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    Default Why not be a "regular girl" stripper?

    Pieces of evidence:

    1) The phenomenon of "new girl money"....guys like the new non-professional girls.
    2) The popularity of "normal girl" porn like "first time amateurs", GGW, etc, instead of the silicone and hairspray heavy-breathing old school porn
    3) My ATF said one time she came in on an off day, got on stage in her street clothes with her BF, and BANKED when she took them off
    4) The non-stripper girls (who you hate) who go into clubs and distract the guys...."Regular girls".

    I'm sure there is more evidence....but IMO, a good looking girl would BANK if she just worked dressed in regular club-going clothes (that she takes of), acted like a regular girl chatting with guys, instead of all the strippah outfits and strippah hair and strippah smells.....why don't more of you do this?

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    Because most clubs dont allow it. Dont you think we'd be more comfortable in our street clothes? SC's are supposed to be about fantasy..not reality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    I'm sure there is more evidence....but IMO, a good looking girl would BANK if she just worked dressed in regular club-going clothes (that she takes of), acted like a regular girl chatting with guys, instead of all the strippah outfits and strippah hair and strippah smells.....why don't more of you do this?
    Because they know we can go to a regular club and chat with regular gals in regular club-going clothes for free?

    I mean some of us happen to lke the "strippah" aspect of a strip club. Go figure.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish View Post
    Because they know we can go to a regular club and chat with regular gals in regular club-going clothes for free?
    Uh, and who will get naked for an old guy upon request? Please point me to that club.

    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish View Post
    I mean some of us happen to lke the "strippah" aspect of a strip club. Go figure.
    Well I'm just talking as a counterpoint and alternative to the "strippah" look, doc.....I just know this would bank. 3/4 of the girls would still be your type.

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    Default Re: Why not be a "regular girl" stripper?

    A lot of clubs won't let dancers wear street clothes.

    I think part of the reason the regular girls are so attractive, is because seeing a regular girls boobs in a stripclub is forbidden, whereas seeing a stripper's isn't. I think it has more to do with the taboo and less to do with what the girl is actually wearing.
    I've seen a couple girls strip out of regular clothes, and it's just weird.

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    Default Re: Why not be a "regular girl" stripper?

    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Pieces of evidence:

    1) The phenomenon of "new girl money"....guys like the new non-professional girls.
    2) The popularity of "normal girl" porn like "first time amateurs", GGW, etc, instead of the silicone and hairspray heavy-breathing old school porn
    3) My ATF said one time she came in on an off day, got on stage in her street clothes with her BF, and BANKED when she took them off
    4) The non-stripper girls (who you hate) who go into clubs and distract the guys...."Regular girls".

    I'm sure there is more evidence....but IMO, a good looking girl would BANK if she just worked dressed in regular club-going clothes (that she takes of), acted like a regular girl chatting with guys, instead of all the strippah outfits and strippah hair and strippah smells.....why don't more of you do this?
    I'm sorry but in a logical debate you can't cite circumstancial or opinion based events as fact in order to prove a point.

    1 'new girl money' was like $200. I make $1000 at least now. Opinion/Circumstancial.
    2) Who's popularity? Where? I see all kinds of porn. Opinion.
    3) Circumstancial.
    4) Um... since when did the non-stripper girls who got the attention actually get any MONEY off the guys? Opinion.

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    Simple answer - because it's not true.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Uh, and who will get naked for an old guy upon request? Please point me to that club.
    Ummmm . . . pretty much every other girl hanging out at a regular bar/club? Seriously though - it's true. These are the girls that get naked for free because it's "fun" and they're "expressing their sexuality." These are the girls that make out with other girls even though they think lesbians are disgusting. These girls are responsible for one of the factors responsible for the decline of the industry - girls that give it all away for free.

    So no, sorry, I won't be one of these "regular" girls when I'm at work.

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    Default Re: Why not be a "regular girl" stripper?

    i found that the "big spenders" generally prefer more experienced dancers. the guys who are into the "new girls" are either not normally strip-club-goers or think they can "get away" with more with a new girl. of course that isn't going to be true 100% of the time, but i definitely think it is for the majority. sure, the novelty might get you a couple of dances, but i doubt anything more.

    i have seen stuff like "regular looking clothes" or "shorter/normal" looking heels totally kill a new girls money. plenty of seasoned strip club goers avoid those tell tale "newbie" signs like the plague. same goes for the "new girl stage dance".

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    In my opinion, I think what you're trying to say is well, different wins. I mean, if you have a club full of blondes, a brunette will be the most amazing woman in there. Then if everyone's different, the normal one will be the one banking... And everyone will always want what they can't have. Hence why strippers are asked out so much. My friends, who were jocks in high school, later told me even though everyone made fun of me, they all secretly wanted to sleep with me because I was goth. Go figure.

