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    Its was very strange....this is my first day working in a bigger club in pittsburgh. I started at 3....it was very slow....10 girls and about 8 customers.... i wasn't exactly sure how to talk to guys and i got nervous (even after reading my ass off in hustle hut and the newbie forums)...for some reason, it was easier in my head that it was when i actually had to put what i learned into practice.

    Then when i finally got my first lap dance...they kept trying to grab me and touch me....and they kept bouncing up and down...they were dirty and disrespectful....i thought this was supposed to be an upscale club....but it seemed like the guys in there were very disrespectful...not upscale clients....

    Maybe its because it was sunday and no cover charge....

    I was skipped once in the rotation of going up on stage....so i missed out on alot of money because this group of guys wanted to see just me on stage...and the had to leave be4 i could even got there.... and when i finally go on stage the only 4 guys at the tip rail ALL GET UP as soon as i get on stage...and got stand 4 feet away from the tip rail...not only was i upset but also a lil embarassed...on of the girls came and gave me a dollar to make me feel better..... By 11 oclock (the time my shift was supposed to be over)... i hadn't even made 100 dollars after i did my tip out. I was BLOWN!

    So i stayed...i went on stage 2 more times.... made about 35 dollars from those 2 times....and then i just got down from the stage and just let go...i just said "fuck this shit" and started to act crazy...i would just walk to a couple guys and act ditzy and then as for a dance....surpisingly this got me like 5 dances....on guy i walked up to by accident...i confused him with anouther guy that said he wanted a dance later...so i just walked up to him (not having talked to him be4) and said "you ready for a dance now?" and he said "yea!"....i was shocked after i realised he was the wrong guy lol...but he gave me 2 dances and a tip. I did a couple more guys who were "not upscale clients" and a lil aggressive.... but i came out with 7 dancers like that....i ended the night with a dance for this guy who never had a lap dance before...it was cute

    thank god i didn't leave at 11....because i would have only left with 90 something dollars instead of the 300 i left with.....

    i don't know whether to call this a good or bad first day. But there it is. Sorry if i wasted anyone's time with this little story....but i wanted to share





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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Mia Roberts View Post
    i wasn't exactly sure how to talk to guys and i got nervous (even after reading my ass off in hustle hut and the newbie forums)...for some reason, it was easier in my head that it was when i actually had to put what i learned into practice.
    That was how I was, for the first week or so. The first week I just made my money off guys asking me. Week two, I finally got brave enough to try out some "hustle" techniques when things were slow. Give yourself some time, it was your first day at a new club - you need to get acclimated!

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    they were dirty and disrespectful....i thought this was supposed to be an upscale club....but it seemed like the guys in there were very disrespectful...not upscale clients....

    Maybe its because it was sunday and no cover charge....
    Even upscale clubs get the disrespectful guys. My club is "upscale" as well, but I have had several jackasses on occasion. I think this is common. I wouldn't stand for anyone bouncing me and up and down though - what did you do? Next time, be very firm about telling them NO. I would be very firm about what you will/won't put up with. My first 2 weeks, I think I probably let too many things slide, because I was so new and clueless (which I still am, of course), but I'm learning to be firm and stand up for myself.

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    I was skipped once in the rotation of going up on stage....so i missed out on alot of money because this group of guys wanted to see just me on stage...and the had to leave be4 i could even got there....
    Did you asked to be skipped? I was so nervous about going on the stage the first few shifts, I was always trying to find ways to get skipped (or asking for them to skip me). Then I realized, stage isn't so bad. A lot of times, guys will see you when they otherwise may not have - and not only tip you, but want you to dance for them when you get down. After stage rotation is the best time for dances in my opinion, so far.

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    thank god i didn't leave at 11....because i would have only left with 90 something dollars instead of the 300 i left with.....
    $300 is good! I'm glad you stayed to! I think you are going to do really well. The days I want to go home, I try to stick it out for at least another hour. An extra hour can turn a so-so shift, into an awesome one.
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    Some days start out like shit and end up being gold! The important thing is that you didn't give up and kept going.

