So I go in today, and I kid you not, as soon as I get one foot in the door, everyone is looking at me. The owner then says, "I heard you left with a customer." And I look at her like...One of the girls lied on me and told the bartender that I left with the guy who threw his drink on me. And I asked her who told her that and she didn't say...just that I left with a guy and someone saw me get into the car with him. 1st of all, I left early...and the guy left before me. 2nd, why would I even leave with an asshole who didn't even respect me, and 3rd, I was the only one who left early that day which means that everyone else was in the club...so how could anyone see me???
So the bartender says the same thing about me leaving with this guy...and I told her how could anyone see me if everyone else was in the club...and plus, I told her that I left and got in a car...and that was my friend picking me up because I called him and asked him to. She didn't believe me and we started arguing...then the owner jumps in...and I could see the other girls with smiles on their faces as all of this was going on.
So everyone goes in the back...and I immediately ask who the fuck lied on me??? Of course no one admitted to it. So my day is fucked up from the beginning, but I decided to stay anyways. It took all I had in me to not start a fight with those girls...so after I got dressed, I just sat at the bar, and I swear, I smoked about 4 cigarettes in like 5 min to try and contain myself.
The bartender then came over and apologized to me because she said that she shouldn't have handled it like that, and that she was pissed because the owner was giving her hell about something that happened the previous day. I said whatever and she walked away. Then later on in the day, she called me into the DR to apologize again and that she had wrote the owner a letter saying that she was wrong for not pulling me to the side to talk to me, but instead she wanted to argue with me in front of the other girls and the customers. She also said that in the letter she stated that someone had in fact lied on me, and that she thinks that I should get an apology from her.
Whatever. I'm just through with this club, and I think with stripping in general. I can't take the gossip, the lying...I'm sick of the guys...my tolerance is just really really low. Yeah some clubs may be better, but the bullshit that goes on behind closed doors is always gonna be there. I'm done with it. And then to make matters worse, as I was doing my set, some douche that comes in every once in a while decided to put his flashlight on me while I was dancing, and made really inappropriate comments about how he would "do certain things to me"...and nobody said anything. All the while, the other girls were steady trying to steal my custies, and because they do shit like have sex for $$$, what do you think they did??? Yup, my custies ended up becoming their custies.
I just can't take it anymore...I cried all the way from the club to my house, and I'm still crying now. This business is just not cut out for me at all...so I think I'm just going to give it up...this is just not worth it at all.



...One of the girls lied on me and told the bartender that I left with the guy who threw his drink on me. And I asked her who told her that and she didn't say...just that I left with a guy and someone saw me get into the car with him. 1st of all, I left early...and the guy left before me. 2nd, why would I even leave with an asshole who didn't even respect me, and 3rd, I was the only one who left early that day which means that everyone else was in the club...so how could anyone see me???
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Are you sure that switching clubs isn't a good solution, though? No club has ever been that rough for me and maybe it is just the demographic that goes there and the people who work there. Also, all workplaces are going to have nasty politics behind the scenes!
Kamryn



I've also been dancing 2 years and have never had to put up with that kind of nonsense. I still cannot believe that guy was allowed to get away with throwing his drink on you. Any club I've ever worked in, guys have been bounced out for far less than that! 

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