    In my opinion, there are no normal strippers though... it's like a bag of jelly beans, they're all made of sugar but come in all different colors and flavors. (I think I'd be the root beer kind... mmmmm.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Pieces of evidence:

    1) The phenomenon of "new girl money"....guys like the new non-professional girls.
    2) The popularity of "normal girl" porn like "first time amateurs", GGW, etc, instead of the silicone and hairspray heavy-breathing old school porn
    3) My ATF said one time she came in on an off day, got on stage in her street clothes with her BF, and BANKED when she took them off
    4) The non-stripper girls (who you hate) who go into clubs and distract the guys...."Regular girls".

    I'm sure there is more evidence....but IMO, a good looking girl would BANK if she just worked dressed in regular club-going clothes (that she takes of), acted like a regular girl chatting with guys, instead of all the strippah outfits and strippah hair and strippah smells.....why don't more of you do this?
    1. when does new girl money cease to exist? when you are no longer the new girl. i hardly think it has anything to do with how one dresses.
    2. "amateur porn" is a niche. like BBW, pregnancy, etc etc. Look at any Adam and Eve catalog (they won't fucking stop sending them to me... but I don't mind ), you'll see that "silicone" porn is by far favored over all others.
    3. street clothes make you "real", sexy clothes make you sexy. customers pay for sexy. even if they see a new girl strip off her street clothes, they still want a vixen. easiest way to exude the vixen vibe? look like one.
    4. idiotic "evidence". It's our JOB to be sexy. When a female customer comes in and flirts and shit like that for free, it undermines us and it hinders our ability to do our job. There's a time and place for that, i.e. your local bar. Guys don't want them because they are dressed "normal"; they want them because they're FREE.

    if you take notice, most "regular" girls at your "regular" bars do smell good and have their hair did. That's not just SC based. Talking normal to guys would defeat the purpose. The customer has a fantasy, and if I start telling dick and fart jokes, that's not gonna cut it. Ya know?

    I understand if your flavor is the "regular" girl, but that's not the norm from what I've seen. When I was a waitress, I had a customer like this. He'd come in every week and I'd tell him who the new girls were. He'd do his thing with them and be on his merry way. But he was the ONLY one in the year I waitressed. And I make better money now as a "pro" than I ever did as an amateur.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Uh, and who will get naked for an old guy upon request? Please point me to that club.
    Ahh, sounds like you want a stripper and not a regular girl.

    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Well I'm just talking as a counterpoint and alternative to the "strippah" look, doc...
    Nothing wrong with that. Any stripper worth her salt knows there's good money in being adaptable. If a more demure appearance is what you want in a dancer, ask a lady of your choosing if she can accommodate your request. You might be surprised.

    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    I just know this would bank. 3/4 of the girls would still be your type.
    For you and every guy who requests that sort of look, I'm sure it would. But as the ladies have stated here, its a niche preference in many clubs, particularly the big, upscale ones. When you have a niche preference, you have to tell your entertainer of choice what you'd like. Chances are there will be others whom she is visible to that won't like it. God knows I've been a bit less willing to buy a dance from a gal who looks like she got her stripper gear at Target than one who is professionally dressed.

    Have you been to a downscale club recently? They usually have dancers that are more "regular" looking and are considerably more relaxed on the dress code.
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    Knew a dancer once who would sometimes wear a blazer, nothing under, and short business skirt. If she hadn't stopped dancing, she would've ended up with my retirement fund.

    I told her one time I liked the business combo, and she said, "Yeah, I get shit when I wear it, but whenever I do, the money is good."

    It can work, but it has to have the right person (and she was) doing it, and it would be better as a change-up, not the routine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish View Post
    But as the ladies have stated here, its a niche preference in many clubs, particularly the big, upscale ones.
    It's not just that - it's that what is appealing about is the novelty. And it is a kind of novelty that wears off unusually fast.
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    I can't imagine why I'd want to look like a "regular" girl. Makeup and flash has served me well over the years, I definitely wouldn't abandon it now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish View Post
    Have you been to a downscale club recently? They usually have dancers that are more "regular" looking and are considerably more relaxed on the dress code.
    Ah, excellent point. Actually, I go to 1 of each -- 1 downscale, 1 upscale -- and you are correct that the girls in the downscale club look and act more "regular", and that's what I like about it. However, the girls in the upscale club are in general far better looking (as a natural consequence, like being in far better shape, not based on their get-up), which is what I like about IT.

    Which got me to thinking, why can't the better looking girls take the natural approach, too.....ergo this thread.

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    ...i would agree that its a short term novelty and that the income over time isnt there. I think owners and dancers would have already gone that route(street clothes) if money was better. Personally, i'm not sure if i want a dance from a no make-up, ratty haired, unshaved, sweat pants camel toe woman.

    However, there is a niche (want what you cant have). Sorta like the random guy or barfly that is always trying to get a certain waitress or bartendet to show some boob.
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    Better looking girls? Okay, thats based upon your perception of what "better looking " is. And what is regular? Friendly, more chatty.. what?



    (However, the girls in the upscale club are in general far better looking (as a natural consequence, like being in far better shape, not based on their get-up), which is what I like about IT.)

    Strip clubs provide a service. Attention to men from attractive women. Strip clubs are also "fantasy land", to bop around in street clothes and without all the glitzy flash would destroy all of that.