    You're going to have to deal with assholes and jerks no matter what type of club you work in. After awhile you'll learn how to handle grabby guys better. The more guys got touchy feely with me the farther away I'd dance for the. And don't be afraid to be assertive and tell a guy no if he does something you're not comfortable with. Tell them nicely that if they continue you'll end the dance, if they're moving around tell them they'll enjoy the dance more if they let you do all the work.

    Congrats an making it through your first night there!

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    when guys wanna put you on stage tell them to tip dj 5 dollars and he'll do it

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    Did you asked to be skipped? I was so nervous about going on the stage the first few shifts, I was always trying to find ways to get skipped (or asking for them to skip me). Then I realized, stage isn't so bad. A lot of times, guys will see you when they otherwise may not have - and not only tip you, but want you to dance for them when you get down. After stage rotation is the best time for dances in my opinion, so far.
    No i didn't ask to be skipped....going on stage was the only time during the whole night that i felt really comfortable....when i'm on stage, i have fun and i don;t worry about anything.... but its different when i'm on hte floor and i'm looking at 30 other girls chattin up most of the customers....i was just stumped

    And i already know now how catty its gonna be to work there...i was chatting with this guy and these two girls walk right over and interrupt me.....she gives the guy her friend and sits her down on the other side of him...i was PISSED...but more than that i was shocked....i didn't know the girls were so blatantly rude about it

    I did meet a handful of nice girls... I'm still a lil weary of making "friends", but there are 3 girls that stick out in y mind as being particularly kind to me...





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    Quote Originally Posted by txchick008 View Post

    Even upscale clubs get the disrespectful guys. My club is "upscale" as well, but I have had several jackasses on occasion. I think this is common. I wouldn't stand for anyone bouncing me and up and down though - what did you do? Next time, be very firm about telling them NO. I would be very firm about what you will/won't put up with. My first 2 weeks, I think I probably let too many things slide, because I was so new and clueless (which I still am, of course), but I'm learning to be firm and stand up for myself.
    when they started to bounce up and down, I just stood up and danced around in front of them like that was part of my routine...i was so shocked and disgusted....i mean, even in the crappy clubs where i made barely any money...most of the guys were more respectful then that...next time...i'm not having it....but i was just so over whelmed by the whole night that i didn't really know how to react to almost anything

    The only thing i would NOT let them do is grab me...every guy that tried to grab me, i told them that if they couldn't stop touching me...i would have to stop....one guy said that he didn't want the lap dance if he couldn't touch me....i said "fine", and gave him is money back.





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    If they are spending money, we don't call them stalkers. We call them Regulars.
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    LMAO!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by txchick008 View Post

    $300 is good! I'm glad you stayed to! I think you are going to do really well. The days I want to go home, I try to stick it out for at least another hour. An extra hour can turn a so-so shift, into an awesome one.
    Thank you....i hope i do too. All the girls said this was a horrible night. So hopefully i will do better on a good night...and this wasn't just luck





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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan-Va View Post
    Some days start out like shit and end up being gold! The important thing is that you didn't give up and kept going.

    You're going to have to deal with assholes and jerks no matter what type of club you work in. After awhile you'll learn how to handle grabby guys better. The more guys got touchy feely with me the farther away I'd dance for the. And don't be afraid to be assertive and tell a guy no if he does something you're not comfortable with. Tell them nicely that if they continue you'll end the dance, if they're moving around tell them they'll enjoy the dance more if they let you do all the work.

    Congrats an making it through your first night there!
    I just gotta give it just a couple more days...get used to everything...learn the ropes... Then i can be more assertive...





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    Quote Originally Posted by happygiggles View Post
    when guys wanna put you on stage tell them to tip dj 5 dollars and he'll do it
    That's a really really good idea...i think i'm gona try that next time...





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    Quote Originally Posted by txchick008 View Post
    Even upscale clubs get the disrespectful guys. My club is "upscale" as well, but I have had several jackasses on occasion. I think this is common. I wouldn't stand for anyone bouncing me and up and down though - what did you do? Next time, be very firm about telling them NO. I would be very firm about what you will/won't put up with.
    I hate that bouncing bs. What are they, pervy Santa? If you're acting ditzy (which I know I AM at work), tell them they aren't a rollercoaster/boat/pony and act like you're going to fall and get up. Or tell them you've had a lot to drink. Ask if they're 'dancing with you'. Makes them feel stupid. Or at least confused.

