Okay. I swear I'm not dense. But I was wondering the other day why it is that customers (most of them) want to touch the dancers.
So, to the blues out there-->
If you have desired to (or have acted upon the desire to) touch a stripper, then why is this?
Is it purely for your own enjoyment of our bodies--with the hope that the stripper is merely a neutral, physically-present being? (total objectification)
Is it because you think that you and the stripper would both enjoy mutual touching?
Is the customer deluded into thinking that the stripper would get off on it? (not that this isn't somewhat understandable--strippers can be very good actresses)
Does the customer honestly not give a shit whether or not the girl would enjoy being touched?
I'm sure the answers vary. But, as a stripper, it's so obvious to me that the typical, no-extras stripper wouldn't be turned on by random guys touching her...so why do (the majority of) patrons seem to think think that strippers want contact?
Sorry if this seems like a stupid question. Enlighten me! Even if you aren't one of the deluded grabby patrons, bless me with your insight into others' actions.



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Hey, if they see us as nothing but T&A that they can do anything to because they're "paying for it"...then there's nothing wrong with seeing them only as walking wallets.
Works for both of us.
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