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    make a song list for a dj that didn't ask for one??

    Here's the situation:

    We got this new dj about 2 months ago. He fucking sucks! We ask him to play specific music for us and he says ok then plays shit. We pretty have to dance to Spanish techno whenever he works. So I took it upon myself to neatly type up a playlist and label it Artist/Song Title, and specifically labeled what songs I want played for each set. He never asked for me to do this but I figure maybe this will give him a fucking hint. Is this rude?

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    I always write my songs on a list and hand it to the DJ and then tip them well. I think it's convenient for them, not rude.

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    ^HHHhhhhmmmmm... maybe I should start doing that. It would seriously make my life a HELLUVA lot easier.



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    I used to bring in a mixed CD with the playlist of my songs. I did it cause some of them were kind of obscure, but the dj's took well to that.
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    Lists are fine. I usually make a list of artists and genres a particular girl likes. When I write specific songs they change constantly so it gets tedious. I just remember them, especially if you have certain sets. I certainly wouldn't be insulted by a list of stuff you like, provided it's playable by whatever the club's rules are. Bringing in cd's can be okay, too, as long as they're not scratched all to hell and look like they've been on the floor of your car for 3 months. I don't understand saying yes to something and playing something else unless it's against club policy or you don't care what you get tipped. It's shooting yourself in the foot.

    Do you know if he has the stuff you're asking for? Maybe make the list and bring it to him and ask him if he could put little marks next to stuff he doesn't have, and then he can either get it on his own (which is what I generally do) or you could THEN bring in a couple of cd's for him. If he has it all and just ignores you, then...I dunno. He might just be an ass.
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    I've tried to go up and talk to him many times about what I want. And he jut waves me away and tells me he understands and he'll play the songs for me. Then lo and behold he plays me nothing of what I asked. He has over 3000 songs on his computer. I guess the reason I ask if it is rude is because I have gone up to him numerous times about my music and now I've made a list that a 3 year old could follow (did that purposely ) and am going to take that up to him tonight. If this doesn't work, he can kiss his tips goodbye.

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    "Over 3000 songs" makes me LOL.

    Okay, yeah he just sounds like a cockmaster. If I'm not going to play a song for a dancer I simply tell her no, and why. No need for a big song and dance. Bring him the list, be polite but firm, and see what happens.
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    Thanks, I will.

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    I did this in my last club, gave the dj a list of songs I wanted, he was cool about it so no I don't think its rude. I get pretty fussy about my music.

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    Yeah, 3000 songs is pathetic for a professional DJ.

    And I'll tell you what's rude. Making women dance to Spanish techno, unless they specifically ask for it.

    Make the list, by all means...
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    Make a LIST because that helps but then again a good dj takes care of the girls!!! Hell I know i try to I'm in it for the MONEY!!! Help the girls make the money and it helps me make the $$$$$

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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    And I'll tell you what's rude. Making women dance to Spanish techno, unless they specifically ask for it.
    LOL!!! Amen to that!


    Quote Originally Posted by DJcancer View Post
    Make a LIST because that helps but then again a good dj takes care of the girls!!! Hell I know i try to I'm in it for the MONEY!!! Help the girls make the money and it helps me make the $$$$$

    I wish more DJs thought like this, cerously.



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    ^Me too

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    Since I travel so much and never know what the DJ has I usually carry a CD burned with the songs I prefer and a playlist. MOst DJ's are cool with it...some (coughtheownerssonwhoDJ'sattheclubinKWcough) just say yeah yeah and play shit anyway.
    They dont get tipped a cent over the minimum(nothing if there is no minimum)no matter what I make. If you cant give me the most simple respect of playing what I ask for then you get no more of my money.

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    Standard procedure in the clubs I've worked at.

    Let us know how it goes. I may try Annie's in Astoria Oregon sometime soonish and I hear the DJ is an asshole kinda like this one lol.
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    So. What happened?
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    Well he was totally cool about the list. I even tried to give him $10 tip with the list but he refused and said it was his job to play me my music. I guess it's better late than never for him to finally realize that! Anyways, out of all 3000 of his songs he had like 10 of my songs At least I didn't have to hear that Spanish techno

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    Quote Originally Posted by iambonbon05 View Post
    Let us know how it goes. I may try Annie's in Astoria Oregon sometime soonish and I hear the DJ is an asshole kinda like this one lol.
    Oh, he's useless, but no worries because he doesn't play music anyway. You still pick your own songs in iTunes and cue them up and play them; the "DJ" is only there two or three nights a week and his job is to take huge shits in the women's bathroom and repeat "parties like a rockstar, fucks like a pornstar" for every single girl at the beginning of every single set. So yeah, just load your own music into iTunes and DJ for yourself, and bring a CD for the lapdance room because there's a separate CD player in there for your dances.

    Annie's is kind of special, LOL!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Oh, he's useless, but no worries because he doesn't play music anyway. You still pick your own songs in iTunes and cue them up and play them; the "DJ" is only there two or three nights a week and his job is to take huge shits in the women's bathroom and repeat "parties like a rockstar, fucks like a pornstar" for every single girl at the beginning of every single set. So yeah, just load your own music into iTunes and DJ for yourself, and bring a CD for the lapdance room because there's a separate CD player in there for your dances.

    Annie's is kind of special, LOL!
    Oh and you forgot play pool half the night and then chase you out to the car after you leave whining about why you didnt tip him for his awesomeness

    Then listen to his baby mamma bitch about how all the girls should cough up a crapload of their money to him every night for doing exactly NOTHING because he has HER baby to pay for.

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    ^^^ Oh yeah, I forgot about that!

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    I wonder what his name is. It wouldn't surprise me if I went to middle school with him or some shit lol.

    I feel better now, now that I know he won't be there much hahaha.

    Glad to hear he got a clue, kaiarose. I wonder why the sudden revelation??
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    When he sucks he gets a minimal tip. When he plays some of the stuff you ask for he gets a larger tip. Simple as that.

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