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    I wanted to start a thread for the ladies that find themselves suddenly clubless, jobless, and well, just shit-out-of-luck in the dancing department.

    If you feel like a hermit crab with out a shell to call home, if you find yourself missing the money and moping about, or if you are stuck between in between a crappy club and a crappier club in some sort of stripper limbo... this is the thread for you.

    Regardless of whether you were fired, quit, got knocked up, relocated, got fed up with dancing, or anything in between.... share your story and know that you are not alone.... and hopefully... with a little bit of luck... the drab gray rainbow of boredom, bad t.v., and endlessly dull evenings will end at a pot-o-gold club and more $$$$$ than you could have ever imagined!
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    My home club of over a year closed down recently. It was sad really... because I was starting to build up a strong base of generous regulars, I knew the ropes of that place backwards and forwards... who had money, who was cheap, which girls were dirty, what dances different custies liked, how to maximize my earnings on any given night...

    Better still, I started getting some of the benefits of seniority, like coming in when I wasn't scheduled, getting mad respect from staff, getting bigger locker privileges, etc... I was in my groove like never before! I worked like a well oiled machine. I was well on my way to Uber-Stripper-dom.

    Then, out of the blue, without warning the club closes.

    Everything I had worked for, all the effort I put in, all the connections I had made were washed down the drain. The thought... of starting over, from scratch, is so overwhelimg, that I can't even begin to describe my emotional rollercoaster of a summer vacation.

    Needless to say I've been depressed.... restless... angry at myself... all sorts of things. I question why I remained so loyal to my club when all I have to show for it is a crippling fear of trying out anywhere else.

    Now the prospect of auditioning looms... hangs over my head... I know I'm not as gorgeous as the other nyc dancers. I'm too short, too thick, with a big slavic nose.... I am instant rejection material. So I sit on the couch, surf the net, and worry.... worry.... worry....
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    no, no, no. You are not rejection material. I've seen your pics before and you are gorgeous. Find a club and trot into it like you own the place.

    But yeah, I'll join the whine for a hot minute. I need 300$ by Tuesday to pay for a class I need to take. And I'm clubless. Hopefully a return to previously green pastures will help...besides really needing money badly, I really miss being productive. Bad TV and dull evenings indeed! Story of my life for the past month.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sveta View Post
    I really miss being productive.
    First off, thank you for the compliments. NYC is a tough place with super hot chicks all vying to work at a handful of clubs. With the whole scores fiasco, the busy season approaching, and a few other clubs that got closed down, club owners are being picky picky picky because there are just SO many girls.



    But yeah... I miss being productive more than anything. I miss being able to go into my club, make money, and feel like I wasn't a waste of flesh.
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    ^What Sophia said.
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    Come to my club! We had a group of custies wanting big boobie girls last night and realized...we hardly have any. Bring your tatas in! (also, you ARE hot, silly girl.)

    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    First off, thank you for the compliments. NYC is a tough place with super hot chicks all vying to work at a handful of clubs. With the whole scores fiasco, the busy season approaching, and a few other clubs that got closed down, club owners are being picky picky picky because there are just SO many girls.



    But yeah... I miss being productive more than anything. I miss being able to go into my club, make money, and feel like I wasn't a waste of flesh.

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    haha at first i thought this thread was joking, you should never be without work sexy lady.

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    I'm barely dancing. I pretty much gave up on S. Fla. More often than not, it's costing me more money to go into work than what I am walking out with. It's got to the point where I feel like I am begging for a guy to get a lapdance from me (and most days that I was working, they were only $10 a dance and still hard to sell!) I'm moving back up north fairly soon, so I'm just kind of bumming around until then. The move will be too soon to be apply for a job with a paycheck around here.

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    Hang in there Sophia, you'll find greener pastures soon!


    Well, I've been at the same club for a while now, but the customers are getting worse and worse, more and more girls are going home broke, and they keep hiring more and more (and more!) girls.

    I know the August slump is part of it, but having twice as many girls than the club needs is unexcusable, and if this continues into the fall, I'll be looking for a new club, as I won't stick around and be shit out of luck for very long!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sveta View Post
    no, no, no. You are not rejection material. I've seen your pics before and you are gorgeous. Find a club and trot into it like you own the place.

    But yeah, I'll join the whine for a hot minute. I need 300$ by Tuesday to pay for a class I need to take. And I'm clubless. Hopefully a return to previously green pastures will help...besides really needing m
    She is extremely gorgeous. It's hard to imagine SS getting turned away at any club.

    Sign me up for this party also. I'm in the process of looking for a new club. Everyone is steering me away from the type of places that I'm used to- I'm going to try both. To add insult to injury my ride got totaled so I will be stuck renting cars for the next few months.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PleasureVictim View Post
    Sign me up for this party also. I'm in the process of looking for a new club. Everyone is steering me away from the type of places that I'm used to- I'm going to try both. To add insult to injury my ride got totaled so I will be stuck renting cars for the next few months.
    Booooo! Why do bad things happen in tandem??? I'm sorry your car is dead. That is such a drag. Hang in there.
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    I think you just have to get out there and pop your audition cherry, girl! Either that or you're welcome to visit me in Myrtle, I'm leaving in three weeks.
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    I'm not working right now and feel very aimless... but I am in Seattle and no clubs here are worth my time and energy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by iseestars View Post
    I'm barely dancing. I pretty much gave up on S. Fla. More often than not, it's costing me more money to go into work than what I am walking out with. It's got to the point where I feel like I am begging for a guy to get a lapdance from me (and most days that I was working, they were only $10 a dance and still hard to sell!) I'm moving back up north fairly soon, so I'm just kind of bumming around until then. The move will be too soon to be apply for a job with a paycheck around here.


