Sorry you had a bad night Mia.
If you're going to decide to do this job you've got to learn to take the good with the bad. Bad $$ nights, asshole custies, they'll be there, but there will be great guys and good money too.
It takes time to develop that tough stripper skin. There are things that I've had happen to me, seen, experienced that I can deal with, almost just shrug off that would have sent me cyring and running out of the club when I first started dancing.
*had a drunk pull his dick out in VIP. I turned around, stood there and very calmly said to put Mr. Happy away, dude was like "huh? OK". I continued the dance. The bouncer asked me why I didn't tell him and have him kicked out. I told him it wasn't the first dick I've ever seen and he put it away, if he hadn't, then I would have called for him.
*I used to be so pissed off at extras girls. I let what they were doing consume me when ever I worked with them. Then I realized that there are always going to be girls, at every club, who are willing to do more than what is allowed. At my club these girls don't end up staying long and they didn't have the repeat clientelle that me and the other clean dancers had.
*Just because a club is the number one club doesn't mean it's good for me. I've worked in upscale clubs where the staff are the biggest assholes, the girls the worst and the customers just plain gross and disrespectful.
*Girls are gonna do drugs, I've made where I stand on that matter perfectly clear, the ones that know that I'm not gonna narc on them, their life, their business, have respected my request not to do it in front of me.
You've made the decision to get into a tough line of work. Being new to this I would say don't give up yet. But if you find that after awhile things still get to you, it may not be the career for you. Dancing can be a great job and provide great opportunties for you. I wouldn't trade my stripping career for anything. It's been a great ride, bumpy but great.
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