    We ( stripper/dancers in general ) can not take the natural approach because there is a certain criteria that the clubs say we must adhere to. Some are relaxed, some are not. Like women, there are many, many different kinds.

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    well, you just dont like any of the rules of clubs, do you? why do you go? you don't seem to be happy with ANYTHING.

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    Better looking girls? Okay, thats based upon your perception of what "better looking " is.
    Uh, no, not really. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....but wide and obvious gaps are not. You know there is a difference between Drew Carey and Brad Pitt.

    And I know there is a difference between girls who need to lose 30 pounds, or girls who need to gain 20 and get off the meth, or girls whose moms and dads passed along unfortunate facial genetics, and those girls who are....simply hot, and in shape, and none of the above.

    And back to the "regular girl" thing....I'm not talking about sweats, or jeans, or unshaven, or unclean. I'm talking make-up and outfits....wear something realllllly sexy and short, but that you WOULD wear to a regular club, and you just happened to wander in here and ohmygod it's a STRIP club, and .... oh whatthefuck, I'm gonna get up on stage and take my clothes off!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Uh, no, not really. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....but wide and obvious gaps are not. You know there is a difference between Drew Carey and Brad Pitt.

    And I know there is a difference between girls who need to lose 30 pounds, or girls who need to gain 20 and get off the meth, or girls whose moms and dads passed along unfortunate facial genetics, and those girls who are....simply hot, and in shape, and none of the above.

    And back to the "regular girl" thing....I'm not talking about sweats, or jeans, or unshaven, or unclean. I'm talking make-up and outfits....wear something realllllly sexy and short, but that you WOULD wear to a regular club, and you just happened to wander in here and ohmygod it's a STRIP club, and .... oh whatthefuck, I'm gonna get up on stage and take my clothes off!!!

    Hot.
    Pardon.. not to be argumentative - isn't that just what I said? . Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Your perception. There are men who like the rubenesque figure. So, your not one of them.. whatever? How do you know chick is on meth? And who gave you the right to say who should loose or gain weight. As for genetics.. that's an act of nature and if you don't care for it. You have two choices. Don't look or get the girl some plastic surgery.

    Those "girls" are there because they make money. A club is not going to keep someone working for them that doesn't.

    Your perception.
    YOUR view.

    Personally, if it were me, I'd just be glad ( if I was a guy ) that some attractive woman was willing to spend a little time with me. Sounds like your really judgemental and ungrateful of what you do have access to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crow2 View Post
    Pardon.. not to be argumentative - isn't that just what I said? . Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Your perception. There are men who like the rubenesque figure. So, your not one of them.. whatever? How do you know chick is on meth? And who gave you the right to say who should loose or gain weight. As for genetics.. that's an act of nature and if you don't care for it. You have two choices. Don't look or get the girl some plastic surgery.

    Those "girls" are there because they make money. A club is not going to keep someone working for them that doesn't.

    Your perception.
    YOUR view.

    Personally, if it were me, I'd just be glad ( if I was a guy ) that some attractive woman was willing to spend a little time with me. Sounds like your really judgemental and ungrateful of what you do have access to.
    I think you missed my point entirely....I meant that beauty is in the eye of the beholder EXCEPT when the differences are so obvious as they are between these two clubs. Surely you don't think we all look alike? I know it's not PC on this site to say there is any such thing as an ugly or fat stripper, but believe me, there is.

    As to your last comment, see below.

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    well, you just dont like any of the rules of clubs, do you? why do you go? you don't seem to be happy with ANYTHING.
    Well if I'm coming across this way that's just wrong....I obviously love going to clubs and talking about them. I guess it's just the nature of the beast, my posts on this site are naturally going to be a variation on "why can't things be different (in this way)"? The things I like, I don't have questions about, so you don't hear about them.

    Maybe I'll start a "What I Like About Strip Clubs" thread sometime to counterbalance that. Cuz there is a lot.

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    We've told you why it can't be the way you want. This is not burger king honey - you can't have it your way. And yes, I got your point. Loud and clear. What you think is ugly or fat might be stunningly beautiful to someone else.

    Things are DIFFERENT for a REASON. Just because YOU don't care for it is trivial. Pick what you like, enjoy it and be happy.

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    I've worn "reg" clothes in clubs where that works...like Key West.

    And personally I'd do Drew Carey before Brad Pitt..I like big guys and funny is a HUGE turn on. Not into pretty boys

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Well if I'm coming across this way that's just wrong....I obviously love going to clubs and talking about them. I guess it's just the nature of the beast, my posts on this site are naturally going to be a variation on "why can't things be different (in this way)"? The things I like, I don't have questions about, so you don't hear about them.

    Maybe I'll start a "What I Like About Strip Clubs" thread sometime to counterbalance that. Cuz there is a lot.
    im just sayin'... you seem to have a lot of complaints and think everything should be a certain way. but hey.. if we were dressed as "regular" girls we wouldnt be walking around naked, either. so i guess you'll NEVER truly be happy because your ideas don't coincide with each other.

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