I find myself sitting at the bar sometimes too... and I immediately think of SW and the tips against it.lol.
When I approach someone and they ask me to come back later... I rarely ever actually go back.
I find myself sitting at the bar sometimes too... and I immediately think of SW and the tips against it.lol.
When I approach someone and they ask me to come back later... I rarely ever actually go back.
i sit and talk to the dj too long
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Mine is pointing out everything wrong and how bad I suck at table dances. I have no confidence in myself when I can't dance on a couch.
I'm gonna get over that and work it tonight!



not asking for multiples.
this is one i always regret.
after one dance if im to tired i wont ask for another dance ill just get dressed, when i know i could do more if i really just pushed myself.
sometimes im too sweaty and think the guy wont like it but i know i should just try to ask.





I'm always sweating and I've never had a guy say that is wasn't sexy, or laugh and say "trust me, I don't care". Or if they comment on it I'll say "I know! I'm working hard for you!"



sitting at the bar, sometimes i just need a drink and i dont want to talk to anyone for 5 minutes so its a refresher sometimes. not approaching everyone and judging a book by its cover. although in my defense my money radar has been on overdrive lately so its been saving me the rejection from someone who is just there to dick around.




When its slow, and i see guys consistantly turning the other girls down, its hard for me to actaully close. I can be social with them, but i can't make myself ask for that dance.
Or worse yet-the timing of when they're there eating, or have just gotten there...I can go, talk, use some of the more obtuse lines, and then end with "i'll check on you in a bit". And when i come back, some girl is sitting with them, talking whiole their mouth is full, and no sooner is the plate empty, then she's leading him back to the couches.
I feel like i try to close too fast, because i am TERRIBLE at small talk, even in persona. My body language is great, but my words don't live up, aside from the predecided hustle lines.
my worst habit is leaving at 2am instead of 4am on a friday and saturday... about half the girls go home at this time and there is always more money to be made at the end of the night... in fact, this weekend i vow to stay till the bitter end both nights lol...
i also compare myself to other girls at times if they are making more money than i am... i take it personally when it seems like every other girl is getting dances except me!! i know this is stupid, because it makes me lose my confidence and then it is hard to get the night back on track.
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^True for me too..I dunno what it is...when I am making money, that's when I get tired and sleepy and wanna go home. If I barely have $200 I'm willing to work and hustle hard until the club closes and all the customers have left the building. How backwards!
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i'm sure my worst hustle downfall is giving up too early. i spend a couple songs with a customer and if it isn't 100% apparent he's going to spend money, i'm out. even if there's 0 other customers to talk to, i'm out. i swear my patience gets shorter every time i work.
i'm also working under a self-imposed "0 tolerance for assholes" rule. i used to "put up" with rude guys. you know, stick it out so i could make money. now it's like, the customer says one thing that i find insulting or condescending and i'm walking away.
it's not that those are -entirely- bad things. i just... wish i could land somewhere in the middle of tolerance. heh





I need to start implying the 0 tolerance for assholes as well. Hell, I may even tell them I'm leaving bc I have a 0 tolerance for assholes.
Another thing that I do is put up with touchy feely guys. *knock on wood* every once and a while I'll get a very hands on customer. I try to be cute and have them stop the behavior, but I usually give up if I feel they are going to spend more..and ummm they never do. So now, I'm gonna also let them know I have a 0 tolerance for assholes!!
Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"





^Well, last week when I was doing a dance this young guy was like, man I just wanna lick your boobs. He eased in to do it..i moved away and laughed shaking my head.
Him: what you smiling about sexy
Me: *giggles* nothing I just had a thought
Him: Tell me
Me: Well, I was just gonna tell you that if you lick my boobs I'm going to taser your balls. And yes I do have one in my locker
Him: Dam sexy and I believe you too lol
He was a perfect gentleman after that..even bought another lol
Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"




Also guilty of this. Did it again last night and lost money.
Another thing, i'm not sure if this is a bad habit or not; not asking for tips. I used to be dead against it and thought it was tacky, but it seems like most girls do so I'm trying to but still not comfortable doing it.



my bad habit is i don't hustle guys off my rack. i know it's so easy, and they obviously like me since they're sitting and tipping at my rack, but for some strange reason i fear rejection from these guys the most. i have no problem going up to a random guy at a table and hustling. weird. i know i would probably make easy money off them. tonight i'm gonna make a point to ask every guy sitting at my rack for a dance before i get off stage.
Smoke too many cigs when it's slow, and since I work in AZ this wastes not only the 10 minute cig, but the time it takes to make myself look/smell fresh again once I'm inside. And by this time all I wanna do it sit and drink water because a cigarette in 110 degrees isn't exactly the most enjoyable thing.




