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    Default Saying fuck it to stripping.

    Ok, I think today was my last day of stripping...I had a horrible day. It was insanely slow for about 4 hrs...then a group of guys came in...I did my set, I got tipped pretty well...talked to a guy who I thought was going to buy me a drink, but instead groped and grabbed every inch of me...when it was time for me to do my 2nd set, I'm dancing, doing my floorwork, and the next thing I know, I feel something wet on my ass. This guy threw his drink on me...And when I asked him why he did that, he said "I wanted to see some Henny run down that fat ass."...WTF??? Are you serious??? Then after, he pulls out a bunch of 20's and tells me that he wants to give them to me but only if I do something for him...and I said no because I refuse to do anything sexual for $$$.

    So he says he will be back before my shift is over...and I say fuck it. I'm leaving early. Then, one of the girls blamed me because she wasn't getting tips. When I was trying to hustle another guy, she was on stage and didn't make any tips. And I got fucking blamed for it. I got pissed and told her, "Have you ever thought that maybe they just didn't like you?" I know that was mean for me to say, but I was already pissed, I was tired, hot, and just having a really shitty day. So we started arguing, then me and the bartender got into it because she's asking me why I didn't tell her about the guy, and I told her by the time I was going to tell her, he had already walked out the door, so I didn't even see what the point was. I almost got into a fight with another girl because she also blamed me for the girl that was on stage and why she didn't get any tips. But I kept my cool because she is pregnant...

    Overall, I think we all were just pissed because it was a shitty day. But today was like the last straw for me...getting a drink thrown on me really did it. It took all I had in me not to jump on him and beat him across the face. I'm normally not a violent person, but it really came out today. I'm starting to think that this business isn't cut out for me. I can't hide my feelings when I'm upset, I'm super emotional, and I just can't do it anymore.

    Am I over exaggerating...or do you really think its time for me to say fuck it?

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    i think your not ready to get out of it but oowee that is a bad day, you have more self restraint then i do!

    take a day or two off regroup and go back in. unless you have money saved up and a backup plan i dont see bailing as feasable for anyone.

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    I would say "Fuck it" to that particular club. Sorry you had such a rough day

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    Quote Originally Posted by i.breathe.in View Post
    i think your not ready to get out of it but oowee that is a bad day, you have more self restraint then i do!

    take a day or two off regroup and go back in. unless you have money saved up and a backup plan i dont see bailing as feasable for anyone.
    Yeah...I don't have much $$$ saved up, which is why I'm stripping now. I've taken almost 2 weeks off...and when I do decide to go back in, this is the kind of day it was...I just don't know.

    And I tried SOOOO hard to keep my violent tendacies to myself...and let me tell you, that was probably the hardest thing I've ever done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Candice View Post
    I would say "Fuck it" to that particular club.
    I agree. Sounds like it's not the industry...it's your club.

    Contrary to what some people might say, not all clubs are perpetually slow. And I've never worked in a club where a customer could throw a drink on me without getting bounced out! That's outrageous. Try a better club before you give up.
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    SOMEBODY THREW A DRINK AT YOU???? That is so awful. Where were the bouncers?


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    I say take a break.
    with the rough days, there can be some pretty good ones.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Candice View Post
    I would say "Fuck it" to that particular club. Sorry you had such a rough day
    Yeah, alot of people have been telling me to switch clubs...but I know alot of the same shit goes on in other clubs...but its more strict rules in other clubs also. And plus, in the day, we don't have a bouncer. Our bouncer doesn't come in until 7:30...isn't that some bs?

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    Yeah fuck that club! This guy that threw a drink on you, he didn't get thrown out? It sounds to me like you should move on from this particular club, being a stripper does not mean you have to put up with that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kabukicho View Post
    Yeah fuck that club! This guy that threw a drink on you, he didn't get thrown out? It sounds to me like you should move on from this particular club, being a stripper does not mean you have to put up with that.
    By the time I went to tell the bartender, he was already out the door. And I mean, he was walking to the door the same time I was walking up to the bartender. But I did tell her anyway and she remembers who he is so I'm guessing if he comes back on her shift she won't allow him to come in. I've been trying to tell our bouncer that we should get a bouncer for dayshift, but they won't. Maybe they will after this.

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    Default Re: Saying fuck it to stripping.

    deff give another club a try if you can for a minute.

