I had my first night last night and it was really great and I only had super nice customers and the other dancers and management were friendly and I made more the first hour than I would have for a full shift at my day job so I am ridiculously happy! But there were two things that are now kind of bothering me and I need advice in case I run into these situations again!
1. There was a really friendly, excited guy I spoke to at the bar. Except after a little while he seemed more like a really friendly, excited ten year old. And possibly not the brightest ten year old in the class. When I got up to dance onstage I saw him at the rail. I went over and danced in front of him for a while and he tipped really well but after a moment I realised he was completely masturbating. I saw his penis and everything, although he was hiding it from the guy next to him. According to the rules he would be thrown out immediately for doing this. But also according to the rules, dancers would get in trouble for allowing even their hair to fall outside the rail and yet I saw dancers unabashedly throwing their legs over it. So was everyone purposefully ignoring this because he is a good tipper and comes across as unthreatening or was I somehow the only one who noticed and I really should have reported him instead of continuing to dance for his tips?
2. A guy wanted a private show with me but it was the end of my shift and I had to leave immediately to catch my train. Hoping that he might get one if he came back and saw me again, I was trying to be as friendly as possible. So when he started begging to know my real name, as evidence of trust or something, I completely lost my head and gave him another fake name. Was this a dumb thing to do? I dont want him to think I am willing to break rules for him. Is there a really nice way to answer that question? Oh, and then he hinted that he was in the mob. Haha because you know! Thats who every nervous girl on her first night wants to dance for.
Thanks for any advice guys!



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After my set I told the bouncer and they had a talking to! BAD SANTA!


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