outfits becuase they don't match, but I honestly don't give a shit and neither do the guys so...who cares?

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    Nope never. But girls at my club get told to loose weight, wear different outfits (if the one isn't deemed flattering), cover their tattoos etc.
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    no, but a girl told me i didn't wear enough makeup and other girls have told me to straighten my hair, which i do, some days i just get lazy and wear it naturally.

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    i've been told i should dye my hair a normal color before by the GM. i tone down a lot about my look at work, but i'm doing whatever the fuck i want with my hair. so i just went "um.............. nah" and he laughed. *shrug*

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    Nope I never have, but I look pretty generic (in a stripper way, no tatoos, peircings, weight issues, dyed hair)
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    At various times I'm been told to lose weight, get a tan, and change my "goth" look. The first two I could understand, but ignored; the last one made me laugh my ass off.

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    Yeah sure, I've been told to lose weight, straighten my hair, tan. Whatever.
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    i've been told to lose weight by 205 in portland. that's about it. and i did.... anyone would lose weight working 4 nights a week and being on stage every 10 minutes!!
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    I'm lucky in that I have only had positive comment like "wear that black gown you have it looks good on you".
    I heard a story about a club near my home where the managers would randomly order the girls to line up, and proceed to go through them all picking fault with each of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I work in el crappo club, so it's hardly surprising that I've never even heard of anyone being asked to change their appearance.
    Same here. Even when I worked at a better club management didn't care as long as house was paid.

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    My club is SOOO laid back...no one is asked to change their appearance at all...because they want different types and sizes because all men don't like the same thing.

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    No, but I have had managers criticize my hustle in ridiculous ways.

    For example, I once said hi to a couple, and without even asking they gave me $80 and said they wanted 2 lapdances each and the husband would go first. I danced for the husband, brought him back, then danced for the wife.

    The manager told me that I shouldn't have done that because it was a "waste of time" and I should have danced for them 2 songs at the same time and still charged $80. Fuck that. These people weren't wasting my time and if they want separate lapdances, I'll do it.

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    i've had people tell me to eat more... but they were only semi-serious.

    so, i'd say no, not really.

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    I've never had anyone say anything (and I have "boy hands" and refuse to get my nails done). I know that the girls with tattoos are required to cover them up, unless it's something generic like a tramp stamp.

    If you have tattoos on your arms or whatever, you HAVE to wear sleeves. I don't think they hire anyone with any large tattoos on their back/chest/legs, etc....We also have no weird hair colors or piercings...
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    No - I was hot!

    But there were several girls who required some schooling. One girl had the most rockin body, for instance, but the club gave her make up lessons.

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    I've never been told to change anything but I know of girls at my club who have. Mostly to lose weight etc.

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    I've never been told to change. I have been told to expose my ass crack less (I had trouble finding full-coverage thongs for awhile) and also to be nicer to customers, but no appearance change requests.

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    I've never had anyone suggest I change my appearance. That would hurt my feelings.
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    My club they don't have rules like my ex g/f's club that had a list that went from weight, hair, nails, ect along with fees taht went along with braking them becuz it was a club for Barbies which she was soo the only thing they ever said to her was not to wear so much black. They told her it scared customers to have that evil witch/fetish dom look, but she wore that for me and I thought it was sexy as all hell.

    Anyhow we made about the same on any given nite only I worked a more low end hole in the wall club where I could get away with being as tattooed, pierced as I want to be and having short spikey fucky hair,wearing whatever I want being more laid back then they allowed her to be having more fun doing. I know she liked her club for status, but I know if she had tried mine she would have made even more not competing against all the other barbies.

    Still over the years my manager/s did get on my case for having a crewcut GI Jane Fade(which used to be just jokes and calling me Sir/lil boy), but that was after I got blonde extenstions and they saw how much more money I made when I was going for the stripper look tanning, new boobs, blonde hair I became 1 of the top money markers then so they got an opinion all of a sudden on me. Personally I agreed becuz the hair did make me insane ez money and soo I'm thinking of redoing it, but it's just not me and I'm trying to grow out my hair this type becuz extenstions even good expensive 1's like I had are still 2 much of a bitch for me to take care of and I hated it--even though it was fuckin hott and made me money.

    Other then that I had a coworker/friend who would tell me every time I got my period that I look like I gained weight--that's just how my body gets when I'm on my cycle still I was and am and always will be slimmer and fitter then she is, but I used to really pick on her and tell her she needs a boob job(which she did) and a nose job(which she wants to get) and now that she put back on some major weight i str8up tell her that she's gotten fat and call her a cow while moowing. However we are friends and be like that with eachother.

    Many girls at my club however obess about thier weight even though we have big girls the 1's that are the money makers who compete on thier looks always feel that pressure and as 1 of the girls that checks out girls they always ask me if they look fat, what looks good on them, ect..ect I just don't do makeup advice becuz I suck at it, but I'm always the 1 to point out thier flaws and tell them what to do about it when they ask. I don't try to be mean to them, but I'm always honest and will dare tell them what I think works best for them. They can disagree with me if they want , but most the time I'm on the money with what is good for thier money.
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    I wish they would tell girls to go to school or read a book. That would be great.

    Susan, queen of the goths lol...never in a million years.

    No, but I felt my own pressure to change my hair or drop some pounds.
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    I've never been told to change my appearance, but after working at upscale show clubs I realized that if I didn't glamorize myself a bit past my girl next door look....I'd continue to be over-looked.

    Dress and Bearing are actually one of the 7 triggers to close a sale according to Russell Granger in Triggers to a yes. Its called the authority trigger. You want to match your audience, yet still be one of the most polished. Wearing a rhinestone choker and gown won't work at many rural/backwoodsy clubs. Likewise ripped fishnets and gogo boots won't work at upscale gentlemen's clubs.
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    For a while another club was going to buy ours and turn ours into their classy gown club but it didn't happen. So, not really. Once I wore fishnets and was told to take them off because it's a nude club and guys couldn't see my nudie bits good enough (fence nets or thigh highs would've been ok)
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    ^^^ Hahaha I can see it now!

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