I've been seeing a lot of this on SW. We use "taboo" words, like dirty, trashy, whore and so on. Then someone takes offense, or there's a moderator reprimand. Which, I don't so much mind untill it hits this close to home.
To be honest, I went from a low contact club to a really dirty one. I never thought I could make it there. Not only do they allow bj/hj/fs, they only hire very hot girls. I never thought I would make 3 dollars, when a girl ten times cuter than me is offering so much more. But, 6 months in, I'm still making bank, and following my own rules. And I'm not really that cute. I never showed up there expecting to change the norm for customers, dancers or club. I just wanted to make my money and go home.
But none of that is the point. I want this thread to be more personal. To really make girls ask themselves, "Am I prejudice?" The thing is, I see over half my coworkers giving head, getting fingered on the floor, and the rest are doing everything I wouldn't even consider. And at the end of the day, are we both strippers? Am I judgemental to not make friends with a good chunk of them? After I notice a girl do something (I can't call it an extra, it's just the norm here) and I strongly dislike and avoid her, isn't that kinda wrong? Aren't I being narrow minded?
Prostitution is illegal in my state. These girls are engaging in it.
They may be selling Gucci high heels, and I'm selling flip flops. We're in the same industry. Do I have any right to resent them offering a superior product when the goverment and the country (for the most part) look down on us both equally?
Is there any reason for me to consider myself any different from girls offering a sexual service that I am to, albeit to a lesser degree?
Why am I okay with hanging out with my old "low mileage" friends, and avoiding making new "high mileage" friends? Sure, Wendy gets naked and dances, but Lisa gets topless and lets guys touch her!! Where do I draw that line without knowing club rules, individual rules, and the girls thoughts on the matter? Or, what should be less important - my own thoughts on the matter.
I guess I'm just drunk and musing. And wondering who else feels bad for missing out on potentially fun girls due to what they do. Which is close, but not quite the same as what we do.
Just wanted to know who either deals with it and makes nice vs. actively fights it.
Silly drunken thread.



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Kamryn


I'm so proud of you. So many people would just give up and mindfuck themselves into believing they'll never make money with that kind of competition, but you're rocking it. 

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