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    Help... How to give the most sensual air dance

    I did several searches and found a couple of tips but I could use a little more direction. I just finished my first week dancing at a bikini club and I need help. Most of the girls do a very high contact lap dance with lots of grinding. I do not think there is anything wrong with this but I am not comfortable with this. I want to be able to give a SEXY dance with minimal contact... any tips? I want my dance to be hot but I do not want to compromise my boundaries.

    I don't know if this helps but the club I work at is very small and blue collar. The girls make most of their money off of the same few people. The most people I have seen there at once is about 8 guys. So far I have only done one lap dance (i'm scouring hustle hut on a daily basis to fix this) and I'm sure the guy wanted a refund. I'm afraid that word will get around that I give bad lap dances and that I will never be able to make any money. Please help me ladies!!!

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    Default Re: Help... How to give the most sensual air dance

    How close to the fella are you allowed to stand?? Are you allowed to hold the chair behind him and flaunt in front of him? Or do you have to stay x amount of feet or inches away?

    MOVE REALLY SLOOOOW, and exaggarate your moves...

    Are you allowed to touch yourself? Nothing pervy, ... just cup your own boobs, bend over (with your ass towards him), slowly pick yourself up with your back arched.... flip your hair. There ya go, some moves. G'luck.

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    Default Re: Help... How to give the most sensual air dance

    Slow and sensual with LOTS of eye contact, like maintain eye contact through 75% of dance, and get as close as you can without actually touching.. Rose is right about Philly though, it will be a challenge
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    Default Re: Help... How to give the most sensual air dance

    To sometimes give the illusion of grinding I will stand with my side facing him in between his leg and rub my hip against his lap. That way your not really humping him. Or you could hump his lap with your kneee while touching him and yourself??

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    Default Re: Help... How to give the most sensual air dance

    you will have a very hard time making money in a high contact club doing low contact dances. i wish that wasn't true, but it is.

    esp in philly.

    unfortunately most customers these days associate "low contact" with "bad dances". so, to a lot of them, you saying "i don't want to give bad dances, but i don't want to do contact" is a total contradiction.

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    Default Re: Help... How to give the most sensual air dance

    Even so...this might be a good thread for those of us who are stuck in "no touching" clubs/areas. I've already bookmarked this thread (I'm in Portland) so any air dance advice would still be most appreciated.

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    Default Re: Help... How to give the most sensual air dance

    But to the OP,it sounds like you would be better off in a nude/no contact club. I work those clubs and it works well for me.

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    Default Re: Help... How to give the most sensual air dance

    (i apologize in advance... i rambled a bit and went off on a couple of tangents. i lose the ability to focus after 2am)

    thanks for your input ladies... i see i am going to have my work cut out for me- not only do i need to work on my selling but i also need to work on what i'm selling! i work in the suburbs about 20 minutes from philly. i will try some of the tips above. i don't have an issue with a grind here and there but i didn't want to dry hump for 4 minutes straight- even though that is what the guys seem to like.

    one of the guys asked me if he could get a dance. he requested a song from the dj so i chatted with him for 2 songs (there were only 3 guys in the whole club). when it was time for us to go upstairs he handed me the money and said that i was too nice to give him a lapdance... this is NOT good. another customer told me that i didn't belong there bc i was too pretty and didn't look like a dirty girl (which i did not appreciate bc imo the girls in my club are easy on the eyes)... 2 others told me that i should leave and audition at a more upscale club bc i do not fit in... keep in mind this has been over the course of 3 days (only 1 full day) where i have only encountered about 15-20 customers total in those 3 days. are these just lame excuses to avoid shelling out $20? the club is tiny but i like it. i think it is a good place to get my feet wet. i am so frustrated. hopefully, i do better this week.

    when i searched the forums a lot of people said that the best way to learn was to get a lapdance- however, i have been the recipient of plenty of dances. i remember enjoying them but not too sure what most of them entailed and the few i do remember would get me fired- lol

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    Default Re: Help... How to give the most sensual air dance

    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    Even so...this might be a good thread for those of us who are stuck in "no touching" clubs/areas. I've already bookmarked this thread (I'm in Portland) so any air dance advice would still be most appreciated.
    I agree. I struggle with this, & also with selling dances, because I work in a no-contact bikini bar. Seriously, how do you sell a no-contact, out in the open, clothes-on lap dance?

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    Default Re: Help... How to give the most sensual air dance

    Quote Originally Posted by glitzy View Post
    I agree. I struggle with this, & also with selling dances, because I work in a no-contact bikini bar. Seriously, how do you sell a no-contact, out in the open, clothes-on lap dance?
    In a place where that's what's required-eye contact is key. Whatever contact you can do, do it. Hand on the knee/back of neck, put your leg up on their shoulder/knee/chair. Way over exaggerate every move-slow and sexy. Play with your clothes to whatever extent you can. There were some posts about this around.

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    Default Re: Help... How to give the most sensual air dance

    Quote Originally Posted by RoseLeigh View Post
    If the club is so tiny and customer-free and high contact , why do you like it? Seriously. Think about it. Usually I would ignore custies and their stupid comments, but this might be the sort of club where custies have their girls and that's that. They want to keep it dirty.

    I do think you should try elsewhere, especially with the lack of customers. Even a place where you can at least get stage money (which you can at some of the high contact Philly clubs, because you go around the bar for tips) would be better than 3 custies a day. Or really-go nude!
    this is very true. i think i like the fact that the club is small bc it allows me to practice my stage dancing (even though i'm dancing for nobody)... however, someone once told me that "if it doesn't make dollars it doesn't make cents." i will definitely have to move on to greener pastures.

    i do think a nude club with more volume would suit me better but i'm not sure if i would be able to get hired at a nude club. i have 32F natural boobs- gravity and 2 years of breastfeeding has had their way with my boobs (if i get a spare moment i may post a pic). i can only imagine me going upside down on the pole and one boob hitting me in the eye and another flying over my shoulder or maybe they can feature me as the girl with the disappearing boobs- since they sink into the abyss of my armpits whenever i lay on my back-lol

    seriously, i do appreciate the help and i guess any tips would still be helpful to the ladies who work in clubs where air dances are mandatory. i know some of you ladies on SW can make dancing in potato sacks a mile away from a man a sexy, sensual experience.

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