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    I just got home from work (I work at a theme park-- going into dancing in a few weeks *SICK OF THIS MINIMUM WAGE BS*) and one of the employees have never liked me for some odd reason ---- jealousy I should say.

    Anyways, I was walking out of the employee's locker room and the girl that hates me was with another girl and a guy in the hallway towards out of the employee lockers. While walking out as usual, I simply ignore her presence. Then this dumb bitch throws a gatorade bottle cap at the back of my head while I was walking out.

    I stopped, thinking that I accidently kicked the cap and it hit me some how but when I looked back this stupid girl was like,

    "OMG! I MEANT TO THROW IT AT MY FRIEND!"

    ?
    The girl she was with was literally 2 feet away from her while I was about almost 15 feet walking away when this happened.



    My first impulse was to say "WHAT THE FUCK!?" but I felt that I didn't want to show her much of me so I simply said,

    "Very mature you guys"

    and walked off.
    I don't respect that girl at all; ESPECIALLY not admitting to me that she meant to throw it at me.




    It has ALWAYS been an issue with me interacting with african american girls (which she is).
    Not that I don't want to talk with them but they just automatically hate on me for no reason(I'm mixed but I'm mocha complected, giving people the right to call me black---but COMPLETELY different from their lifestyle, accent, looks, etc.)
    All other races I've encountered have always told me straight up that I'm very pretty and only RARELY I get it from black girls.

    I'M ALWAYS NICE TO THEM GODAMNIT!!!

    I talked with my boyfriend about it but he said it's most likely because I'm just prettier than them but I don't see how someone could dislike me that much without me saying a WORD to them.

    I know I DEFINITELY can't let this get to me since dancers are 20X more cattier and I'm not staying at this job for long but I'm just in a confused un-upsetting WTF? feeling right now.
    I've always had girls not like me in highschool & middle school for no reason just because I'm pretty but fuck, enough is enough already.

    It just sucks MAJOR balls.
    Sorry about the write, I'm just pretty moody about what happened.
    I need a hug.

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    *hug*
    Theres no sense crying over every mistake,
    you just keep on trying till you run out of cake

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    * HugHug*

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    p.s

    I didn't know how to move this post that's how another one was posted.

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    Try not to let it bother you to much, think of how shitty it would be to be a person like that. They must feel really fucked up inside if it bothers them the way someone else looks.
    Take it as a compliment that you are a hottie

    Hugs

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    Thanks UV & Bellona.

    :]

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    I find t odd that amn entire race hs a problem with you and thiks you are prettier than them. Because an entire race of women has an issue with you..I would be more inclined to think that you are the one with the problem, not them. Because I'm 100% certain tjhat there are african american girls that are prettier than you and are not jealous of how you look.

    I always find that girls who think oithers are jalous of their looks are realy just insecure and causing the issue themselves. but this...to say that everysingle black girl you meet has an issue with you is pretty bold and most likely your issue, not theirs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peanut_Butter View Post
    to say that everysingle black girl you meet has an issue with you is pretty bold and most likely your issue, not theirs.
    Where did she say that?

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    ^^^^^^
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    ALWAYS[/B] been an issue with me interacting with african american girls (which she is).
    Not that I don't want to talk with them but they just automatically hate on me for no reason(I'm mixed but I'm mocha complected, giving people the right to call me black---but COMPLETELY different from their lifestyle, accent, looks, etc.)
    All other races I've encountered have always told me straight up that I'm very pretty and only RARELY I get it from black girls.
    Interpretation: She always does/has issues with african american girls which she attributes to the fact that she is "better looking" than them.

    So NO she didnt come right out and SAY that specifically, but she DID allude to that.

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    Soooooooo.. just black girls? All black girls? This post is confusing me. I want to say 'hey girl, you're beautiful, don't listen to them' but it also makes me curious as to why it's only black girls you have a problem with.

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    Jesus fucking christ, whats wrong with people.
    So someone thinks theyre pretty - big fucking deal, why so nasty? Isnt that better than all the "Poor me Im think fat and ugly" posts we have on SW?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scarlett.Oz View Post
    Soooooooo.. just black girls? All black girls? This post is confusing me. I want to say 'hey girl, you're beautiful, don't listen to them' but it also makes me curious as to why it's only black girls you have a problem with.
    Because shes mixed. I once had a simular experience in London, though being a black punk may have had something to do with it too.
    Mixed race black women with more European features as opposed to African features are traditionally generally considered to be more attractive than their full blooded blacker sisters which sometimes creates problems.

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    I don't have any problem with her thinking she's pretty. More power to her. I just feel like there was a generalisation made about a certain group of people which was unfair, as is the antagonists actions. The post confused me. Now I'm leaving this thread.

    Peace out.
    XXXS

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    Quote Originally Posted by MsQwerty View Post
    Jesus fucking christ, whats wrong with people.
    So someone thinks theyre pretty - big fucking deal, why so nasty? Isnt that better than all the "Poor me Im think fat and ugly" posts we have on SW?
    Effin' A its better than the whiny, mopey, "feel sorry for me" posts - BUT isnt that in a sense what she is doing with the opposite angle? She wants us to feel sorry for her because girls at work are picking on her and jealous of her because she is "prettier" than them.

