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    because there have been quite a few threads recently in stripping general and customer conversation about the level of contact guys want/require to spend...

    i created a poll for customers over on the blue side. i thought you girls might be interested as well (which is part of why i made it). i know a lot of you don't venture over to the blue side too often, so i'm posting the link here. there are only a few responses so far, but i imagine more will pop up.

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/pol...ts&pollid=1395

    and please don't vote in the poll if you aren't a -male- customer. i'm a customer at times as well, but the poll was intended for males.

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    hmmm.......... there isn't any option for the contact that is allowed at my club. They can touch anything except pussy but grinding is strictly forbidden.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    hmmm.......... there isn't any option for the contact that is allowed at my club. They can touch anything except pussy but grinding is strictly forbidden.
    hmm. sorry. i probably could have made 20 or so options given that clubs vary, but i tried to keep with the most common for simplicity sake.

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    No worries, I am just starting to wonder how common it is for clubs to have a lot of contact (ass, boobs, legs, ect.) but forbid grinding?

    I guess grinding is more standard than I thought

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    a lot of the votes are going towards being able to grab our naughty spots! Can't they be happy with a cute girl dancing? No?

    Disgusting! It's called a lapDANCE not a lapDRYFUCK!

    Sorry ladies, this is just a mini vent...

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    Quote Originally Posted by BohemianSiren View Post
    Please remember that we have many posters on this board who work full contact. I don't think they'd appreciate you labeling their dances "disgusting."
    It's the guy's attitudes about it that is disgusting, not the dancers who willingly provide full contact. Something about the attitude of, "Well, if I can't touch her everywhere, then forget it," just pisses me off. Yeah, they vote that way, but you know they don't get to do that in a typical SC visit.
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    I just wanted to add, the MILEAGE that some of these guys want out of a freakin' $20 bill is CRAZY. It pisses me off too. I guess like someone else said - if there are some dancers that allow it, they are going to start to expect it. I had no idea how grabby guys would really be (I was clueless). Do they really think it'll be OK to try to touch the kitty for $20? Or lick my breasts? Sorry..I'm venting now....argghh...
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    ^^^ Same at my club too. Absolute highest contact I've ever, ever experienced. As I've said on here before, what shocks me most about TX is what dudes get away with doing for free...

    Arrrgh!

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    Quote Originally Posted by txchick008 View Post
    I just wanted to add, the MILEAGE that some of these guys want out of a freakin' $20 bill is CRAZY. It pisses me off too. I guess like someone else said - if there are some dancers that allow it, they are going to start to expect it. I had no idea how grabby guys would really be (I was clueless). Do they really think it'll be OK to try to touch the kitty for $20? Or lick my breasts? Sorry..I'm venting now....argghh...
    Or, even worse, think that they are entitled to get off during said $20 lap dance. Ummmm, what does $20 get nowadays? I can't even get a half tank of gas for $20 and you think that you should be busting a nut in your pants for that amount? Ridiculous!!!

    Anyway, lap dances at my club are full nude, full grind, but customers aren't allowed to touch anything whatsoever. CRs they are allowed to touch anywhere but the kitty. It works wonders in giving them an incentive to upgrade to the champagne room.

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    The results of that poll are a little depressing.


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    Quote Originally Posted by josie View Post
    The results of that poll are a little depressing.
    my thoughts too.
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    ^^Def. not what I like to see. I really wish girls would stop doing extras just so these guys couldn't get what they want. yuck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by josie View Post
    The results of that poll are a little depressing.
    Precisely why I wont venture to the blue to read it. I know what to expect from most men and sadly that's not very much.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Precisely why I wont venture to the blue to read it. I know what to expect from most men and sadly that's not very much.
    i'm with you, for the most part. you know what though? i'm starting to wonder if i'm kidding myself. like, if it's that difficult to "know the truth/read blue" should i really be stripping anymore?

    more and more (and i've said this before) i feel like i'm in denial trying to sell something no one is buying (because they want more). sure there's the occasional guy who loves the teasing/sensual dances, but he's not the norm anymore, and i feel like the other guys are just irritated during the dance.

    you know, like (if you do lower contact) when you start dancing and he says "i can't touch your X or X?!?!?!" and then he just stares off into space bored while you continue to dance? or he tries to push you down on his cock before you explain there's no grinding.

    of course he doesn't get another dance, and after the dance he often says how "in this club" or "in this city" it's "a lot different". i'm getting to where it feels like they don't even see me at all anymore, all they see is the contact level. like they walk in the door thinking "which of these girls is going to let me do the most" not "which of these girls do i physically like best" or "which of these girls has the best personality" (or a combo of both).

    i'm also starting to understand why people automatically think i'm a hooker when i say i'm a dancer. i mean, if so many men are used to getting serious action or at least very high contact, it stands to reason that the public would perceive that as "the norm".

    it's not even that i have a problem with hookers (cept for inside the club) or girls who do high contact (in clubs that permit it.. hell.. i used to). i just don't want to do it myself anymore and i don't want people to think it's what i do.

    i have a feeling i'll be out of the bizz (or down to 1 to 2 days a week max) very shortly. i'm looking for a part time job that will work with my school schedule as we speak.

    it's too bad i don't have regulars right now, or that transition would be easier.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Precisely why I wont venture to the blue to read it. I know what to expect from most men and sadly that's not very much.
    Honestly? I don't believe a word that comes out of anyone's mouth (or keyboard) on the "blue side". Have you read some of the "trip reports"? The most awkward, poorly written, most likely fictional pseudo-erotica ever. Of course every girl they meet in the club throws herself at them and energetically goes to town on their cocks for $60 or so, and of course just looooves doing it. Yeah right! In their dreams, maybe. Who believes that shit? Not me.