    Congrats!! I too am in South Florida and am itching to head back up north. I have spent 2 and a half years down here, struggling in school part time dealing with all the bull shit and what not. I hope you enjoy going back up North and make good money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by noelle View Post
    I'm not working right now and feel very aimless... but I am in Seattle and no clubs here are worth my time and energy.
    Where did you work before?
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    Well, I used to work in Seattle, but there's no way I would do that again. For the last 5 months I was dancing in Minneapolis. I've been back in Seattle for a month and danced one night in Portland but other than that I have been doing nothing at all.
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    Not working. Miss the money dearly. Keep telling myself Ill go in but its such work. Have to leave here Fri at 3. Get a hotel room - stay up all night (I get up at 7 so im up 24 hours) then try to get sleep. Usually only 5 hours beause the light wakes me up. Then sit around wasting time before going in again that night... work all night, again no sleep and drive 2 hours home. Then Id have school the next morning.

    Sooooo much work. If I had guaranteed money Id do it but right now Im in another one of my "I hate stripping" modes.

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    oooo oooh see the post I accidentally posted in club chat!! Im being whiny and am almost clubless so its perfect Oh, and sophia...you WILL find a club, youre sexy!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by callah44 View Post
    oooo oooh see the post I accidentally posted in club chat!! Im being whiny and am almost clubless so its perfect Oh, and sophia...you WILL find a club, youre sexy!!


    From your mouth to God's ears, honey-pot!

    The sky has cleared and I am hired once again.... hallelujah!!!
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    I miss Albuquerque dearly. I wish the Spearmint Rhino had never shut down over there because we got so many of their girls. Over here I decided to take some time off and just enjoy myself before I hit Guam.
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    Im so glad this theard has started, this is how I feel 2, I havent danced properly since july, I took alot of time off because of both medical and personal reasons its been a hell of a year for me, so the last few months i been club hoppin all over this stupid country Uk, I live in london but I can't take the clubs here anymore they are so drainin, and ive been goin to different clubs every week and they are so bad, so last night i go to a club i used t work this time last year and it was so shit only about 10 cust all night and 5 of them walked out without buyin they were askin for tester argh! they were drivin me mad, in the end i made 100 pound im so pissed and fed up i got home at 7 this mornin im so tired, christmas is in 2 weeks and then after its gonna be crap in january argh!
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    SW has really helped me thru all this , anyway Im goin to a club on mon thats not far away jus outside London so even if i only make 100 it wont be a compelte waste of time, at least I wont be out till 7 in the morn, Im not gonna work 2night gonna have some fun with my friends and read some Hustle hut, I can get thru this we all can!
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    You know, I got fired from my job, and while the manager was firing me, he accused me of coke use. I was one of the cleanest girls (both literally and figuratively) in the club. I was so insulted! I went to dance at another club, and it just wasn't the same. I would always bump heads with the management because of the unsafe dancing conditions (come on, there was a HUGE gaping hole in the middle of the floor!) and they shut down. I eventually left dancing altogether even though I miss it a lot sometimes.

    Just chiming in to offer my empathy to you ladies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    First off, thank you for the compliments. NYC is a tough place with super hot chicks all vying to work at a handful of clubs. With the whole scores fiasco, the busy season approaching, and a few other clubs that got closed down, club owners are being picky picky picky because there are just SO many girls.



    But yeah... I miss being productive more than anything. I miss being able to go into my club, make money, and feel like I wasn't a waste of flesh.
    Just asking, but why not reach out to Lace/Nyack or Wayne. Perhaps Stiletto in Carlstadt [if you don't mind working nude]? No car?

    Money is still decent at those clubs and I am sure you could get work.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    Just asking, but why not reach out to Lace/Nyack or Wayne. Perhaps Stiletto in Carlstadt [if you don't mind working nude]? No car?

    Money is still decent at those clubs and I am sure you could get work.

    Too late!

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    I haven't worked in months. I'm getting back into the swing of things, and losing some weight. I just hate the audition process. Just let me in and I'll make money. But I think I seem to "girl next door" for a lot of managers. They want me to show them a sexy hustle I guess, but I can't see them as customers. Honestly I don't like the managers because they usually take my money and make me follow dumb rules or WORSE a SCHEDULE. I'm in this biz so I don't have to follow a schedule or be bossed around. Maybe I'm bad at hiding my feelings about that. I have to convince these jerks to let me audition? The worst part is if they pretend the manager is not there. I'll FUCKING SIT HERE AND WAIT THEN! Argghhhh. It's hard to be a mature professional in a world run by idiots!

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