    IMO there is a WORLD of difference between having healthy self-confidence, and being conceited enough to think every black girl in the universe is jealous because of her lovely mocha- complected self!

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    Quote Originally Posted by echomadison View Post
    Effin' A its better than the whiny, mopey, "feel sorry for me" posts - BUT isnt that in a sense what she is doing with the opposite angle? She wants us to feel sorry for her because girls at work are picking on her and jealous of her because she is "prettier" than them.

    IMO there is a WORLD of difference between having healthy self-confidence, and being conceited enough to think every black girl in the universe is jealous because of her lovely mocha- complected self!
    I think you and various others read more in to the OP than was nessesary. As she stated, she is upset - when youre upset you tend to just blurt stuff out rather than be articulate. Not that what she said sounded conceited to me anyway but surely theres no real need to be so cunty about things. She didnt actually what you said
    And perhaps some black women are jealous of how she looks and give her a hard time for it. Does that mean everyone has to be mean to her because of it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady Xplicit18 View Post
    Not that I don't want to talk with them but they just automatically hate on me for no reason(I'm mixed but I'm mocha complected, giving people the right to call me black---but COMPLETELY different from their lifestyle, accent, looks, etc.)

    Okay, I understand that if you've only had issues with black girls, then you'd have this outlook. But let me tell you that it is very incorrect. Now I know very, very well, that there are darker women that are jealous of the lighter skinned women of the world; but that's usually the exception and not the rule. It is so very offensive that you would say you're completely different from THEIR lifestyle, accent, looks as if you aren't partly black and as if every black woman has the same lifestyle, accent and looks. Let me tell you something. I am 100% black....my mother is the lightest black person I've ever met in my life. Don't believe me? Her foundation shade is....brace yourself...Porcelain. Yes, she uses Lancome foundation and the shade she has to use is Porcelain. Plus she has light green eyes, a very straight nose and silky hair. But she is 100% black nonetheless. My father is extremely dark with kinky hair and a very round nose. I am the oldest of four siblings and we are all different shades. My father has never been arrested, has no children outside of the marriage, has always had a very good, steady job and we live in the suburbs of PA in a 5 br/ 3 ba house. My mother also has a very good, steady job and has no children outside of the marriage. They speak proper english without a "black accent" and they travel and explore different cultures. So please be very careful with the way you generalize ANYBODY not just black people. I find it very odd to think that you've never ever had a single problem with anyone other than a black female. It seems to me that while you are probably very pretty, you probably give off a very nasty vibe and perhaps THAT'S why nobody likes you. A lot of times, what's on the inside shows very clearly on the outside and you don't even realize it. So maybe you should look inside yourself first before you blame others for your problems.

    With that said, I do feel for you and I think it's unfortunate that that stupid girl would be so immature that she'd throw a bottle cap at you while your back was turned. But you did the right thing, especially since you were at work at the moment. Just ignore them if you can. And if you can't ignore them, the next time someone tries to put their hands on you or throw something at you, you beat them into the concrete and make an example of them.
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    Can I interject to say why the hell are you putting off dancing?? After the crappy boyfriend threads and a ton of other complaints, you're now complaining about a theme park job? Seriously... just dance already... there are certainly enough clubs in socal and i dunno why you keep putting it off and making excuses.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady Xplicit18 View Post
    It has ALWAYS been an issue with me interacting with african american girls (which she is).

    ...

    but they just automatically hate on me for no reason

    ...

    I've always had girls not like me in highschool & middle school for no reason just because I'm pretty but fuck, enough is enough already.
    Envy is a possibility, but still, if something happens ALWAYS or over and over there is a reason.


    We all think we are "nice" people, but others are the judge of that, not ourselves. We just can't be impartial when it comes to judging ourselves.

    People don't just react to our words. They also react to our body language, and in particular facial expressions. Our faces have a way of giving away our true feelings. Which raises the tough question...

    What is the chance that your face is communicating a general dislike for all of these other people which in turn triggers them to dislike you?

    Another possibility that is even harder to consider, but it happens a lot. Some people really do enjoy drama in their lives and sub-consciously engage in behaviors to cause frequent confrontations with others. After all, drama can be "fun". It adds excitement to our lives. It can feel good to be the star of a never ending drama in which one is the star of the show. It can feel good to imagine oneself to be a the victim while others mis-treat us. It is very common, particularly at HS age, to engage in such behaviors.

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    If u treat people nicely and they still treat u like shit then just try to avoid them I guess. What more can u do?

    Women can be such assholes. Im so glad the club I work at has nice girls coz I can't be bothered dealing with bullshit at work. I prefer to focus my energy on the actual work than stupid immature shit like that.
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    I'm not sure what this has to do with newbie stripper issues and I hope the OP has vented enough. Closing now.

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