I spend entirely too much time in the dressing room. I have to freshen up, I need a break, it's dead so it's better than sitting around looking bored when custies get here, it's really busy so I feel intimidated, etc. Excuses.
Worst one by far is lack of confidence. Constantly comparing myself to other girls in looks, personality, or number of dances and deciding that I don't measure up. Sometimes I won't approach obvious good spenders because I'm thinking "Well, he's obviously got a lot of money, so he can take his pick of any girl here - there's no way he'll want me." Even though I know logically that all customers have their pick of any girl in the club. And I feel less nervous approaching non-spenders, because I think they will reject everyone no matter what and if they turn me down, it is because they are tightwads, not because they don't like me.
Also, I'm not so great at the whole precisely-channeling small talk into asking for a dance. My small talk kinda meanders around and I find myself either asking too soon, waiting too long to ask, or just changing subjects abruptly in the middle of the conversation and asking. Gah! Social skills and self esteem, that's what I need.




Actually, I'll put in a good word for sitting around. ("?!?" you say. "This girl must be crazy!")
-- well, see, I've worked a couple of clubs lately which have reeeeeeeaaally long shifts and where the atmosphere is the kind where guys don't buy dances until they're good and drunk.
This is new to me since at home I work day shifts in small clubs, where older, mostly sober guys are the major dance-buyers, and a slow room does NOT mean nobody's buying, but it's very different in the other, larger type of clubs; they seem to have very specific patterns. The first time I worked in such a club, I exhausted myself running around the room for the first three hours trying to chase down losers who'd only brought the two dollars in their pocket for a beer, and it was a total disaster.
I'm older and calmer now, and I know how to read a guy and a room a lot more efficiently than I used to. That doesn't mean I won't ask when it's slow, but it does mean that after I've talked to, sized up and briefly hustled every guy in there, if I haven't got a hit, I'll sit down with a book and conserve my energy instead of panicking. And I'll pick a time at which my "real shift" starts, based on what I know about the activity curve of the club, and when that time comes around, I'll be out on the floor working the room.
I guess the bad hustle habit in my anecdote is going in with the wrong expectations, and not being able to change my behavior to suit the situation.
I'd say my worst habit these days is trying to close too fast. That and worrying about what the other girls are doing.![]()
I had a remarkably bad week this week and of course immediately decided to make it worse by doing everything I know I shouldn't do - mainly sitting too long with customers and getting irritated at them when they are irritating. Which of course, just makes it worse. I will do better when I go back.
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth
OMG talk about the best comment EVER! HAHAHA....I was just talking to my friend about this the other day. I so wish I had a tazer for work!! "Back off, motherfuckers!" *buzzbuzz* I'm so using your comment though!
The other day the attempted boob lick happened to me during a $7 table dance. I was like "Hey big boy, I'd be careful if I were you. My bf just came all over my tits before work!"
"Thats rude"
"Hows it rude? I'm telling you beforehand, in case you don't want to taste his cum"
"I said its GROSS"
I actually got that somewhere on SW
Sitting at the bar alone. Asking for dances too soon.
Originally Posted by ViolaStrings
Move on, move forward. There's a rainbow of cocks out there.
*I gotta remember this!*
Haha i love this thread.....it's good to hear that there are girls with the same "bad" habits as i did when i worked at the Wild Orchid in Reno for a year. I would only go in on the weekends mostly when the club is packed not only with guys but at most times around 60 house dancers whom most were really amazing hustlers....ha I always get to into talking to a guy for to long or sitting in the corner/the dressing room or i would get stuck with a really cool group of guys and forget i was there to work.





I thought about this last night but never posted: One of my other bad habits (I won't necessarily call it a hustle habit) is I need to realize that not all customers want to know that I'm in college. Especially not the ones with mediocre jobs or those who have never been to college. I think it makes some men more uncomfortable.
So, from now on when they ask what I do "besides this" I'm gonna say something quirky like, "Oh I just have sex and go shopping every day"
Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"
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