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    Having a dude POUR his drink down your ass!?! Reprehensible! What the hell is going on these days? My club had to kick out 4 groups of dudes last night, and they never kick out people. It was one drama fest after another, so much so it was difficult to even hustle because everyone was too distracted by cops coming or people getting all studly and starting fights. Was it a full moon last night? My gf and I work together and some guy thought he'd be cool and rub her tender bits out on the floor. When I confronted him about it, he acted like he didn't know he did anything wrong. I gave him the what-for about respecting women and even though we're naked we still have value, etc etc and he just looked at me like I was an idiot and mumbled, "I'm really drunk, I'm sorry." DON'T APOLOGIZE TO ME, ASSHOLE, APOLOGIZE TO THE GIRL YOU JUST SEXUALLY ASSAULTED, HOW 'BOUT? Then they refused to leave, so cops were called. Then some guy started talking to my baby about how he used to fingerbang strippers in the club 15 years ago, and said "my... has it changed" like he was disappointed. like, the last thing anyone would want to hear, seriously, especially after being violated like she just was. These custies have no fucking class. It's like their moms dropped them on their heads and their dads taught them it's alright to treat women as a lesser lifeform, only here to meet the needs of a penis attached to a douchebag. I want to wrap all of us entertainers up in warms blankets and piss all over all these douchecocks for being so fucking miserable and taking it out on us.

    I'm so sorry you had a bad night. I hope it was just a fluke, for everyone that had a bad night. But if you feel like you're going to explode, I think a break would definitely be beneficial.

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    I'd switch clubs for sure. Sounds like they cater to losers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissNicole21 View Post

    Am I over exaggerating...or do you really think its time for me to say fuck it?
    I definitely wouldn't let a bad day ruin it all. I know you feel really bad right now, but tomorrow is a new day.
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    Quote Originally Posted by txchick008 View Post
    I definitely wouldn't let a bad day ruin it all. I know you feel really bad right now, but tomorrow is a new day.
    Aww...thanks. I'll try and keep that as some positivity in my life.

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    hmmm.... I had one horrible night when I was new and swore I would stop stripping forever. I'm glad I didn't but if it was like that regularly, I would.

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    Dont give it up just yet. Hang in there, it will get better. And if it doesnt, then u can quit or at least switch clubs..

    and if u do quit, still come to SW and post. I enjoy your questions/stories
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    Quote Originally Posted by jennahoff View Post
    Dont give it up just yet. Hang in there, it will get better. And if it doesnt, then u can quit or at least switch clubs..

    and if u do quit, still come to SW and post. I enjoy your questions/stories
    Awww...thanks.

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    Where exactly are you? I know a lot of midwest clubs that would never tolerate you being treated like that.

    I'm soo sorry you had such a shit night! You seem so laid back, and good natured to tolerate those customers, and you really should be banking off of those traits instead of suffering for them.

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    I think it's probably best to try to quit on a good note. *hugs*
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    Dont give up hun. Show up when your next on schedule.

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    It's true what TX said. Tomorrow is a new day. A new day for you to take the day off and do something nice for yourself, like have a bubble bath with a glass of wine. Then go back to work the next day.

    I think the hard days are there to make us stronger. When you go back, it will be better.

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    And if continues to be shitty, then switch clubs.

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    Awww...thanks for the support...I'm still really upset about it actually...and its hard for me to let things like that go. I am actually going to take about 2 days off and go back in on Friday and see what happens...I'm actually going to go look at some other clubs tomorrow. I honestly like my job so I really don't want to quit, but geez, my tolerance level is anything but high.

    And I live in NKY, close to Cincinnati...so yeah, that pretty much explains the shittyness I suppose. I know what was said about the clubs here, but right now, I can't afford to go to other clubs in different areas of the state because of the fact that I don't have a car. My friend takes me to work and picks me up...so yeah, I'm stuck.

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    Sorry about the shitty shift! Try to smooth things out today with the other dancer(although it sucked she even blamed u for her shitty day-we all get them) and the bartender, if you can, while your not emotional.i always try to make the best work enviroment w/out anyone taking advantage.
    See how it goes, I know some who would have made a HUGE spectacle after a custie threw a drink on them, then getting them tossed, but if your club isnt behind you, try to go to another. Theres always a chance that asshole will return, in which case be sure you carry a small bag of roofing nails to toss under his tires fuckin jerk

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