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    ...That breasts don't have nerve endings?

    I just saw a thread in Body Business about some guy roughly grabbing a woman's enhanced breasts. A couple of guys in the past have grabbed my chest hard before, too. I really JUST DON'T GET IT.

    If I grabbed a guy's nads real hard, that would hurt. Breasts are also a sexual organ and a body part!

    Is it a lack of respect? Ignorance? Selfishness?
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    Jesus...I see this happen in pornos and such. The guy always looks SO into it...and I'm like OMG OW!!!!!!

    Yes...they're there to be your own personal punching bags.

    ETA: This is probably one of the biggest reasons why I'm so glad I work in a no-contact club, actually.
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    I don't know...but I sure as hell don't like it !!

    There is a large population of men that need a titty touching tutorial...because I sure as hell hope they aren't groping other women's boobs like that!

    Just cause I am stripper does not mean my boobs are any less sensitve than other women's LOL.
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    Because they are
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    Because they are

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    Because penis+alcohol+naked girls = dui du dui (in my best Carlos Mencia voice)

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    because they dont get to touch the boobies much, so they think "hey maybe the harder i grab, the longer i can hold on!!"

    i dunno, that's the best i can come up with.

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    I think some men think we like it, some men do it cause THEY like it, and some men do it cause they get off on hurting or degrading women.

    In ANY cause it needs to stop, as well as the old men who think we like our pussy blown on, really that is GROSS!
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    I remember reading that post too, I mean wtf. Real boobs or not, there's still real skin over them.
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    They might be getting this idea from pornos.

    Cuz that's the only place where I see it get done and the women are all like "ooooh yeeeeeeeeaaaaaaah"

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    ^ porn is making real sex with real women boring to men

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    every once in a while m BF willl pinch my nipples HARD. And i ALWAYS say OWW. If it ruins then so be it, i do NOT like having my nipples pinched, or bitten.
    In fact i dont like much attention paid to them at all!!!
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    I love when they tell me to put ice on it to make my nipples hard.

    HELLO - THAT'S COLD. Ice doesn't 'just makes nipples hard'.. it's also FUCKING COLD AND HURTS.

    Or if you have a piercing... it's like a 3 year old to a shiny thing. YOINK! FUCK OFF.


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    I dont think its porn...I havent seen too many (outside of fetish BDSM stuff) where the guys grabbing the womans boobs really hard..I've never had anyone do that to me in any of my films nor would I allow it. Because..duh...it hurts!

    And the average guy should be able to separate movies from real life. I mean.....I liked Wanted but I'm not about to go jump on the top of a moving train anytime soon thinking its ok! Guys who dont know the difference wouldnt know it anyway because they've prob never been with a real live woman!Add alcohol to that equation and yeah...stupid penis holders.

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    Even us private party girls (waitresses and showgirls) have to put up with this crap.

    Ice, cold beer, etc. I really detest when they 'must' brush their COLD beer against my nipples "to make them harder". I'm "blessed" with pointy (good) nipples and guys are forever wanting to make them harder.

    I can't TELL you how many times I have to tell them "they are always like that because they are so sensative" .. yet even telling them this falls on deaf ears at times. Then I look like a party pooper because I won't let them grope, put ice on my nipples and/or their beers etc.



    I stopped being turned on by being touched/groped on my breasts a looooong time ago.

    Alcohol + half naked (at least) girl = MUST TOUCH BOOBIES!

    It's even men who supposedly are in good relationships doing it so it can't be ignorance.


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    I like the hubby to grab em' hard
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    Quote Originally Posted by CKXXX View Post
    I dont think its porn...I havent seen too many (outside of fetish BDSM stuff) where the guys grabbing the womans boobs really hard..I've never had anyone do that to me in any of my films nor would I allow it. Because..duh...it hurts!

    And the average guy should be able to separate movies from real life. I mean.....I liked Wanted but I'm not about to go jump on the top of a moving train anytime soon thinking its ok! Guys who dont know the difference wouldnt know it anyway because they've prob never been with a real live woman!Add alcohol to that equation and yeah...stupid penis holders.
    No--you're totally right. And I wasn't putting down porn at all...seriously.

    But, as a vanilla girl, the only place I've seen women's breasts get manhandled is in porn. So I'm guessing that's one of the places where they get the idea that it's something that should be done and will be enjoyed.

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    Does porn featured women having their cooches blown on too? That's a popular one around here. I thought they did it because they couldn't touch but then I had a guy ask if I liked it and I just went "uh... no." *crestfallen face*
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    IMHO 99% of customers have no idea how to touch a woman. No, no, it's not even touching - it's fucking grabbing. Like "OMG I'm falling off a cliff and your boob is the only thing that can save me!" grabbing. Even if it's my leg, arm, stomach or hair they gotta do it - that son of a bitch is just NOT gonna fall.

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    men think if they can get a hold of them and not let go they can keep them. very selfish of them is you ask me.




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    Robin Williams had a funny comment in one of his stand up shows about boob grabbing. Like how "men will smash your breasts together to make one big one," lol.

    I think because men just dont get to touch breasts on a daily basis and they dont have any themselves so they dont like think that theyre actually attached---boobs are just there for their amusment.
    I gave an LD to guy and he randomly latched on with his mouth and gave me a gnarly ass hicky...that was fun trying to explain that to the bf...
    the guys excuse: "i just got so excited."
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    Quote Originally Posted by AkashaM View Post
    Robin Williams had a funny comment in one of his stand up shows about boob grabbing. Like how "men will smash your breasts together to make one big one," lol.

    I think because men just dont get to touch breasts on a daily basis and they dont have any themselves so they dont like think that theyre actually attached---boobs are just there for their amusment.
    I gave an LD to guy and he randomly latched on with his mouth and gave me a gnarly ass hicky...that was fun trying to explain that to the bf...
    the guys excuse: "i just got so excited."
    (sigh)
    This is why I always keep my hands close to their throat so I can smash their head back/pinch their throats/uppercut them when they try that shit.
    When I was a little stripper n00b I let guys lick my boobs but then some asshole twat monkey started practically chewing at me, so that ruined it for the rest of 'em. Felt like they were going to bleed or something. My tits hurt for days afterwards, even having clothes rub against me made me wince.
    I feel that honestly men either don't know because no one told them different, or they don't care that we don't like how that feels, or that they like doing what they're doing and it's up to us to stop them.

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    ^ lap dance rapists. They're a good portion of patrons.

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    Quote Originally Posted by indianprincess View Post
    When I was a little stripper n00b I let guys lick my boobs but then some asshole twat monkey started practically chewing at me, so that ruined it for the rest of 'em.
    Boob licking is legal is Canada?
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