    It's a bunch of losers on the internet hanging out on a stripper website and trying to out-do each other with their supposed "conquests". Not exactly something to take seriously.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sveta View Post
    Honestly? I don't believe a word that comes out of anyone's mouth (or keyboard) on the "blue side". Have you read some of the "trip reports"? The most awkward, poorly written, most likely fictional pseudo-erotica ever. Of course every girl they meet in the club throws herself at them and energetically goes to town on their cocks for $60 or so, and of course just looooves doing it. Yeah right! In their dreams, maybe. Who believes that shit? Not me.

    It's a bunch of losers on the internet hanging out on a stripper website and trying to out-do each other with their supposed "conquests". Not exactly something to take seriously.
    For real. When I read that shit I wonder to myself what kind of dancers would actually do this kind of stuff for so little money. I really don't think there are that many moronic and/or desperate women out there. For example, one of my boyfriend's friends came into my club a few weeks ago and then bragged that for $100 a co-worker of mine (not an extras type of girl at all, so this is HIGHLY unlikely) gave him a BJ. This idiot guy was just trying to make himself look good to all his friends because he probably got nothing (most likely he wasn't even allowed to put a hand on her at all) and didn't want to seem like he "was dumb enough to get hustled". So I always take what guys say they get with a grain of salt.

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    ^^ yep. I'm not naive enough to believe that nothing ever goes on in clubs, but somehow on the internet things get exaggerated to the point of being downright comical.

    I had a guy once tell me that the girl he danced with earlier gave him a hand job right in the couch room for an extra 20$. Problem is, I was dancing for another customer right across from them at the time. In fact, we were making silly faces and rolling our eyes at each other when our backs were turned to our customers. He definitely did not get a hand job...all he got was to put his hands on her hips.

    Guys will always exaggerate and lie even in person, b/c they want people to think they were "man enough" to "score". Imagine how much MORE overblown and ridiculous the stories can get when guys have the bravura that comes from total anonymity on the internet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sveta View Post

    I had a guy once tell me that the girl he danced with earlier gave him a hand job right in the couch room for an extra 20$. Problem is, I was dancing for another customer right across from them at the time. In fact, we were making silly faces and rolling our eyes at each other when our backs were turned to our customers. He definitely did not get a hand job...all he got was to put his hands on her hips.

    Guys will always exaggerate and lie even in person, b/c they want people to think they were "man enough" to "score". Imagine how much MORE overblown and ridiculous the stories can get when guys have the bravura that comes from total anonymity on the internet.
    Lol, I had a scenario kind of like this work to my advantage once.

    A couple guys came in on a Friday night, and I approached one of them about a CR. So we went to VIP, did my normal dance, and sent him on his way. He apparently told his buddies that I gave him a BJ for a extra hundred dollar tip. So one of the friends approaches me and asks if he can get the same "treatment" his friend just got. Not knowing what his friend had told him, I agreed and happily accepted what I thought was a generous hundred dollar tip. Afterward, when I asked him how he liked the dance, he sounded disappointed and told me what his friend had said. Bet he was pissed lol.

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    ^^^LOL that is hilarious! Well, he got what he deserved

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    i'm sure some of it is blown out of proportion (har har) ... but there definitely are quite a few girls who do HJs, BJs, etc for "around 60 bucks". shit there are at least 3 clubs in my town where 20 dollar handjobs are the norm. i mean -really- the norm. of course there are shit-hole clubs with scary looking girls, but still.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sveta View Post
    Honestly? I don't believe a word that comes out of anyone's mouth (or keyboard) on the "blue side". Have you read some of the "trip reports"? The most awkward, poorly written, most likely fictional pseudo-erotica ever. Of course every girl they meet in the club throws herself at them and energetically goes to town on their cocks for $60 or so, and of course just looooves doing it. Yeah right! In their dreams, maybe. Who believes that shit? Not me.

    It's a bunch of losers on the internet hanging out on a stripper website and trying to out-do each other with their supposed "conquests". Not exactly something to take seriously.
    LMAO. But thats partly why i dont go there coz Ill get the urge to call them out and flame them. I have to resist the urge to take out what happens ITC on the blue members here coz some of them are good guys.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    LMAO. But thats partly why i dont go there coz Ill get the urge to call them out and flame them. I have to resist the urge to take out what happens ITC on the blue members here coz some of them are good guys.
    contrary to what might be popular belief, there are a few guys on blue whose opinions i usually agree with, and whom seem like genuinely nice guys.

    same with ITC i guess. it's not that the "good guys" don't exist, it's just that (imo) i find them hard to come by sometimes (like lately).

    and i can't stand how the.. let's just say "non-good-guys" both on here and ITC always act like the "good guys" we like are "fags", "pussies", "kiss-asses", "suckers".... etc.

    whatever

    i know a lot of times "nice guys finish last" can be true, but it certainly isn't in my book.

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    ^^
    I agree. Nice guys will get treated better by me. I fell for a nice guy. I'm not into that treat em mean bullshit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    i'm sure some of it is blown out of proportion (har har) ... but there definitely are quite a few girls who do HJs, BJs, etc for "around 60 bucks". shit there are at least 3 clubs in my town where 20 dollar handjobs are the norm. i mean -really- the norm. of course there are shit-hole clubs with scary looking girls, but still.
    hah, you just described the Block in Baltimore. Every city has a few of that type of "club". And those clubs serve a purpose--they draw the most depraved perverts, thus keeping them from bothering us too much at the good clubs.

    that's the other thing. What KIND of clubs are these "blue" guys going to? Sounds like the bottom-of-the-barrel ones.
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