    Sounds like you're on the right path though! Ditziness sells!

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseLeigh View Post
    I hate that bouncing bs. What are they, pervy Santa? If you're acting ditzy (which I know I AM at work), tell them they aren't a rollercoaster/boat/pony and act like you're going to fall and get up. Or tell them you've had a lot to drink. Ask if they're 'dancing with you'. Makes them feel stupid. Or at least confused.

    Sounds like you're on the right path though! Ditziness sells!
    Lmao....pervy santa

    for the advice...i might use that, and if a joke doesn't work...i'll just tell him thats its hurting or something

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Mia Roberts View Post
    Lmao....pervy santa

    for the advice...i might use that, and if a joke doesn't work...i'll just tell him thats its hurting or something

    (btw, why didn't anyone tell me that rubbing bare vajayjay on jeans was sooo uncomfortable??)

    mmm- cause you're not suppose to rub your bare vajajay on jeans- its just an illusion. you're suppose to use your butt cheeks if you must, or your thigh
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    Quote Originally Posted by saphire123456 View Post
    mmm- cause you're not suppose to rub your bare vajajay on jeans- its just an illusion. you're suppose to use your butt cheeks if you must, or your thigh
    oh crap....well, i feel dumb

    maybe they should offer lap dance classes....





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    Personally I applaud you for sticking it out - some girls would have given up early in the evening and just called it a shitty night. Congrats to you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arizona_Angel View Post
    Personally I applaud you for sticking it out - some girls would have given up early in the evening and just called it a shitty night. Congrats to you!
    Thank you! that makes me feel so much better about my first day to hear things like that. I'm even more determined for tonight now!





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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Mia Roberts View Post
    Lmao....pervy santa

    for the advice...i might use that, and if a joke doesn't work...i'll just tell him thats its hurting or something

    (btw, why didn't anyone tell me that rubbing bare vajayjay on jeans was sooo uncomfortable??)
    Yeah, I always start with a joke and then lay down the law if they don't listen.

    Use a cloth between your bits and their jeans if you club allows it. Some guys will try to 'position' your bits on their jeans. Fuck that. Most important thing to learn at a contact club-don't let the guys push you around, physically or otherwise. Turn around and use your butt if you want to grind. If front straddling is common in your club, you don't WANT to rub your bits on them once everyone else has! Lean back so it's still your butt on them. We need to make an instructional video.

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    congrats! it sounds like you adjusted very well and managed to hustle em. When I start having a shitty night I always try soooo hard not to let it get me down... so I'm so glad you stuck it out and made some extra cash. In the end it all pays off. We all have our good and bad nights.

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    Congrats. sounds like you did well in the end. hopefully the next couple shifts will get better for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Mia Roberts View Post
    when they started to bounce up and down, I just stood up and danced around in front of them like that was part of my routine...i was so shocked and disgusted....i mean, even in the crappy clubs where i made barely any money...most of the guys were more respectful then that...next time...i'm not having it....but i was just so over whelmed by the whole night that i didn't really know how to react to almost anything

    The only thing i would NOT let them do is grab me...every guy that tried to grab me, i told them that if they couldn't stop touching me...i would have to stop....one guy said that he didn't want the lap dance if he couldn't touch me....i said "fine", and gave him is money back.
    Did you already start the dance? if so, why, pray tell, did you give him his money back? I would consider it the 'asshole tax' and kept it.

    Keep us updated on Blush. I was thinking of auditioning there in the future, as money has gotten sucky about an hour and a half south of you.

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    ^^

    Absolutely. No way would I have given him the $20 back just because he said he "didn't want it if he couldn't touch". That's not part of the deal. Once you pay me, and I start dancing - you aren't getting your money back. ESPECIALLY if it's because, "you can't touch".

    That was way too nice of you! He sounds like a total jerk.
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    Hey there! Good job. First off,your first night sounds like a typical night for a dancer in any club. Only you did good -$300 on a sunday ,for a first night is exceptional. (This area is dry and bad right now-but that is good money for this area regardless). so you did good!!!! Dancers from Blush have told me that they have a hard time making that amount on weekends sometimes.

