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    Default How do i keep them for more than one song?

    So I started dancing, and things have been going pretty well for the most part.

    I am actually a lot more popular with the guys than i thought i would be. They usually come to me, but i have a slight problem.

    Once i get them back to the lap dance room, they usually only want one dance. My club is very high contact. Any possibilities of what i'm doing wrong? Should i just keep dancing instead of asking if they want to go another song? I'm really frustrated, i don't like being the one hit wonder!

    Help please!

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    Default Re: How do i keep them for more than one song?

    You should always ask for each dance unless he asks for three up front and pays for them.

    Just don't give everything you've got on first dance. Say, "Now that we've warmed up how about another?"

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    Default Re: How do i keep them for more than one song?

    ^^

    That's what I've been learning. I don't give them "everything" (meaning, all my moves of course), right away. I'm learning to take it slower, and build up to the end of the song. By then, they are DYING for you to keep going....seems to work well. I've only been dancing 6 weeks, but I can tell that there is a difference already with my new method Instead of 2 dances, I'm doing 4, 5, 6+ in a row..
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    ^Thanks for the help! I think maybe i am giving too much(moves), i'm definitely going to slow it down a lot.

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    Default Re: How do i keep them for more than one song?

    Also, assumptive closes will double earnings.

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    Say, "I don't want to stop", while breathing hard in their ear and making cute little noises..... (Thank you HH!!)

    Also, (I discovered this one on my own about 2 weeks ago). Right near the end of the song, I'll be sitting in their lap, facing away from them - and I take my left hand and stick it under their left leg, pulling them "up" aganist my ass.... I save this for right at the end, and they EAT. IT. UP.
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    Molly told me this one: Just look them in the eye and say "keep going?" while nodding your head. Works for me

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    Quote Originally Posted by txchick008 View Post
    Right near the end of the song, I'll be sitting in their lap, facing away from them - and I take my left hand and stick it under their left leg, pulling them "up" aganist my ass.... I save this for right at the end, and they EAT. IT. UP.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten View Post
    I can't picture this
    Custy is in standard sitting position, you are sitting on his lap with your back facing his front, and your hands by his thighs. Reach around to his ass and grab it and pull forward/up towards you.

    (It's a mimic of having sex and pulling the guy deeper into you, and YES it works, but only if you think he's feeling the vibe and you put off a good vibe too, otherwise it's cheesy and slutty and won't work, lol.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    Molly told me this one: Just look them in the eye and say "keep going?" while nodding your head. Works for me
    That's an assumptive close

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    Default Re: How do i keep them for more than one song?

    ...or "Let's keep going" or "Wanna keep going?" if you're feeling too shy to make it a statement, but NEVER "do you want another dance?"

    Make it seem like the next dance is PART of this dance, like that was just the beginning.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kitana View Post
    Custy is in standard sitting position, you are sitting on his lap with your back facing his front, and your hands by his thighs. Reach around to his ass and grab it and pull forward/up towards you.
    Yep - that's almost exactly what I do, except I don't grab their ass. I just slide my hand under their upper thigh and kinda pull up. I do it for just a split second while I am saying whatever it is I am using, to get the next dance.... For a noob like me, it's been my best "trick" so far, and I didn't even steal it from HH!
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    Quote Originally Posted by dontcallmeaspacecadet View Post
    I am actually a lot more popular with the guys than i thought i would be. They usually come to me, but i have a slight problem.

    Once i get them back to the lap dance room, they usually only want one dance. My club is very high contact. Any possibilities of what i'm doing wrong?
    You are probably pretty hot, so you're getting approached for dances - but in my experience new dancers give pretty tame dances, sometimes even awkwardly. I'd just keep an eye on the other dancers and try to copy they're style. If your club is high-contact, guys are probably trying you out and then decided they don't want to spend more money based on your dance style. That's what I think it may be.

    I mean, there is a whole lot to be said for the hustle tips on here, and ways to phrase things, but the truth of the matter is, sometimes it's simpler than that when it comes to the male mind.
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