    The men trying to grab and move around is a given at most places. I let them know "hey! i do the lap dancing here, let ME do my thing while YOU just Enjoy" if they move around too pervy. And youll learn "defensive dance" moves,lol. I tend to keep moving in my dances as it limits those pervy boucers interactions w/ my body.

    Stage rotation is an interesting thing. Getting skipped at prime times happens and it also sucks to go onstage after the huge crowd has left :0(

    Im most impressed that you knew enough to stay AND adapt your hustle to make that money. I always go in on day shift and stay until later in case i need more $.

    You did great! I think youre gonna be fine :0)

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrawberrySwitchblade View Post
    Did you already start the dance? if so, why, pray tell, did you give him his money back? I would consider it the 'asshole tax' and kept it.

    Keep us updated on Blush. I was thinking of auditioning there in the future, as money has gotten sucky about an hour and a half south of you.

    I didn't start the dance...he tried to grab me before the dance even started...and i told him thats not allowed and i don't feel comfortable...so he said he didn't want it. And that happen to me TWICE again my second night...it pisses me off...because that means there are girls in there letting them grab all over their tits and ass..and thats why they think its okay...so when somebody actually follows the rules and doesn't stand for it...they leave and find girls that will....they think they aren't getting thier moneys worth....but i don't even care...touching me like that is not even worth it...it makes me feel cheap, and it makes me dislike dancing....





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    Quote Originally Posted by cadencetyme View Post
    Hey there! Good job. First off,your first night sounds like a typical night for a dancer in any club. Only you did good -$300 on a sunday ,for a first night is exceptional. (This area is dry and bad right now-but that is good money for this area regardless). so you did good!!!! Dancers from Blush have told me that they have a hard time making that amount on weekends sometimes.

    The men trying to grab and move around is a given at most places. I let them know "hey! i do the lap dancing here, let ME do my thing while YOU just Enjoy" if they move around too pervy. And youll learn "defensive dance" moves,lol. I tend to keep moving in my dances as it limits those pervy boucers interactions w/ my body.

    Stage rotation is an interesting thing. Getting skipped at prime times happens and it also sucks to go onstage after the huge crowd has left :0(

    Im most impressed that you knew enough to stay AND adapt your hustle to make that money. I always go in on day shift and stay until later in case i need more $.

    You did great! I think youre gonna be fine :0)
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    LMAO!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by veronicachick View Post
    congrats! it sounds like you adjusted very well and managed to hustle em. When I start having a shitty night I always try soooo hard not to let it get me down... so I'm so glad you stuck it out and made some extra cash. In the end it all pays off. We all have our good and bad nights.
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    Congrats. sounds like you did well in the end. hopefully the next couple shifts will get better for you.





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    LMAO!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseLeigh View Post
    Most important thing to learn at a contact club-don't let the guys push you around, physically or otherwise. Turn around and use your butt if you want to grind. If front straddling is common in your club, you don't WANT to rub your bits on them once everyone else has! Lean back so it's still your butt on them. We need to make an instructional video.
    Ooo, ooo, can we? I've been looking for an excuse to buy a video camera!

    OP, Sounds like you did really well- and a lot of guys will sense "fresh meat", and be extra pushy, since a lot of new girls don't know how to say no. (Not every girl is an SWer!) Just remember, inside every man is an obnoxious child just waiting for something sparkly to grab at. You have to give them boundaries, just like kids.

    I use the "three strikes" rule- first time, I just move their hand firmly. Second time, I crack a joke about it, waggle my finger and say "well behaved boys get better dances!" (got that one off SW!), and the third time my voice drops out of "stripper talk" and you have a little "come-to-Jesus-quit-touching-me-or-I'll-break-your-fingers-and-then-security-will-smack-you-with-the-pavement-a-few-times" talk with them. They usually get it, I've yet to have to end a dance.

    But really, it's your body, and if your club is one-way contact, those are the rules they have to stick by, and it's totally fine to humiliate them if they break them. Especially if you already have their money.
    Haikus are easy,
    But sometimes they don't make sense:
    Refrigerator.


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